(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 08:14 PM

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That sux, but really I can't think of a single thing you've posted that would be more useful than gossip. You are allowed to think or feel anything you like. All you have to answer for is the things you've actually done. Don't let it rattle you.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 08:20 PM

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I agree.

Just unfortunate what this board has become... :(

MrsB

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12/08/11 08:29 PM

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Was that supposed to be funny? Maybe you should reevaluate your sense of humor. Interesting choice of words, however.

Em and Cassie - thanks girls. Still an extremely violating feeling. However it is what it is. Just a shame when people forget we are all real people with real children, real feelings and real issues.

Dee78

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 09:18 PM

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It simply amazes me that people get THAT involved in a stranger's life that they would sink that low. It isn't the first time on this board and it probably won't be the last. I keep my distance and skim every now and then, it just isn't the same as it once was...not that it was ever really that great. I have "met" some great people on here and they are the reason I check in from time to time.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 09:39 PM

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I agree MrsB, there are some real scumbags on here. They stick out like sore thumbs. Feel sorry for them, pray for them and thank God you're not like them. Their lives suck, it's obvious, I can't imagine a life so full of void. You are a wonderful mother, beautiful, have a well behaved happy child, fabulous friends, cool parents, and a seriously hot hubby, they're just jealous. :) Carry on love, it drives them nuts!

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 10:55 PM

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So which hag was it?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 11:04 PM

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LOL......I call bs..... Board seems to be getting along.....no major drama, so in typical JL style, she tries to create it. Carry on....

finz

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/08/11 11:21 PM

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Sorry that you are dealing with this Mrs B

M5M5

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12/09/11 01:19 AM

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BAER. Grow up. She has a right to be angry.

BeckaLeigh

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12/09/11 02:17 AM

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Dang, people never fail to amaze me.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/09/11 02:43 AM

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THis is nothing new. Happens every so often. SHe comes here. Makes weird, vague accusations about people from her various boards stalking her or whatever. She gets the attention she desires and we fall for it every single time.

Gosh, I'd back away from this place quietly instead of flouncing loudly if I'd been harassed and stalked by people from here so often.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Isn't that how the old saying goes? Who's being fooled here?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 05:17 AM

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WOW- for someone who whines on your own posts when people don't get your vent...I'm surprised this is how you respond to someone else's own vent/horrible situation. Oh wait, I'm not surprised because that is typical SRS style.

In YOUR situation your children have been hurt, in Mrs.B situation the SAME- if some respect should be shown, maybe the time is now. Thanks.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 05:31 AM

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Many MANY people do the same and worse here. How many times has someone said in a huff they are never coming back, etc etc etc. yet they are here even years later? SEVERAL. JL has hardly posted on here in MONTHS. She's made friends here, why should she allow the freaks to win? They want her ran off.

You have done WAY worse on here. Heck, one person disagrees with you, you go off the deep end and call them stalkers. Pot, kettle?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 05:31 AM

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You said it better than I did!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 05:46 AM

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I would assume Mrs.B posed this as a warning to others... We come here to discuss our situation with the last person we assume will see it...our X's.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/09/11 06:25 AM

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Spinner - Great question. Why be so vague, if you are accusing someone of something so vile?

Why not contact them directly? or have your attorney contact them? Why come here right before Christmas and play victim?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 07:52 AM

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<<I would assume Mrs.B posed this as a warning to others... We come here to discuss our situation with the last person we assume will see it...our X's. >>

Pretty much. It's a shame anyone has to deal with this. I do not deserve to be messed with. Whoever is responsible has some serious issues.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 08:08 AM

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I tend to agree. I just don't get the obsession with her. I mean...whoever did it must have a sorry excuse for a life...I pity them.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 08:41 AM

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[quote]LOL......I call bs..... Board seems to be getting along.....no major drama, [/quote]

------------>> Seems odd anyone would do this NOW? I don't spend nearly as much time here as I used to, but what I do participate, I haven't noticed her even around much. Why would anyone here bother, at this juncture? Doesn't make any sense.

If it is true, it's very wrong and inappropriate and unfortunate she has to deal with it.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 08:59 AM

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So either say who it was, or drop the bullsh!t. this, "i know who it is but am not saying" is crap.

Avaya

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 09:04 AM

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[quote]I know who I am and the only ones I answer to are my son and my God. [/quote]

Not your husband? Hmmm.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 09:35 AM

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[quote]I know who I am and the only ones I answer to are my son and my God. [/quote]

Not your husband? Hmmm.

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Why the nitpicking of her posting? I just don't get it. SMH.

Spring

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12/09/11 10:19 AM

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"Why the nitpicking of her posting? I just don't get it. SMH."

bullies.

annieo

(veteran)

12/09/11 10:49 AM

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[quote][quote]I know who I am and the only ones I answer to are my son and my God. [/quote]

Not your husband? Hmmm.

Why the nitpicking of her posting? I just don't get it. SMH. [/quote]

I wondered the same thing - I did not think it nitpicking - maybe the hmmmmm implication did not need to be there but I did think it odd that the husband was left out?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:05 AM

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So either say who it was, or drop the bullsh!t. this, "i know who it is but am not saying" is crap.

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Yeah because the usual cowards on this board post under their real screen name with full disclosure... You know full name, aliases, address, phone number and license plate number. DUH.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:07 AM

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I wondered the same thing - I did not think it nitpicking - maybe the hmmmmm implication did not need to be there but I did think it odd that the husband was left out?

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Just a guess, but maybe she is upset and typing on her phone and forgot to mention her H? The nitpicking just reminds me of a bunch of gossipers with nothing else better to do...nitpicking at very single detail in a sentence that just says she puts her son and God first. The horrors!!! lol

(veteran)

12/09/11 11:14 AM

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I see some true colors are coming out here, not that they were hidden in the first place.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:31 AM

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(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:43 AM

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As one of the people that I assume she's making insinuations about, I don't particularly appreciate it. If that IS what she's insinuating, I suggest she back it up with proof of same, else STOP making the not-so-thinly veiled accusation.

Which is why I specifically made a VERY conscious effort to avoid the girl after the last round of insinuations. And to not spend so much time here myself. It's all crazy.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:57 AM

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Yes, but she does the SAME thing every time. Claims someone on here did something, then sits back and refuses to say who it is. And yes, while we may not know everyone's real name and address, if she KNOWS for a fact that a certain poster did it, it would be best to know who that poster is for future reference.

Honestly, I am sick of the games, don't take part in them.

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And that's fine, but there are a few who have been guilty of the same. Saying that someone sent them a PM or I received a PM stating such and such, but won't say who. You may have been guilty of the same?

I would assume if someone contacted her X about this site they were probably from this site. Given all the fake profiles...one would assume. I don't know, I read it as a warning for those of us who do post details to be careful on who we trust.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 12:04 PM

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Sucks that someone would contact him and direct him here. Scary. I mean, I'm not claiming anything false about my personal life on here, but some of what I say is not meant for BM to hear. It's sad that someone would violate that out of spite or revenge or jealousy or just plain ol' bitchiness.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 12:31 PM

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I recieved a PM from someone once, which I expressed to the board, and int eh SAME thread, when the majority of the board requested to know, I told them who it was.

Now JL is claiming she had someone contect her ex outside the board...but she won't tell. Sorry, that is kindergarten level bullsh!t.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 01:03 PM

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General reply to Mrs B: I understand you're upset, but posting this here and OTOB serves little purpose except to stir drama when things have been quiet, and honestly? You know that.

A)It's not a public service announcement that serves to warn anyone else - not when you won't name names, and not when people here already are very wary of each other. You've been around long enough to know that this group isn't going to change their behavior or who they trust based on innuendo, especially over another drama that revolves around you.

B)If it's not a PSA, then its to satisfy your own need to get the last word in. If that's what works for you, so be it. I doubt it got the reaction from the culprit you were hoping for though - they probably saw your post, laughed, and then felt satisfied that their arrow hit the mark.

Maybe its time to try something different: if you can't ignore the nonsense, confront the culprit. Handling this drama the same way over and over and over again isn't working; their actions are escalating. Bullies are cowards at the core, and there's nothing more cowardly than hiding behind a computer screen while wreaking havoc on someone's life. I say drag them out of the shadows and let them know you're not taking their crap quietly.

