Thanks Char.. I appreciate that.. I've taken the road I have largely because you and I? Have VERY similar "issues" ;) In marrying ex? I basically married a male version of my mother.. emotionally speaking. He just hid it REALLLYYYY well and by the time the red flags really started appearing? I was already pregnant and getting married. I came THISCLOSE to cancelling our wedding. In hindsight? I should have.
Moving ahead to now.. My current situation is going to become a lot like yours. One of "those" mothers.. emotionally needy.. will use the kids to play victim.. Yadda yadda yadda yadda. Should be fun, but I'm very well prepared for it now, lol.
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