My SD's grandmother and husband (BM's Mom and StepDad) were just at our home over Memorial Day weekend. However, BM stopped speaking to her Mother 7 years ago and SD a little over 2 years ago.
My brother whose X cheated on him with one of HIS co-workers gets along fantastically with his X inlaws. His new GF doesn't really like it, but he calls them "family". Actually some of his X in laws won't even speak to my brother's X or the guy she left him for, but love my brother. My brother, on of his parenting days, takes their kids over to see the X in law grandparents who are up in age because his X doesn't bother. He has a very close bond with them, BUT they were married for ten years (together for 15) and they treated my brother like their own.
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