Maybe, I was looking at it all wrong. I was looking at BM through the eyes of my mother, with bias and hate. I didn't see her as a "person", I saw her as competition. Talking to her will help, and if not then so be it. I will have said my piece and it will be done. She has never been nasty to me the past 5-7 years. IN fact, she talks to me quite easily. I had a colored perception of her based on what H told me. I need to form my own opinion; not what mum would have thought or what H thinks. I've spent too many friggin' years being "someone else". It is high time to be MYSELF. and have my OWN feelings, opinions not someone else's.
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Re: Grand gesture from BM