| Redlegg |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 12/01/11 08:06 AM |
Re: OT-Sperm stolen, twins born....
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So you have wanted to have children with EVERYONE you have EVER had sex with?
So you have not wanted to support every child you helped create?
Neither are fair questions.
What happens to the child in real time. She is sleazy, who knows, maybe she had a collection of condoms in the deep freeze, waited until she found the best prospect for getting support, and chose accordingly, who knows, she is beyond sleazy. But the one thing that does not change is that there is a child in the world created by two people. Willingly or not, the child is here. The whole women get to choose, abortion, etc, does not apply because the child exists. So what is the answer, what should a person do, when they have a child they are responsible for, as in they created them. Best case scenario to right this wrong is to give the deceived party custody. The decieved party has options at that point, that does not mean that taxpayers support the child, or the deceived parent has to cut a check to the deceiver. I think the deceiver should lose the right to custody, through their deception. As a person, i would want custody to raise my child. Someone else may make the decision to put the child up for adoption. The child can go to a loving home with parents who will raise and love them. The child is not a burden on the taxpayers, and there was a free choice involved by the deceived party.
I do not think denying the deceived party a choice in the matter is fair. But regardless of the fairness, the priority is the child, and there are options available under current law to right this wrong. Criminally, I have no idea, but when it comes to the child, it can be righted.