matart1
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
07/05/06 03:45 PM
Re: Is it Time to Change Attorneys ??

your legal fees are over 30k because you have went through 3 lawyers and are considering a 4th, the divorce is dragging because you do not sound like you are even trying to compromise and you do not like the choices that have been giiven to you.

the choice you do have is to divorce with some dignity.
figure out up is to be divided fairly, mediate and move on and I suppose be happy that because of squabbling and being bitter your lawyers wife is more than likely sporting a new mink coat.
who knows, but dragging out a divorce like this only puts money in someone else's pockets and certainly not the people divorcing.

Also he just said that opposing counsel had written up a proposed financial settlement agreement (don't know the correct legal nomenclature) but he had not yet received it. I asked him why he did not write up his own settlement proposal for me and he said "It would save me in legal fees if opposing counsel wrote it up" I think he is being lazy.
Why wouldn't be write up his own settlement proposal for me?
***** he saved you money by letting the other party spend money in doing this.
***** you can pick at it after it has been written up.

the sad part is that you said you have not even been to court yet.

do you even have a plan B if the judge takes a look at what has been going on ad says you two children run aong and pay your own lawyers...



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