...I really don't get their attraction to you. I'd think a board member would've moved on to another poster by now, so their fixation with you makes me wonder if they know you IRL. Just my take on it.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 01:14 PM

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I don't see where she said she knows for a fact who it was. And absent that - what is there to do except hurl accusations around? Even if her ex knew who it was - I can't imagine he would tell her.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 01:31 PM

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It actually wasn't in the same thread, but my only point wasn't to bring up the details of that posting, but to specify that maybe people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 01:39 PM

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And people who suspect that others on this board have acted inappropriately need to TELL people who those posters are.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 01:45 PM

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[quote]I what is there to do except hurl accusations around? [/quote]

----------->> Don't mention it at all? What was the point of mentioning it, OTHER than to create drama? The reality is many people aren't even here that much anymore. Some people have been totally absent. Sooooo she's putting out a warning about people who.. don't come here anymore?? Or others who are here infrequently? What's the point?

Other than to create drama. And as I said, I for one, am tired of the not so veiled insinuations and I'm with whoever said if she's got an accusation to make, then come out with it. I have NOTHING to hide. To quote a Real Housewife, "bring it bytch!" But don't be a [censored] and hide behind this "well, SOMEONE did such and such, nah nah nah". I think Java made another excellent point.. I think MrsB VASTLY overestimates people's ACTUAL interest level in her. And for someone to go to that length, they'd likely be personally invested. That's not something a random stranger does. That's someone with a personal ax to grind. I HIGHLY doubt it was someone from any site, UNLESS it was someone who actually knew her, in real life. Friend, co-worker, whatever. But I think it's easier to blame a nameless, faceless person than to think someone you may trust in your actual life, has betrayed you.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 02:11 PM

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I can see that point too, however in my real life (as I can only speak of mine) no one (friends/co-workers, etc.) knows about this site. I have told no one except immediate family members and they would have no clue the name of the site unless they looked on my computer.

As for others maybe your friends and co-workers have been directed to this site by you. I have not, personally, done that. And I'm kind of glad :)

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 02:37 PM

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I like Java's post.... and I totally agree 100%.. very well said.
I again, call BS and frankly don't give a [censored] about her or her life...I don't have to call her ex to say it.. I say it on here (but that makes me a bully). It's the same [censored] over and over.. This board has gotten along pretty well... yes, there are disagreements.. but no one has pulled the "ive been contacted again" card for quite a while and the last person to do it was >>>drum roll<<< JL. And if I remember correctly, it was about this time last year that she started this [censored] and all the new names came out (to which I was accused of being one)...

Regardless,it's bs and I think most of us know it... either way... we have all put (including me) too much effort into her nonsense and drama, which is time we can't get back... so if we want it to stop.. we need to stop.. really.

Now.. back to my handcuffs and illegal activities...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 04:23 PM

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"It's not difficult to figure out who's responsible. And it's a true shame you a)don't have better things to do, b) are freaking nuts, and c)probably helped me by doing so. "

I interpreted this stmt as her indication she knows exactly who it is. What I don't get is that last year when all the trolls were floating around claiming to be her ex's family, I would've thought he already KNEW about this site.

If so, nothing came of it then (?), so the impact of someone emailing him about it now should be non-existent.

I don't know whats true or not, but outside of the fact that repeated bully-like behavior irritates me on the sheer principle of it, this whole situation is tired and pathetic.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 05:16 PM

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Who said it just happened yesterday? Just because she posted about it yesterday, doesn't mean it happened then ;)

BeckaLeigh

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/09/11 11:44 PM

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M5, the tone of her post says it happened recently. Very recently. And she is not one to stew about something long before she posts. I am not questioning anyone or anything, just stating my opinion. I thought these days were gone and over with, that is one reason I started posting again.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 01:05 AM

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She may have recently found out, but that doesn't necessarily mean the contact happened recently (like within the past few weeks).

SweetLight

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 01:08 AM

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�What was the point of mentioning it, OTHER than to create drama? The reality is many people aren't even here that much anymore. Some people have been totally absent. Sooooo she's putting out a warning about people who.. don't come here anymore?? Or others who are here infrequently? What's the point?�

�I for one, am tired of the not so veiled insinuations.�

----->Me too. I'm glad we are taking all things into consideration from tone to time-clock. Yep, another late night post. ;-)

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 07:43 AM

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But, gosh. Look at all the attention she got - from one mysterious post.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 08:24 AM

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She's been even more vocal/specific on the other site. I'm the guilty party.. At least according to how hard she's thrown me under the bus then rolled over me with it as a friend said. She's still on the "only SHE knew about this site" crap which is a lie, which she already got berated on that board for saying. The girl has persecution issues. I'll be contacting the mods over there, yet again, at least there they do something about this crap

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 08:51 AM

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I wouldn't take it to heart.

Every so often she throws out accusations about people contacting her family IRL. But, isn't she the one that basically invites everyone to her other boards, to friend her on FB, and sends out her personal information and court documents for people to preview (isn't that what an attorney does). If she was truly being stalked she'd stop.

It is a shame that she makes light of this and has even admitted elsewhere that she did it for her own entertainment.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 09:18 AM

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Thanks SRS. You're right, all that is true. Take heart though, I don't think you're a TS (true stalker), you're just an FOS (friend of stalker). Lol.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 09:38 AM

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Whyd u delete ur post SRS?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 09:40 AM

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I am tired of playing with the snowflake that is so pretty that all of us hags hate her. lol

It just said that she has accused me of stalking her too. Remember when I sent her a friend request on FB?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 09:43 AM

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Agh, lol. I do remember that. Shaking my head at it all

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 11:19 AM

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:Now.. back to my handcuffs and illegal activities..."

Kinky.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 11:22 AM

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Maybe she deleted her posts because she realized she was complaining about the OP saying she is stalked (but still posting) when SRS has done the same exact thing on this board with one than one person, more than just a couple of times?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 11:34 AM

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I have never accused anyone of stalking me off the board. Never, ever. I have never started a post by lying and saying that some mysterious person {that only I know of, but won't name (lol, just absurd)} here contacted my family IRL. Never, ever.

Actually, I got tired of playing with the tender, niave, beautiful, poor, single Mom with no assistance from anyone, stalked, speshul snowflake with great highlights.

But, if you want me to, I will.

It is freezing cold here, so the kids are playing Wii while we have cookies baking. It is quiet today and I am a tad bored.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 11:42 AM

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I'm seeing a very ugly side of you SRS, it does look a bit like jealousy, thinly disguised as "I'm just bored".

I noticed you used the snowflake reference twice, you must have thought that was so clever you had to use it again just in case it was missed the first time?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 11:47 AM

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Jealous of what, may I ask?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 11:56 AM

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Her attention? Her looks? Whatever you keep going on about. Find something constructive to do rather than keep posting on someone's thread that you clearly have issues with. Life is far too short. My kids are grown. I wish I had one more day with them when they were your kids' ages.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:12 PM

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I don't want to "play" SRS...but I would like to know when do you follow your own "rules"? I mean when I posted on your vent, I was told by you I should not be posting because I am not a CP with a NCP who gives the children no time or CS (although I am a W of a CP whose NCP didn't pay CS and does not see the child for almost two years).

When I questioned something you wrote you went mad calling me cuss names and telling me I was just trying to make you feel worse. BUT you have no problems questioning this OP, no problems suggesting that she a "victim" (which you have been referred to by MANY posters on your own posts) and that she discusses too much of her private life on here. I only know what your X's bathroom looks like, what kinds of lotions and bath products X's GF has FROM YOU.

So...how is that any different than what Mrs.B has posted? If you have never been in her situation why are you responding to her post? When do your rules apply to you? In the end you just look worse than the person you are complaining about.

As for the "snowflake" reference I found it borderline creepy, but chalked it up to social awkwardness.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:17 PM

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I have never accused anyone of stalking me off the board. Never, ever. I have never started a post by lying and saying that some mysterious person {that only I know of, but won't name (lol, just absurd)} here contacted my family IRL. Never, ever.
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No. You are right you have not. You have just flat-out said HERE that you are being stalked by certain posters (more than 1). But isn't that how it started out for Mrs.B? She was being followed around on HERE, but continued to post until it got really out of hand and affected her IRL. Again follow your own rules, take your own advice and do what you are suggesting this OP should do. THEN and only THEN will your posts look they they are derived from some place other than jealousy or an infatuation to someone else's misfortune.

