| elliesmom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/07/12 02:35 PM |
Re: SS Graduation Update
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I hope you know it wasn't a "get over it" kind of thing. But in a way - I encourage you to look at it again.
Even if you took something from her (BM) that she cherished and in no way did anything to lose, then what? Is your sole purpose in life to torture yourself? Is it made better if you only allow yourself a little happiness? Do you, when wronged by people, take pleasure in their misfortune and thusly you must torture yourself to give BM the pleasure you feel she deserves?
You realize that all of those statements - none of it was actually about BM. It was all about how YOU feel and YOU perceive things. Change YOU - and you change the situation entirely. You get one shot at this life. Good luck.