| Gecko |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 02/22/06 02:32 PM |
Re: Need advice
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I know I probably do get too worked up about the beer and the kids, but I think about what other people would think if they saw it.
---> So...tell them to mind their own freaking business!
I do get the short end of the straw here.....I have a 401K, he does not.
---> No...it is still marital property, no different that a regular savings account.
Now I can't even get anything on my own and he can. How is that fair?
---> Yeah it bites when you get screwed but that's the chance you take.
I'm stuck with his back taxes that he never wanted to file and pay.
---> So...if everything was in your name, why didn't they get filed and paid?
The house.....my dad's name is on it. Is half his and than half "ours" and that's what I have to split with him?
---> It depends. What was your father's contribution...was he strictly a co-signer on the loan; did he provide money for the down payment and if so, was it a "gift" or a "loan" and if it was a loan, what were the expections on repayment?
I don't want to "screw him over", but I do feel that I should get something for everything that I've gone through.
---> In other words, you want to be compensated for making a bad choice?