| Debbie_L |
| (Pooh-Bah) |
| 02/23/06 04:45 PM |
Re: Need advice
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He sounds like such a jerk I don't know how you've made it this long. He is very abusive. You both work full time, so how come he just gets to relax after work, but you are the slave? You probably will need counselling at some point to avoid getting yourself into these situations. Nobody should have been allowed to treat you like this for so long (or at all). You need to value yourself and never, ever let a man walk over you like this again. You have 2 very small children and you need to set this example for them. This is not the model of a healthy relationship, or healthy male/female roles to raise them with.
PS - I think a 6 pack of beer every night is definitely excessive.You are right to be concerned - not so much about what other people think, but about what this will do to your kids. I don't think it's healthy for kids to be around someone who "needs" that much booze every day. One or two beers is one thing - six beers a day is another.