Miranda

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:22 PM

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As for the "snowflake" reference I found it borderline creepy, but chalked it up to social awkwardness.

**************

You know what I find creepy? I finally got into delphi for the first time in 5-6 months after speaking to JL yesterday and I find JL's thread over there with the same "snowflake" reference. Super creepy and super passive agressive. That and other "catch phrases" that are used over there, used by SRS on here, in my opinion, to bait JL.

Ewww.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:28 PM

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Seriously? Double ewww!

Miranda

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:32 PM

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[quote]Seriously? Double ewww! [/quote]

Yes. I feel the need to shower now.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 12:34 PM

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oh oh.

I've offended JL's posse.

Miranda

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:36 PM

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I am not offended.

I am sure it is just some strange coincidence or that your son typed it in for you or something equally juvenile.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 12:57 PM

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I'm not offended either, nor am I anyone's posse. But I agree with Miranda, I too feel the need to shower.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 01:08 PM

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I am not offended.

I am sure it is just some strange coincidence or that your son typed it in for you or something equally juvenile. >>

Bwahahahaha.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 01:31 PM

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From a friend:

THis is not directed toward anyone, including the OP on this topic, but if you don't like me - just block me and move on.

Nobody has a right not to be offended.

Should there be a limit on rudeness? Okay, what would it be? Your limit? My limit?

This is not group therapy and you have to grow a thick skin to participate here happily.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 01:49 PM

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[quote]From a friend:

THis is not directed toward anyone, including the OP on this topic, but if you don't like me - just block me and move on.

Nobody has a right not to be offended.

Should there be a limit on rudeness? Okay, what would it be? Your limit? My limit?

This is not group therapy and you have to grow a thick skin to participate here happily. [/quote]

I don't have a right to not be offended??

(veteran)

12/10/11 02:11 PM

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What is the "other site" by the way?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 02:57 PM

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No different from when you accused me of stalking you on here. JS.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 03:01 PM

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Seriously? That IS creepy! Girl has bigger issues than what I originally thought.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 03:07 PM

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[quote]What is the "other site" by the way? [/quote]

LB is definitely the one to ask!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 03:55 PM

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No, he needs to ask YOU since you're the one who originally INVITED people to go there.

I haven't been there since her last "SOMEONE (meaning me) is STALKING ME!" flip out a year or so ago. She lied to the board moderators to get my login there blocked, even though, I hadn't BEEN there in ages, had only posted ONCE there, which was a "hi, I'm here" to which several people from here who were ALREADY there responded. I think I went back maybe once or twice after the moderators restored my access and reamed her a new one publicly for lying to them and I never went back. Zero interest.

HOWEVER, I have been informed, and the postings have been sent to me, that MrsB has been assassinating me to no end over there the last couple of days over this thing with her ex. It's not thinly veiled, it's pretty direct. I've avoided her like the plague since the last incident b/c I realized I'm the go to girl for "stalker status" in this girl's mind.

Sooo, she's the one active over there, SHE should share it since she's brought it up here.. yet AGAIN!

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 04:51 PM

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Whoops. We did it again.

We gave JL the necessary attention she was craving. So, who's sending her money this time? or I guess she could just tell us what she needs. Let me guess. She lost her job this time for filing false sexual harassment charges again.

So, sorry. I forgot we aren't supposed to mention that she is a shyster and scammed people here at least once.

Fool me once, shame on me. Who's falling for it this time?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 05:39 PM

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Like usual, you have no idea what you are talking about as you weren't even here for any of the stuff that erupted at the time.

People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, SRS.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 05:54 PM

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It says a lot about ones character to kick someone when they're already down. I heart the ignore button.

Btw D (yeah - that's you Lb. I won't stoop to your level and finish the name). . I hope you're proud of yourself. Sleep well at night? I bet.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 06:16 PM

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Dawn, that's my name. Not a secret :). I sleep great MrsB. I had ZERO to do with anything regarding your ex. Zero. And you shouldn't say otherwise bc it's simply not true. You can't prove it, bc I've done nothing. I've avoided you since the last drama with you. And I wouldn't know about whatever your latest drama is if YOU hadn't posted it. I do know you've been running your little fingers off about me over on the other board though.

If you want to make a formal accusation; be my guest. When you lose bc it's false? Be prepared bc I will go after you to whatever length of the law I can. I didn't contact your ex. And I do, I challenge you to prove otherwise. If you can't? Stop running your mouth with more lies

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 06:21 PM

Re: Thanks!

Keep trying. It's never gonna be read.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 06:37 PM

Re: Thanks!

ROFL.. doesn't have to be by you.. 5 of your little friends will message you what it says.

And they can add this, pretty spineless of you to hide behind "ignore" (which we will know is one of the biggest jokes going around here, you and the "ignore" button) while if not saying outright, strongly strongly suggesting, that I'm the one who contacted your ex. Very spineless actually.

(enthusiast)

12/10/11 06:44 PM

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Post deleted by Sampoe

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 06:55 PM

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[quote]And just to add, your email has helped my case. My attorney found it very helpful (I guess a thnx is an order, because we couldn't have done it without you).

Thnx to all you ladies that have supported me (I appreciate it as I've been going through alot and need all the support I can get, not only for me, but my son)

((((hugs))))) [/quote]

OMG..that's hysterical..

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/10/11 07:37 PM

Re: Thanks!

No friggin way....... That is priceless.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 09:47 PM

Re: Thanks!

Glad u replied before it got deleted. Wtf was that? Supposed to look like sampoe was actually her ex all along and is thanking me personally??? Wowwwwwww..... I still think those who have suggested that these "people" are actually just her probably have the right idea.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/10/11 11:14 PM

Re: Thanks!

Damn I wish DS would turn the lights on again.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 12:15 AM

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Sure would make it a bit easier to figure out exactly who the trolls are. Did you see the ones posted and deleted by a "new poster" just joined today? Hmmm. Sure is interesting sampoe randomly shows up though. Must be a little birdie on the loose.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 06:49 AM

Re: Thanks!

[quote]Glad u replied before it got deleted. Wtf was that? Supposed to look like sampoe was actually her ex all along and is thanking me personally??? Wowwwwwww..... I still think those who have suggested that these "people" are actually just her probably have the right idea. [/quote]

I think it was "Sampoe" replying...making it look like he/she was JL...OR Sampoe IS JL...as has long been a theory and she forgot to sign out..either way...its just entertaining...no real merit to either one...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 07:24 AM

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I still think those who have suggested that these "people" are actually just her probably have the right idea.
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There was another "new" poster who posted first and then Sampoe saying pretty much the same thing. Isn't that who Sampoe was always suppose to be? JL's X, but that person never got the info right so it would be impossible to be JL or the X, IMO. BUT like you said there should be no accusations against YOU LB without proof as there should be no accusations against anyone that they are Sampoe without proof.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 08:20 AM

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Okay, whatever. Little different suggesting someone is playing someone else posting anonymous messages on the internet versus suggesting someone in real life actually contacted someone else's ex about this site. Not even remotely in the same playing field.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 08:23 AM

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Yet you've reacted the same when youve felt accused of both.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 08:35 AM

Re: Thanks!

Sure, it is - if you don't have the capacity to realize there is a HUGE difference.

If you are going to post something an several boards accusing someone of contacting your ex, then don't be a coward and shyster. Just lay it out there. Tell us who it was, exactly what was said, and when. Stop playing games and pretending to be a victim.

Personally, I don't think any of it happened. She loooves playing the victim card and has found this to be the most effective way to get the attention she obviously doesn't get at home. Did the DH get tired of the games playing with the ex and leave, finally?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 08:45 AM

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Aligning yourself with LB shows you aren't running at full capacity, imo of course. I'm seeing why your ex is how he is. Sad when one would rather give up their children than deal with their obsessive, stalkerish, looney ex. Just sad.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:00 AM

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No one know why any of our ex's left or why we left, but ourselves. To say anything else is just being a bully. All parties involved.

I am not aligning myself with anyone....but if people think this actually happened to JL, then great. I continue and will continue to say its bs. Nothing adds up....nothing makes sense......I am also tired that I have been gone.....I come back, stay out of major discussions, have kept my nose totally clean...and this crap starts all over again.....its disgusting, its sad, its pathetic that one flippin poster can continue to divide and conquer this board with one stupid post. Especially here at Xmas time.......what ever happened to peace on earth, good will toward men. Sad....upsetting.....and childish....all of it and all of us.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 09:09 AM

Re: Thanks!

