Sorry for the delay in posting again. Thank you for your comments Gecko. Dh or I never wanted her to stand in court and admit her faults. DH also never went into this wanting anything more than to change residental custody so that the boys could stay in one school. He had no plans on having visitation set the way it is. The courts set it. He had a parenting plan set for mediation and was shocked when his lawyer told him it was over. Thats when he found out she never meet with the gal or went to court.

DH will only carry the load of communication with her. I am there for everything else. There is too much of a history between BM and I to ask for her to act like an adult around me. It keeps the drama at the lowest level with us not talking. There is a ton of hate that flows from her side and none from me. DH is releaved that they do still have joint custody.

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