bkj5138
(recently joined)
01/17/12 10:32 AM
My abusive husband

This is what my home life is like:

[censored]://[censored].youtube.com/watch?v=HhF8cYK2HhA


Maury
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
01/18/12 11:31 AM
Re: My abusive husband

I am not sure that the audio does much. It is one sided and appears edited, perhaps heavily. Where are the responsive comments? It is incomplete and out of context without complete audio.

Second, the reasons for posting it are somewhat fuzzy. Is it to vilify the other parent? Embarrass them? If so, it is probably a poor motive and not one that is beneficial to children involved. If there are parenting issues, such recordings are best reserved for court use in their entirety. Posting in a public forum can be very bad idea that could backfire in Court.


bkj5138
(recently joined)
01/18/12 07:49 PM
Re: My abusive husband

Thanks for your reply. The audio is definitely edited, and I guess very biased. I cut out my voice because it is very distinctive, and I changed his voice so that it would be anonymous. I don't think even his closest friend would recognize it, because no one outside our home has ever heard him raging like that. Very Jekyll/Hyde. To be honest, I don't know why I finally posted this. I feel like I'm going crazy because everyone thinks he is the most wonderful person in the world, and I've always blamed myself in the past. I guess I'm hoping other people with similar situations might be able to give some advice. I don't want to go to court unless absolutely necessary. Thanks.

yregna
(veteran)
01/25/12 03:54 PM
Re: My abusive husband

So as long as he pays all the bills, you didn't mind, but now that you might have to work and pay for yourself, you want out ?
Is that the situation ?


bkj5138
(recently joined)
01/30/12 02:26 PM
Re: My abusive husband

I'm not sure what this has to do with it, but I work, and I actually make more money than he does.

bkj5138
(recently joined)
06/26/13 05:31 AM
Re: My abusive husband

I accidentally deleted the video, and have reposted it here:

https[censored][censored].youtube.com/watch?v=nt0KdbsLwI8

I've gotten a lot of good feedback from others in the same situation, both men and women.


finz
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
06/26/13 01:19 PM
Re: My abusive husband

I thought you had already gotten the idea that we aren't interested.

If you need the more direct approach......no one here has had good feedback for you. Your video got one pity look over 1.5 years ago. Other than that, it appears no one here is interested.

Most of us aren't going to blindly follow links given to us by total strangers. If you have a question or topic that you want to discuss, start a conversation here.


bkj5138
(recently joined)
07/12/13 10:21 PM
Re: My abusive husband

I was hoping the video would generate some interesting discussion. I think a lot of people don't realize just how damaging verbal abuse in the home can be, particularly when there are children.

finz
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
07/15/13 12:34 AM
Re: My abusive husband

Most of us aren't going to blindly follow links given to us by total strangers.


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