I will represt my challenge. If someone chooses not to take it, then it probably didn't happen.

If you are going to post something on several boards accusing someone of contacting your ex, then don't be a coward and shyster. Just lay it out there. Tell us who it was, exactly what was said, and when. Stop playing games and pretending to be a victim.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:12 AM

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I'm not afraid of bullies and I will bully back if I feel the need. This is a sad situation. Why don't all the naysayers and bellyacher just not respond? The thread would have fizzled two days ago? Yet they started in, knowing full well where it would lead, and then have the gall to say JL got the attention she wanted???

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 09:15 AM

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My ex had a $40K a year gambling problem that was there looong before we became involved. Sneaking out of the house after I went to bed, sneaking back in before I woke up.......

Gone for days and days gambling. Calling in sick to work to [censored].

Cursed me and our children because of the stress of not being able to pay for our house payment.

Locked me in the bedroom when I was 7 months preggers until I called a friend for help because I asked him to get help with the problem.

Banned from various local casinos.

Refused to seek help for the gambling or alcoholism.

Want more details? Feel free to PM me.

This isn't about me, btw. I'm not the one saying my ex was e-mailed gossip from a website.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:18 AM

Re: Thanks!

I have a challenge of my own. I challenge you to not post on JL's threads (then whine about her attention). Can you do it?

Sherron

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:19 AM

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General reply... why?? If you think jl is doing it for attention, then don't give it to her. If you hate drama, then stop contributing to it. If there is an argument on "the other board", then take it there. Most of us have been at the receiving end of personal attacks on here, why stoop so low as to do the same thing to anyone else. Like jl, don't like jl, it doesn't even matter, you're responsible for your own actions only. Either you want it to stop or you don't... and if you keep posting, you don't. Be part of the problem, or be part of the solution, the choice is ours for each one of us.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 09:20 AM

Re: Thanks!

Can you do it?

I like playing the games this weekend. You obviously do, too.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:23 AM

Re: Thanks!

Can I do what?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:38 AM

Re: Thanks!

Quick reply...

I think the notion that anyone could use anything said on an anonymous message board against you is worthless...

Its anonymous for craps sake...can't prove anything...

Therefore, its most likely that the angst displayed in a "Gee Thanks" thread is self serving and has not likely really manifested itself into anything worthwhile...

Its merely entertainment...

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 09:41 AM

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Right. There's an argument over there bc the troll who posted is being told to f*ck off. Doesn't mean everyone likes me. At least most don't behave this way - which is why I started posting elsewhere to begin with.

Talk about an attention wh*re. You and LB are on ignore and you know it yet you continue posting. But keep on if it makes ya feel better.

SRS - seriously. You are way too interested in my life. Reminds me of jr high bullies. Only they didn't shake me then either. Find a better hobby. You really aren't fooling anyone.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:07 AM

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Nice editing...

There is no argument "over there" and the "troll" was not mean or provocative in any way...merely pointed out that you had done this before and what their psychological take on the situation is...If anything, the "troll" is being told to "f*ck off" because they won't reveal their true identity, not because they were mean to you...they hold no credibility because they posted under an ANONYMOUS name...doesn't make them a troll in the historic sense of the word...just makes them, well...cowardly...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:12 AM

Re: Thanks!

I've tried to avoid her like the plague since when was it? This time last year when we had the whole influx of new names targeting her?

Evidently it's not bs. I was told there is legal action pending regarding this. Whatever that means. don't know, don't care. The only thing I care about is the pretty obvious trashing of me here, and over on the other forum (where it was much more direct and wasn't limited to me, but also my friends, down to knowing where one of them worked etc.. we're throwing THAT card out again apparently but we don't stoop so low, lol).

To Loretta.. you've bought into the fairy tale of "stalking" which simply isn't true. Which is unfortunate. I'm a good person, I'm a good parent, and NEVER in a million gazillion years would I EVER, no matter how much I dislike them, do anything to put the welfare of their CHILD in jeopardy. Period. I may not "Like" the girl, and I may question heatedly her stuff, but just simply would NEVER happen that I'd contact ANYONE in her personal life. EVER.

Did I chitchat about her in private message? Absolutely. And probably half the regulars here are guilty of the Same.Exact.Thing. I'm just the sacrificial lamb for it.

I'm engaged in this issue now because SHE brought me up. Here and over on the other board. I didn't bring me into it, SHE did by making the statements she did. I have the right to counter that and you don't have the right to say that I can't or shouldn't. What she's suggested is VERY serious and I take it as such.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 10:15 AM

Re: Thanks!

Loretta is now incessantly PM-ing my decision to get married to my x - in her misguided defense of her friend.

One question is fine, but I am now being bombarded with PMs. Gotta love it.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:17 AM

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Right, we're on "Ignore" but yet you continue to post TO us! Soooo you expected what? You were going to make an outlandish accusation when we all KNOW who you meant (me) anddddd I'd say.. nothing???

Ohhh that's right this was public service announcement number 999 about the evilness of LexieBelle and company? Board's got it, sides are firmly established, we've got it. You've done NO ONE a service here, and you've done me a DISservice since your accusations are lies. Plain and simple.

SRS has thrown out her challenge, I second it. Since it's ME you are accusing, more than anyone, I have that RIGHT to demand you back it up. If you can't? Then you should shut the fvck up.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:17 AM

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[quote]Evidently it's not bs. I was told there is legal action pending regarding this. Whatever that means. don't know, don't care. The only thing I care about is the pretty obvious trashing of me here, and over on the other forum (where it was much more direct and wasn't limited to me, but also my friends, down to knowing where one of them worked etc.. we're throwing THAT card out again apparently but we don't stoop so low, lol). [/quote]

I don't understand...how can be pending legal action for activity on an ANONYMOUS forum? Even if she has stated "MY EX IS A PERVERT" or any other slanderous statement, how is that ground for legal action? On an anonymous forum...she isn't using her real name, nor the name of her ex..anyone else fronting that information out, might...MIGHT be held liable, but only if you could PROVE it was them...Not really possible, I suppose with enough money and legal power it would be...but really? Legal action?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:20 AM

Re: Thanks!

I don't think you were the one who contacted her ex, I've told her as much. I don't know anything about the other site, so my opinions only come from here. Maybe when I have time, and a computer other than my phone, I'll check out that other place, if I do? I'll be there as myself.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:20 AM

Re: Thanks!

And we're obsessed? BAER.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:22 AM

Re: Thanks!

I haven't been there in ages. I only know of what was said over there because someone from here who is also there saw the "thanks" thread and looked over there and sent me all of the postings.

I am the same name over there.. LexieBelle. I haven't been in ages. 6 months? 9? I don't even remember. I hate the format and I think they're 10 times bitchier over there than we are. Just can't be bothered. As I said, tales of my "stalking" are so grossly over-exaggerated it's crazy.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:23 AM

Re: Thanks!

You're the ones who claim she gets too much attention, yet you keep giving it too her. Weird.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 10:23 AM

Re: Thanks!

Exactly. I am bored and doing laundry. This is amusement to me this weekend more than anything.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:26 AM

Re: Thanks!

The threat of legal action is ridiculous. I would be embarrassed to bring all this up to my attorney. I have a fabulous attorney and he would advise me to let it go and to not waste my money, time & energy.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:27 AM

Re: Thanks!

Well Loretta, I'm sure if you were accused of what I am, you would have PLENTY to say about it too.

If you haven't noticed, THAT has been my focus, and I'm well within my rights to have an issue with it and say so.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:29 AM

Re: Thanks!

Then satisfy your boredom, but don't bellyache because her thread is continuing and attention is being bestowed upon her.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:31 AM

Re: Thanks!

Maybe you were accused at the other site, but I haven't seen it here. Oh, I've seen you say it, but no one else.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:40 AM

Re: Thanks!

No..JL directly points her finger at LB..by asking her if she sleeps well at night...That was last nights posting..

Although, oddly enough...at the Delphi site, she states that she doesn't think its a regular from either board...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:48 AM

Re: Thanks!

