Wow...obviously some of your have never had anything really drastic happen in your life that would make you feel lost and confused and very discouraged. When you choose to become a SAHM, you're doing it for the family. To me there is nothing harder then that of a SAHM and I've worked since I was 16 and gone to school full-time while raising my two oldest as a single mom. I was not able to finish because of circumstances. I've been out of the work force for 6 years. The money that you make in your marriage, whether by the husband, wife or both is the "family's". That does not change after a divorce. When you have sacrificed earning an income it should be manditory that your family not suffer any extreme financialy hardship because of the divorce and the husband or wife (whichever brought the income) should have to compensate until the other is on their feet again. You come across as being very judgemental and in my experience, what comes around goes around. You should not be so incredibly harsh in your answer to a person who feels discouraged. This is not an employer..this is a family with children. They are the most important issue here and they need for their mom to be able to get on her feet for them. I'm in the same situation and I understand.
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Wow...I'm surprised by some of this advice