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Got engaged Xmas Eve
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stbx is pissed but who cares....had my Santa time with kids and didnt bring them home til after 12...
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PrincessJ
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01/02/08 12:04 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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You got engaged? Aren't you still married?
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1004SRS
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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01/02/08 01:35 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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Yes, he is. What a great guy.
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PrincessJ
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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01/02/08 01:56 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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Oh, FFS....
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Reilly
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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01/02/08 08:58 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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Boy is HIS new wife lucky....
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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yes she is and i'm very lucky to have her too!
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Goodmom
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01/03/08 05:57 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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[quote]yes she is and i'm very lucky to have her too! [/quote]
She's not going to feel very lucky after she realizes how much child support and alimony you will be paying. In fact, if I were first wife (and I am glad I am not), I wouldn't ever remarry. For as long as the two of you have been married, she's looking at a minimum of 10 years of alimony.
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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ny rehabilitative alimony is 5 yrs!
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Relayer
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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01/06/08 06:38 AM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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[quote]ny rehabilitative alimony is 5 yrs! [/quote]
Huh? Who told ya that? Not that [censored] lawyer of yours again I hope.
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emilar
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01/06/08 01:04 PM
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Re: Got engaged Xmas Eve
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AND A SUCKER FOR PUNISHMENT..
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5 years....
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to become self supporting...then alimony ends according to my lawyer!
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Goodmom
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(Pooh-Bah)
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01/06/08 03:42 PM
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Re: 5 years....
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You really have a lousy lawyer.
You are looking at at least TEN years.
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MsM
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01/26/08 11:57 AM
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Re: 5 years....
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I heard that in NY even if your spouse has a full time job, you have to pay alimony until either they drop dead or they remarry.
My mothers friend has a friend that lives in NY and his x wife is a college professor. He is paying alimony and is required to do so until she dies or remarries. She has a full time job, makes good money and STILL GETS ALIMONY. Isn't that nice.
Well anyway congratulations to you. Hope you two will be very happy together.
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Re: 5 years....
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yeah, what law says that in ny? alimony is until she becomes self supporting...the day she gets a job, alimony ends...5yrs is plenty of time in ny to become self supporting, dont matter how long you been married.
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Re: 5 years....
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Maybe the college professors husband is brain dead and doesnt realize he doesnt have to keep paying alimony!
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MsM
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01/26/08 04:44 PM
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Re: 5 years....
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Hahahaha maybe, this guy is 70 so maybe alzheimers has set in.
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Re: 5 years....
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unless I see a case law that says she'll get alimony for MORE than 5 yrs, then I'll believe it.
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BetsyR
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01/27/08 06:24 PM
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Re: 5 years....
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I'm so glad Stuck is on this board -- he's the funniest guy around! Keep posting, Stuck, we can all use a good laugh!
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Re: 5 years....
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but I'm the one laughing at you!
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MsM
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01/27/08 10:41 PM
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Re: 5 years....
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[quote]I'm so glad Stuck is on this board -- he's the funniest guy around! Keep posting, Stuck, we can all use a good laugh! [/quote]
Me too! I come in here just to see what he has to say next. He actually lifts my spirits :).
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Re: 5 years....
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she wants to take my Santa time away, she dont deserve more than 5 yrs.
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