She was pretty specific over there too:

From: BsMommy2004 Dec-9 5:33 pm
4558.51 in reply to 4558.47

"They" is a STRONG exaggeration. There are a few women there who hate me. Absolutely not the majority. These same "they" hate and have stalked other women on the board. Me - in my forgiving stupid naive way - became friends with one of them who them spread my information to the others after it was too late.

"They" can hate me all they want. I have done nothing to anyone. I have been nothing but respectful and kind to everyone. Including the psychos who I think played a part and came over here to stalk me. Only one person knew about this place. So it's not hard to figure it out.

And the fact ANYOME can "hate" ANYONE on a message board truly floors me. I have put my trust into the wrong hands. I know information about a lot of the "haters" there and would never even consider sprain their information or contacting their ex's. One of them I know where she works. I treat others how I prefer to be treated. As for any haters or psycho bitches who try to make my life difficult - I absolutely feel sorry for them. I hae done nothing wrong and somehow I still believe in justice. It's just a true shame this had to happen. Karma's a [censored]. I feel sorry for the day it bites them in the ass. But it will be well deserves.

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the "only one person knew about this site" is ME. It's the argument she gave the board moderators last year and got busted on for lying about. I was NOT the only person, not even REMOTELY close to it. And she got caught.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:51 AM

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And this:

Those who are I am sure are involved are members and have stalked me on both - and at this point? I don't trust anyone. And i dont want anyone else making the same mistake. I can't tell you who is involved and who isn't. I attempted to make this clear before and was chewed out for it. So I guess the guessing games can start. It's what I've had to do for a year now. NOT trying to be rude PA or anything else. I am just fed up. These people have no idea (or sadly maybe they do) what they are getting into. And I'm the one who gets to deal with it. So I truly apologize but I really don't care anymore. I wanted whoever is responsible or involved in any way to read it - maybe that's silly of me. But, it is what it is. There are things I can't even say because of what this person has done and shared - and I won't put myself or my child at risk over a few psychotic bitches. I have to deal with enough as it is.

So my finger pointing is done. Sorry to cause anyone question or drama - just be careful.

We are all REAL people with REAL feelings, real children, real lives and real issues. I'm disgusted that hasn't been respected and I truly don't want anyone else to have to deal with it.

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She states, flat out, that she WANTS to call out the person(s) responsible... sooo, take that for what you will.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:53 AM

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This, from another posting:

Yes it is extremely creepy. They emailed him (with a fake name and email I'm sure). Gae him my user names here, ivillage and the other board.

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Soooo, umm.. she apparently doesn't know who it came from? Because they (she assumes) used a faked name and email? Soooo, that equates to me? That's funny I'm not the one on 3 different internet sites with at least 2 usernames.

So she knows it's me.. how exactly?

She's been plenty vocal.. about "WARNING" people. About WHAT??? I haven't been THERE in god knows how long, I've avoided her HERE. WTF???

Sooo, I say it again.. if she has PROOF then let her SHOW it. She doesn't have to do it publicly. My email is the same as it's been for 15 years now. So is my cell, same as for 13 years. I don't hide, I've got nothing TO hide. So while she's prattling away playing victim and throwing out accusations, put up or SHUT UP!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 10:59 AM

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So..she doesn't KNOW who is involved and who isn't..She's charging you because its convenient? She's already stated on Delphi that she doesn't believe it to be a "regular" from either board. So she's blowing smoke to create some drama...

I don't know LB..you're a convenient target for her..anytime something happens in her private life, she uses you to explain it away...

If there is legal action, it has to be because of something that can be proven and is very specific.... She has posted pretty specific things, but mostly about herself.

There has to be something else...and if that's the case..fine...good luck..She's the one who put it all out there for other's to read...I just don't see you being that personally invested...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:08 AM

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See there was this statement in one of her replies:

Unfortunately I didn't think anyone from the other place would either at one point. Where I've posted at for YEARS.

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I took it as past tense. Like "I didn't before, but I do now".

don't know what the person said who she was replying to.. This is the post #: 4558.42.

I don't go over there, and won't. A couple of people sent me the postings when the thread here came up, they saw the one there, and thought I should know that she was trash talking me over there.. AGAIN. Which is funny, I've literally posted ONE freaking thread!! Over a year ago? Never posted again, barely ever been there. And I'm "stalking" her. LOL.

I think you're right, I'm a convenient target. She knows that what people think of me matters to me. We've discussed that at length about our personalities. So she KNOWS that this bothers me, and it's why she does it, I'm sure. There's FAR likelier a candidate here but she won't "go there" with that person. It's fine.. I'd like her to be an adult and come out with her proof but she can't. I know that. She says she's seen the emails, but says the address is likely fake. Soooo how the hell do you have ANY idea who they're from? She says they're not from anyone in her real life. How does she know that? How about her ex's real life? Who the heck knows. But you're right, I'm simply not that invested. I DON'T CARE!!!!!

I got my own issues. I don't need or want to be in hers. I really wish SHE would stop dragging me into them. I wouldn't have known shyt about any of this had SHE not opened HER mouth.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:15 AM

Re: Thanks!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:15 AM

Re: Thanks!

I didn't notice the "didn't"....and that changes the whole meaning of the sentence...so I agree with you..

I deliberately DO NOT respond to anything on the Delphi forum regarding other boards...I've had a few off topic conversations with her on Delphi and I don't know whether she knows its me or not...but I won't participate on any thread THERE about her "stalking"... I'll address it HERE, because that's where I've been historically vocal..

I DO like the Delphi forum...lots of interesting and very intelligent women there..I enjoy their banter...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:18 AM

Re: Thanks!

[quote]I'm watching The Help right now, so my response will be short.[/quote]

Have you read the book? I've heard the movie wouldn't be any good if you've read the book...

While I know JL doesn't like LB, I don't think she's accusing her of contacting her ex. She is saying that her info was spread by LB. it got into the hands of a crazy biotch. [/quote]

Well..that's interesting..I haven't read it that way at all...Why won't she say who the crazier biotch is, then? She doesn't have any problem pointing out LB as the culprit..if that's what she truly believes, she should name said crazy and get it out...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:21 AM

GRRRRRRRR

[quote]I'm watching The Help right now, so my response will be short. While I know JL doesn't like LB, I don't think she's accusing her of contacting her ex. She is saying that her info was spread by LB. it got into the hands of a crazy biotch. [/quote]

And again, I will say THIS for the 100th time. i did NOT SPREAD INFORMATION!!!! I had information sent TO ME. REDLEGG got the SAME INFORMATION and he and I discussed it! Yup, we gossipped about what we got sent TO US. Absolutely!

Jesus motherfvcking Christ Almighty!!!

Sorry but this is really fvcking old. And it's not even ACCURATE.

and what REALLY fvcking galls me???" Is this girl PLAYED this entire fvcking board. It's not a question, it's a FACT. It's an admitted fact. Not a little lie, but a big, fat whopping lie about her marriage, about her ex, etc. She spits out "well LB DID THIS!" and half of you, who were PART of the Big Deception fall all over yourselves, going OMG! What an evil bytch that LB is! Taking the word of a PROVEN (repeatedly) LIAR. Fvcking astounding.

You talk about MY character? You align yourself with a PROVEN and ADMITTED LIAR. I'll take my character ANY day.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:22 AM

Re: Thanks!

I don't think she knows for 100% who it is. LB had private info that got out. Someone used that info to take their hate further.

I'm halfway through the book, but couldn't wait any longer when I saw it at redbox!!!!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:23 AM

Re: Thanks!

I'm watching The Help right now, so my response will be short. While I know JL doesn't like LB, I don't think she's accusing her of contacting her ex. She is saying that her info was spread by LB. it got into the hands of a crazy biotch.
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That is what I took from it too. That at the time JL's personal info was being spread through PMs here. I'm not even sure I know who was part of all that? How the links were found and WHO actually did the spreading?

Anyway, that's how I took it.

I don't believe LB contacted JL's X either. I have said as much and I don't believe after that whole crazy issue two years ago that LB spread any info. And I do believe LB when she says that she would NOT put a child in jeopardy.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:26 AM

Re: GRRRRRRRR

And again, I will say THIS for the 100th time. i did NOT SPREAD INFORMATION!!!! I had information sent TO ME. REDLEGG got the SAME INFORMATION and he and I discussed it! Yup, we gossipped about what we got sent TO US. Absolutely!
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Ok well there it is.

