| elliesmom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 04/26/12 10:52 AM |
Re: OT Counseling
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Yes, and then you never have to see them again. Char doesn't have that luxury. Her husband wants a relationship with his kids.
I am glad your therapist seems to have a handle on both issues. That part of the problem is your DH is lenient with his needy kids (cares too much if you will). The other part is your perspective is distorted by your own upbringing which was completely opposite (not enough care and nurturing).
Good Luck. Changing your perspective and inner monologue is hard work, maybe even embarrassing to be that brutally honest with a stranger to get help, but totally worth it.