finz
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
03/20/12 12:15 AM
Re: WWYD?

My dog is my baby girl.

I cry when I have to leave her at a kennel, which I never did when leaving my boys (technically human) at day care.

That said, if I won a free Caribbean cruise leaving tomorrow, my dog would be in the kennel so fast it would make her head spin !

If your dh goes to this without you and had a medical emergency where he had to be hospitalized there......Would you find someone to take care of the dogs or would you wait until dh was able to be discharged to see him ?

If the perfect vacation (I've skipped some vacation options because I don't want to leave my girl) or a family crisis can't drag you away from the dogs, then you have an excuse to skip this event. If you would arrange for their care under different circumstances, then it is a "diss" to skip this milestone in your ss's life.

I'd be tempted to skip the passive aggressive and go for assertive aggressive here......your sd's can't really afford to go and don't seem to be overly employed. I'd offer to pay one of them $50 a day to watch the dogs while you are gone. If either still owe your dh money, HE should be insisting on that.



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