| preemiemom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/26/08 06:12 AM |
Re: Then your statement should be qualified
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[quote]No, I agree with you...having said that, if the CS order is too high, it is on the NCP to seek to have it changed. [/quote]
True. However, it is not always as easy to modify CS as most would suggest.
We DID try. Things are not the same everywhere, and HERE, the courts do NOT typically grant modifications. It assumes that your setback today, will be balanced by your gain down the road and they don't want to see you back and forth in court adjusting CS up and down. It will all balance out to be fair, in time.
And I have to say.. it's kinda true. While ex's CS would have dropped significantly for x period of time. Here he is now, paying on $48K of income when he makes $55K.
Relative to our case, when I use the example of what he "should" pay for our daughter, the calculation, versus reality, is impossible to meet. Or at least not and have the NCP be able to live.