At this point I don't think it does matter anymore. The personal info got into the wrong hands and now...what two years later...someone contacted her X. It's happened here before, so everyone should be extra careful about who has access to their private info, etc.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 11:26 AM

Re: GRRRRRRRR

Just my opinion -

When you repeatedly send your private information to many, many people you meet on the internet from many different boards - you shouldn't then complain that your information got around to others.

SHe spreads her own information around.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:30 AM

Re: GRRRRRRRR

I don't remember JL lying when this all happened. I was on the site...she left for a while and then came back after months and her and her X were separated. She never told anyone what was going on in her life with her X-- why should she have to?

EDITED--- Not my story to tell I'll just say I believed she was torn... So I didn't look at it as lying, but you all have the right to see as you want. Just not how I saw it.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:31 AM

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Katie..she found the ex's fb page.. the wedding planning site. And she sent that to me, and Red.. I have no idea who else. She joked to me about sending a gift to the engagement party or something like that. THAT was the catalyst for why I outted her. THAT, suggesting like sending something to an event, was way over the line and that's when I reached out to Becka to let JL know.

I'm very well aware of what went down.. I'm very well aware i absolutely gossiped about her.. questioned her story, absolutely. NO, I did NOT.. not EVER.. send around her private information. Absolutely NOT. by my admitting that I did GOSSIP and I GOT the information, that has magically blossomed into me being a psycho stalker.

Oh and I kept private messages. And THIS IS WHY!!!! They're all LONG gone now but this bullshyt is EXACTLY why I kept stuff like that, so if bad shyt ever went down? I'd have PROOF of what went down. Sorry that makes me "crazy", makes me PROTECTIVE in my opinion.

The girl is a drama queen and she's a liar. If anyone is freaking obsessed? It's HER!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:32 AM

Re: Thanks!

So..just to be clear...No ONE, with the exception of JL, believes that LB has spread any information about JL..OR contacted her ex in any way shape or form...?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:35 AM

Re: Thanks!

Well by all means, continue to play on the playground.... Have fun, children.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:35 AM

Re: GRRRRRRRR

I can buy that.. I was raised omission of the truth? Is the same as a lie. And by omitting her ex's abusive behavior while soliciting to get the other child AWAY from the other mother, well that's a big something to leave out.

There's other lies of omission. The year she was crying poverty and people on the board were going to help her out, til it was discovered lo and behold, she was living with her now husband. Another big omission. So, I will grant maybe she doesn't tell out and out lies, but she definitely omits some pretty critical details that WOULD change how people see her situation and her. That's a pretty big deal.

Maybe that's why I'm the opposite. It's all out there. Hate me, love me, whatever, it's there. But it all makes who I am, how I react and where I am. Anything less would be a lie, to me.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:43 AM

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[quote]I can buy that.. I was raised omission of the truth? Is the same as a lie. And by omitting her ex's abusive behavior while soliciting to get the other child AWAY from the other mother, well that's a big something to leave out.

There's other lies of omission. The year she was crying poverty and people on the board were going to help her out, til it was discovered lo and behold, she was living with her now husband. Another big omission. So, I will grant maybe she doesn't tell out and out lies, but she definitely omits some pretty critical details that WOULD change how people see her situation and her. That's a pretty big deal. /quote]

Completely feel the same way...and has been my issue since the beginning...

(veteran)

12/11/11 11:52 AM

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I thought this was an adult forum. I think I could find more mature stuff on a middle school bathroom wall.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:52 AM

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All I can say is I never saw it that way, for me-- even when she was having a tough time that Christmas... I have had a tough time at Christmas as married. I have helped people on this site who are married because they were having a tough time. Whether she had a BF or living with someone or not means NOTHING to me because I help (if I can) not based on whether they have a BF or family members helping too.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:58 AM

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[quote]I thought this was an adult forum. I think I could find more mature stuff on a middle school bathroom wall. [/quote]

--------->> Probably. It's a group consisting mostly of women. And worse, of strongminded, strong-opinioned women to boot. We wouldn't be here otherwise I don't think. It is what it is. The men who survive best kinda end of participating in the "fray", kinda become "one of the girls" so to speak. Otherwise, they fall by the wayside. I think there's only 2 real legitimate long-term men here, google and gr8. And you'll find they participate in the "fray" at times too.

It is what it is..... ain't gonna change any time soon would be my guess. Was like this LONG before I came here and it'll be like this long after I am gone.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 12:00 PM

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Yes LB and you have never been worried that your X would find this site and try to use this site against you. Your X isn't the vengeful or vindictive type. I am sure I never went into 100% detail because if BM did read my postings she would use them against me. And not because they were false, but she would have fun saying "Oh H did this or didn't do this" something to try and get under my skin because that's what most Xs do best.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 12:27 PM

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Not buyin' it and it doesn't wash. If she was that concerned? She wouldn't have posted 25% of what she did. Another reason why I don't buy the "abuse excuse". Sooo, she's afraid she's gonna find it so that's why she's not honest, but she trashes him enough that if an abuser WERE to find it, it would absolutely trigger them? Really?

As for the Christmas justification. That's fine and dandy BUT, you would do it KNOWING that that was the situation no? You wouldn't feel remotely deceived if you did something based on 'x' piece of information then learned that 'y' piece was available, which drastically changed the basis on which you helped? So you say, oh gosh.. she only makes $1000 a month, and NO ONE IS HELPING HER.. she's ALL BY HERSELF (as we heard endlessly). So you give $100.. only to learn that no, she had a roommate. Who was helping pay bills. And caring for her child. Etc ETc. You wouldn't resent having given that $100? Even just a tiny bit? I would. Maybe soneone else really WAS alone and really did have NO HELP and maybe they needed my $100. Not the person who omitted a key truth in order to get my $100.

That's the point, and that's the issue. I understand you're her friend, but I am a little surprised the logic doesn't make perfect sense to you. And I think if it NOT her? We wouldn't be having this difference of opinion ;)

That said, you know I like you and respect you Cassie.. or at least I hope you know that. I have no issue with you and I do appreciate your belief that I am not "the culprit", lol. I feel like a Pink Panther movie or something now lol.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 01:38 PM

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How pathetic.

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 01:45 PM

Re: GRRRRRRRR

[quote]I thought this was an adult forum. I think I could find more mature stuff on a middle school BOYS bathroom wall. [/quote]

Fixed for accuracy since it's women who do this type of stuff. Men would just shoot each other and get it over with.

(veteran)

12/11/11 01:51 PM

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"It's a group consisting mostly of women. And worse, of strongminded, strong-opinioned women to boot."

That's definitely not the description of the kind of folks posting in this thread.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 02:33 PM

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"It's a group consisting mostly of women. And worse, of strongminded, strong-opinioned women to boot."

That's definitely not the description of the kind of folks posting in this thread.
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That truly made me laugh out loud...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 02:43 PM

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We beat this horse dead so I will just say this. I became friends with JL after she left her X, I understood where she was coming from and held no ill wills.

As for me, I don't care if someone who is struggling may have needed less than what I was preparing to give because they had a roommate. For example, let's say a few years ago I gave to the person on here Gecko chose. Most of the time I didn't even know their current situation, I just gave because they could have used an extra bit of money. I wasn't privy to how much anyone else gave. What if 20 other people gave and at $50 each? Would I have given less because I now knew that the person who was struggling was up plus $1k? Nope, not one bit. In fact, this year I am giving to complete strangers as an act of "God's Love". I hope that if they can't use it they give to someone who can. That doesn't mean your thought process is wrong, I understand it- I just don't see it the same way is all.

I have always made my position clear in regards to all this. I just find it especially annoying that people who weren't even here start talking about the OP's past... I am her friend and I do like her. Guess we should be thankful that we get to pick our own friends? ;)

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 02:52 PM

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Thanks Cassie :)

For the record - I NEVER knew anyone was even considering helpFing me out financially until after the fact. And I would not have accepted it at that point.

