| finz |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/17/12 02:13 AM |
Re: Grand gesture from BM
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I'm on team Gecko on this one. I would keep things on a VERY superficial/light note for quite awhile with bm while continuing to work on your own stuff with the counselot....and then planning what points you want to make and how you want to phrase them with the counselor before dishing it out with bm.
You are too raw and bm's change of heart is too new.
What if she does a 180 turn in the middle of the conversation ? Will you start crying/yelling/ or otherwise lose your cool ?
What if this is a set up to get dirt to twist the facts and relationships later on ?
I'd tread VERY carefully here.