No one knows what I was truly going through at that time - just as no one really does now. I dont play victim and i do not ask for handouts. You never TRULY know what someone else is going through. I'm really sick of LB throwing that in my face. The last thing I am is greedy or someone who would accept help from others when it isn't necessary. Having a roommate/live in BF (I won't even mention how little we both made at the time) doesn't always say much in what one can/cannot afford. She can bring it up for 5 more years if she feels like it. I never accepted not would I have accepted anything I didn't need. And people who actually KNOW me know that. She can stuff her opinion where it belongs. :)

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 03:34 PM

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You kinda missed the point and made it into something else entirely I think. But thats fine, as you say it's been beat to death. My only issue here is the accusations which are patently false. And she's not woman enough to put up or shut up. Shed rather hide behind ignore and her friends, and that's cowardly. If she's going to talk about me all over the Internet, she jolly well should be prepared to address it with me. You can't possibly think this dropping bombshells and going na nah you're on ignore is normal or adult or responsible? It isn't.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/11/11 03:51 PM

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It is okay. An established poster on the other site called her out pretty harshly, but well-done nonetheless. The naive, poor me person claims not to get it, but I don't believe that for a nanosecond.

Basically, you can't claim stalking if you are pouring everything about your life on the internet for all to see. If you were stalked, you'd stop posting your personal stuff and sending it to God and everyone else. You wouldn't post the same info on at least 2 sites directing posters to the other sites.

THis person had someone put a key logger on her computer, so they had access to everything including bank account information. SOunds like she had a truly rough time and is tired of the BS.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/11/11 11:22 PM

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[quote]Loretta is now incessantly PM-ing my decision to get married to my x - in her misguided defense of her friend.

One question is fine, but I am now being bombarded with PMs. Gotta love it. [/quote]

You are seriously screwed up. Lol, you told me to pm you if I had questions. I asked you two questions. 1) why did you marry someone who had a $40k gambling problem which you say started prior to the marriage (to which you replied "I didnt know then, duh!") and 2) didn't you know him well before you married him because I knew my husbands well - I couldn't imagine not knowing something that big (to which you replied "husbands? How many have you had?) and 3) I answered 2, ex for 10 years and current for nearly 12.

You are one crazy, screwed up, person with huge issues. Sad for your children. You need major help. ::too sad to laugh at the ridiculousness of your statement::

onerose

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 07:50 AM

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I rarely get on here anymore because of the sampoe crap a while back. Now I pop on and see this!!

Hope all is well with you and don't let this mess get you down. Good Luck!!

googledad

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 07:55 AM

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M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:34 AM

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Yeah, I think she is losing it. I've been saying it for the past 2 years or so...but she seems to be getting worse? I think she needs help.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:46 AM

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Easy enough to prove whether it's made up or true. <Alt> + the <PrintScreen> keys. Open up a word doc, Edit menu and paste.. Voila! See just how many there are or aren't. Again, this is why I used to like to keep things. Cuz if someone did or said x, y or z, there was the proof.

If SRS is telling the truth, there's no reason for Loretta to be pm'ing her still. If she isn't, well that is bizarre.

Simple screen shot posted to a free file sharing site solves the whole question.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:56 AM

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Who cares! I invested the few minutes it took to catch up.

Let's say that MB wanted the attention and posted in an effort to get it. She won, she got the attention and everyone fell for it.

Let's say that MB wanted to warn who's left how creepy other people can be. She won that one too, cause nothing like a MB thread to bring the crazy out.

So, let's say you don't care about the thread at all. Then all you gotta do it not click on the post. Then you win.

I know we all love WINNING!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:21 AM

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I care SSMom, it's ME who is being character assasinated. NOT just here but at great length over on the other board.

Perhaps if everyone ELSE who did NOT have a dog in the fight would let it go? Then maybe she'd stop. Me? I have a dog in the fight. A big dog. And the dog is VERY VERY VERY pissed off.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:48 AM

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Aw, I guess I should scoot then...

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:23 AM

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LB, I wish she would send you the pm's. I would love to see how she edited them first. She's unstable. She told me to pm her, I did, now this? Lol. I asked her a question, she answered with a smart ass "duh" so I expanded (one line) on my question. She didn't answer but replied with a question to me. Which I answered. The girl is a fruit loop.

I never said you spread info. I said JL thought you did. Not my fight. So you don't have to explain it for the 101th time.

You became JL's friend after the lie about her ex, so falling back on that now is lame, IMO.

I thought I knew who the anonymous posters was, not you, but now I'm pretty sure it's SRS. She didn't like JL (or you when you were JL's friend), JL outed her for trying to friend her on Fb, and then all this started. Wow. Insane.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 11:04 AM

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I became JL's friend when I joined the board. At the time, i didn't KNOW about the past history. Only when I started to question some inconsistencies in the present tense, and I believe someone clued me in to past history, then I went back and researched the past stuff and then realized that there was a pattern, in my view, repeating itself.

Just wanted to clarify that. I wasn't here when she was actually married to her first husband. She separated from him shortly before my ex husband left dd and I.. I joined within a couple of weeks after that. So again, at the original time, I was friendly based on what was going on, at the time.. and at that time, we had similar timeframes, etc.. I didn't know about the earlier stuff til after. It's not like I came here, and researched everyone's backstory you know?

I have no idea who the anonymous posters are :(:( I still would have gone with Katie frankly. OR that it is someone in real life. I know she keeps saying "no it's not" but she really has NO way of knowing who does or doesn't know about this site.. who her ex is with friends with or not. Who knows. For example, my ex has a friend whose wife is THE biggest busybody going. We were friendly for quite a long after ex and I split up. She was the first to stand up and call ex a nitwit for supporting the alky, yadda yadda. Hey, she even said to ME, "he's the kind of guy who loses it one day and take out everyone around him.. make sure you're not around when that happens". I mean she said the guy's the type to go postal. Never had a falling out, never had an issue.. when I told ex about dating exSO? He already knew? How? Little Miss BusyBody. She was taking totally unrelated fb statuses of mine, ASSUMING what they meant and had told my ex I was dating someone 6 months before I actually was. MOST of the ill will ex had about exSO, the move, etc? Was based on a LIE of a busybody bytch who had nothing better to do with her time while she sat home pumping out babies. She doesn't dislike me, she doesn't dislike ex, she's just BORED. THEN she caused more problems.. set up my ex with a girlfriend of hers, posted statuses about it, and made not so subtle references to me. Whatever. You just NEVER know. I never said a mean thing to the girl in my life.. Never had a problem with her. Not a thing. She thinks my ex is crazy enough to go postal but would play him and me against each other.

My point is, you just don't know. She'd be the type, if she saw me here, to go whisper in ex's ear "hey, you know... " for no other reason that she COULD.

So, my money is on someone in real life.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 02:24 PM

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I wasn't talking about being her friend when you first joined. You then found out about her ex and that situation and decided you disliked her, then she let you know someone was passing around YOUR info and you became friends. You even were Fb friends (after learning about THE deception). Then, you turned again and now bring up THE deception. You had, at one time gotten past that and it was no longer an issue.

Katie may be one of the anonymous posters, my original guess, but SRS, IMO, is also one.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 03:51 PM

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You crack me up. Have I ever told you that?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 03:54 PM

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Actually, that's not entirely true. You came to this site, and you were never "friends" with JL...you followed her around bashing her (even YOU have admitted to it)...then you guys became friends...then you weren't friends anymore because of whatever.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 03:57 PM

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Not true, go ALLLL the way back.. and I sided with her very frequently when I first joined. Absolutely.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 07:55 PM

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She's not a bad person LB. She did post a lot, but did not post names, addresses, etc. on the board. So what if she posted them privately??? Did that give someone the right to do what they've done? She contacted you when someone passed your private info to her. You did not contact her when someone came to you with private info. She has your info as well as a lot of ours, she would never use that info. The info she gave out, in private, was not intended to be used like this. I'd feel betrayed as well. A lot of people on here have my private info. I hope I've chosen better people (I am pretty confident that I have) and they never get mad at me and use it in a not so becoming way. At one time RWS had my private info, and I have to say she hates my guts and has not used my info in a manner not intended. I have had her info and would never use it like that. Most people have boundaries and morals. Thankfully.

(enthusiast)

12/12/11 08:02 PM

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-----She's not a bad person LB-----

Is not keeping a father from his son for the SOLE reason of keeping her new marriage together not bad?

You people are crazy!

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:05 PM

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[quote]-----She's not a bad person LB-----

Is not keeping a father from his son for the SOLE reason of keeping her new marriage together not bad?

You people are crazy! [/quote]

What is your source of information? If that were true, that would be bad, yes. But I do not believe that to be the case. Please show me where that came from.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:09 PM

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I believe anyone would feel betrayed if in my shoes and to say they wouldn't is a flat out lie. It's a shame not everyone has those boundaries and morals. If I even had Katie's information or a few other people I can't stand I'd never even CONSIDER sharing that information. No - I'm not a bad person. PM knows I'm not. It just makes her feel better to state otherwise. She's a user and a fake and I feel sorry for her. And for SRS. Who's name I also know. I could easily find information on several of the "haters" here as in sure many of us could - however most of us aren't so miserable in our own lives that we feel the need to constantly put down others and spread information to those it wasn't intended for.

PM knows I trusted her with information. She completely abused that trust not once but twice. Shame on me for allowing it to happen a second time and for giving her a second chance. She probably did not contact my ex - however I know for a fact she has spread my information to others I wouldn't trust as far as I can throw and for that and her simple betrayal of my friendship and trust, she is just as guilt for sharing it as is the person who actually contacted him.

I truly, TRULY pray that some of these women grow up and learn to have empathy. And that their behavior here doesn't dwindle down to their children. If that's the case of be far more concerned with their stability as parents than mine for putting my trust into the wrong hands.

I am thankful for you and Cassie and ssmom and a few others for your true friendship and trust and empathy. And I have even more respect for those women who don't particularly "like" me yet have the basic human feelings of empathy and don't attempt to push someone when they are already down.

I am far from perfect and after this ill get off my soap box - but at least I can say I am nothing like some people here and while I've made mistakes like anyone else - I'm not a heartless b*tch. And I never will be. Life is far too short for this bullsh*t.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:10 PM

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Lol. Now that's just funny.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/12/11 08:14 PM

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Be careful of those you believe are your "friends." Your information is being passed around through PMs on both boards.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me a gillion times, I must be really stupid.

Just remember that when info you have given your "friends" comes back to bite you in the arse.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

12/12/11 08:16 PM

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Hey - LB. If I delete messages from here, can I retrieve them in anyway? There has to be a way to do it.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:19 PM

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Puhleeeese retrieve messages, better yet, let PM log onto your profile to read them. LOL. Keep it up SRS, laughing is good for the soul.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:20 PM

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[quote]Be careful of those you believe are your "friends." Your information is being passed around through PMs on both boards.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me a gillion times, I must be really stupid.

Just remember that when info you have given your "friends" comes back to bite you in the arse. [/quote]

Another big fat lie. None of her "friends" are passing her info around. LOL. You are a hoot.

(enthusiast)

12/12/11 08:45 PM

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------- I'm not a heartless b*tch. And I never will be. Life is far too short for this bullsh*t. -------

Is the court and the GAL, that you ASKED FOR going to agree at your arraignmemt in the morning? I think NOT!

(enthusiast)

12/12/11 08:47 PM

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-----Another big fat lie. None of her "friends" are passing her info around-------

You can't be more wrong about that! Bawhahahahha

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:54 PM

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[quote]-----Another big fat lie. None of her "friends" are passing her info around-------

You can't be more wrong about that! Bawhahahahha [/quote]

Please, none of her "friends" are passing current, new info around. If they are??? Do the right thing and out them to her, have some courage or shut up.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 08:59 PM

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[quote]Hey - LB. If I delete messages from here, can I retrieve them in anyway? There has to be a way to do it. [/quote]

----------->> Hmmm.. not from the site itself, they'd be gone.. The only way I could **** possibly **** think of doing it is from your internet history? Cached copies of pages loaded through the browser perhaps, is what I mean. Not sure though if that is even possible.. just technogeek theorizing :( I would say in all likelihood, you'd be S.O.L.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:03 PM

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[quote][quote]-----Another big fat lie. None of her "friends" are passing her info around-------

You can't be more wrong about that! Bawhahahahha [/quote]

Please, none of her "friends" are passing current, new info around. If they are??? Do the right thing and out them to her, have some courage or shut up. [/quote]

---------->> Umm..no offense Loretta? But as one who HAS been that route? The "passers" (or gossipers in the prior case) got a TOTAL free pass on their "bad deeds" even though they didn't own up to them for AGESSSSS, and I've been demonized to hell and back. Soooo, in Sampoe's shoes, if they are a real person with real information? There's no way in hell I'd do it, given what I watched happen to me.

Same with SRS... you don't remember Sherron logging into my account? Meant ZERO to the board. Absolutely ZILCH. Total waste of time. Fvck, I had screen shots, etc so forth. Well,they were DOCTORED. Please... BTDT and what you're suggesting is a joke. A total joke. I could have had jesus christ himself come down, and personally certify every word I said, every message, and those who didn't want to believe? Would have told Jesus he was a fvcking LIAR.

Soooo, don't expect to get anywhere with requests to provide information or have people log in. It's a joke. totally laughable. And again, I mean no personal offense to you, but I went through this. Susan was leading the "burn PM at the stake" brigade and, and I got SLAUGHTERED.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:03 PM

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As if there was anything to retrieve. ::sigh:: She is trying to appear valid...lol. PM, there are not mystery PM's. She's a um....snowflake. LOL.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:06 PM

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PM, there are not a slue of messages anyway (and I didn't take it personal). I'm serious. For all I am? I am not a liar. Have I been misinformed and believed it and repeated it? Probably. But an outright liar? No, not me.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:15 PM

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Points taken :) I'm familiar with the feeling of being accused of stuff being said in pm that wasn't.. believe me ;)

Anyway, wasn't taking a side or confirming believability. Just answering a technical question lol.. I'm in work mode tonight.. sadly.. and not in a good mood about it ;)

(member)

12/12/11 09:16 PM

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Yes they are, on the other board. That is how I, and a few others, learned about the e-mail content and her arrignment tomorrow. She keeps doing what IS NOT WORKING.

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 09:24 PM

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Thanks M5... Sometimes I crack myself up. MB is a personal friend. I would never share anything she told me in confidence. I try not to be 'that way' about anyone. If someone was pretending to be a friend to extract and pass around info, anyone knowingly receiving it is just as guilty as the one passing it. Ugh.

Personally I haven't a firkin clue who is guilty of what. I just get in the canoe, toss the paddles overboard, and follow the current where it takes me. Just go with the flow.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:08 PM

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So, what crime is she being charged for?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:10 PM

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I feel the same way, ssmom. And I tell ya what, sometimes it drives me plum crazy not knowing who the guilty party is. I mean...we can think and guess all day, but...no one really knows. I have some ideas who it is, but that's all they are. Ideas.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:23 PM

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I'd love to know too:).

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:24 PM

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you are FOS.

So you remember her name (or her ex's) and where she is from. So you can see the court documents now like anyone else who has that info. Brava. Quit acting like you have some secret mole. It has gone on long enough. I hesitated to point out where you (and sampoe, longroad, etc.) must be getting your info lest it give anyone an idea, but the worst (emailing her ex) has been done.

(member)

12/12/11 10:37 PM

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SAM? Is that you? Why in the world would one suggest I e-mailed her husband? Not true at all. Kiddos are away for the month :). Thought I would read/keep up on mrsB on both sites. I enjoy the way her story changes, ever-so-slightly from board to board. It is likin' to a girl that had to attend two different high schools, same physical chick, just a slightly differnt background to tell.

(member)

12/12/11 10:55 PM

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You are down right playing stupid now. I don't think you are stupid IRL. In the past you knew exactly what was happening. Now, you act as if....?

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/12/11 10:55 PM

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Nope - not accusing anyone of emailing her ex. Don't know who did it, wouldn't accuse unless I did know for sure, and frankly it doesn't matter anymore. The point has been made. Anyone can do something that low and underhanded and we all must be careful.

(member)

12/12/11 11:29 PM

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Agreed. Everyone needs to be carefull on the internet. Sadly, Mrs. B, didn't read or hear the warnings. She was told on 2 boards to stop posting last summer. She was above the law. Now, the end of the on-line drama is playing out. Oh, well, she said she didn't give a crap about the crazies that were so into her. I try and not call crazy people crazy on a public board.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/13/11 07:04 AM

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I really wish DS would "turn the lights back on".

googledad

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/13/11 07:16 AM

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Is it time for the obligatory " must be that time of the month " joke ?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/13/11 08:05 AM

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It could be someone from the other board although I really doubt it. My guess is it's the same troll we've had with sample long road etc.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

12/13/11 08:06 AM

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That would totally be appropriate if they only behaved this way once a month;).