Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/18/12 08:55 PM

Nail? Yes

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Char9

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/19/12 04:52 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

HUH?

googledad

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/19/12 07:42 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Off your meds again ?

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/19/12 11:05 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

It's a nail alright - in the coffin that proves you're a whackjob. Things too quiet for you?

gr8Dad

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/19/12 11:53 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

While I in NO way defend Sampoe, what he is saying is correct. JL posted a SLEW of stuff about her personal situation, then complained when someone supposedly found out all this stuff about her.

She is convinced someone TOLD her ex about this stuff, but its JUST as likely he read it HERE.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/19/12 01:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I agree, Gr8. This exact stuff was posted on at least 3 different message boards - not just here.

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/20/12 01:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Oh I'm not arguing that point. Not at all. You post it on the internet you open yourself up to harassment.

I just saw this post as our resident troll's not so passive agressive attempt to say that JL was denying dad access and would be hurt by the original post.

Sampoe has her head so far up JL's hiney looking for dirt it's a wonder JL can even sit down.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/20/12 03:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ehhh. I'm sittin' just fine but thank you:).

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/20/12 06:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

If you don't like my posts then stay out of them! Yes Googledad, that's directed at you. When somebody is trying to build a custody case and this message board provides ALL the evidence to prove that somebody is NOT willing to co-parent, deliberatly practices Parental Alliantion (and makes absolutely no bones about it), blatantly manufactures 'stories' for entertainment (at the expense of a small child), then yes this place is a wealth of information and will be used. Sorry if you don't like it.

I admit that some of her stories are horrifying and NOT true, even in the most remote imagination.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/20/12 10:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I can't open it.....what is it/

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/21/12 11:48 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Are you afraid MrsBs ex is too stupid to look this stuff up himself even after you spoonfed it in an email or just bored?

nope

(member)

01/21/12 07:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

What would make you think anyone spoon-fed her ex anything? From where I sit, MrsB shoved her on-line life down everyone's throats. She took on a blog hobby of sorts.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/21/12 10:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Obsessed much? Get.A.Life.Sad.Individual.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 07:56 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I have to say, you're posting to this and saying THAT? Is really ridiculous. You are one who probably helped FEED these "obsessions" and helped make it POSSIBLE for these people to access court records and such.

Dumbo opened her fat trap and WELCOMED people going and looking at court docs and such and you and several others handed out site names like it was candy.

THEN you bytch on a post like this that whoever is "obsessed" when oh my gosh, YOU helped give them ammo.

Sorry, but that's completely idiotic. You helped CREATE the drama then stand back and wag your finger like you're completely not a part of it. Drives me crazy you don't see, or aren't willing to take responsibility for, YOUR part in this whole nonsense. It's very sad.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 03:02 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yeah, you keep telling yourself that. How many times have they posted in the past month or 3 and I have remained silent. Yet...I see you and SRS pipe in EVERY time they post.

You should realize how completely idiotic you guys look.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 03:48 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

EVERY time M5? REALLLYYYY?????? Hmmm.. interestingly enough? I deliberately did NOT post to this thread until YOU posted YOUR post :):):):):)

Just sayin ;)

Thank you though.. I woulda bet my yearly salary that once Dumbo posted, you wouldn't be far behind.. thanks for proving my analysis dead on correct...

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 08:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I already bet a years salary you'd be piping in yourself. Thanks! ;)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 08:51 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yup, I did.. I made 100 g's off my bet, how much did you make? ;)

Arden

(old hand)

01/22/12 08:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5M5, with all due respect I know where the court papers can be found online and I will admit I have read them. It was you that posted where they could be found that led me there.

It was back during one of those extremely nonsensical long threads. In some thread earlier BeachBabe had stated she had read court papers and knew what she was talking about. Remember, I am not a regular poster here so I do miss stuff. Anyway, I just more or less figured MrsB sent her papers until her friends started commenting on the fact Sampoe was a troll and was only reading and repeating what he read in the online court papers. At that point it didn't even remotely occur to me to look for them (I am lazy that way). Plus I didn't care enough one way or the other.

Then another thread started and maybe in your zest to defend and stick up for MrsB you did post the name of the site. Sitting home sick being completely bored, it perked my interest that time and I went to the site you posted. I was stunned by what I saw there.

Her exs full name, names of employers, her sons full name, the name of his school, addresses. Way too much information for me or anyone from here to know. On that information alone I could have easily contacted her ex. No, it was not me, but, someone else who obviously read there, did contact him. Trust me if I was able to find it any lurker on here could have.

Say what you want about Lexi, but her and I talk a lot. About our jobs, life, kids, my grandkids, exs, holidays, life in general but, never not once did she ever mention to me about those court papers being viewable on line. As much as we talk she never mentioned them to me at all. I mentioned it to her after you posted the site and I went there seeing those names and such and how it worried me for MrsB and she responded with something along the lines of yeah I know. So no, the information wasn't passed behind the scenes that time, at least for me...it was you that posted it.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 09:53 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Would love for you to find where M5 posted it - because I'm rather certain, she did not.

Regardless - none of this behavior makes it OK.

It doesn't matter what you think of me, PM, or anyone else. For anyone to take the matter lightly, shows a complete lack of empathy. To my knowledge, nothing that personal about me has ever been publicly posted. Regardless - it gives no one the right to do what they have done. And anyone who excuses that behavior, loses a lot of respect in my book. Whether or not that matters - doesn't really matter. It is what it is. While the "troll" has attempted to make things difficult for me, and while PM and SRS and a few others keep feeding it...nothing has become of it, and they continue to lie.

The fact that anyone would take these people, who are apparently too cowardice by hiding behind fake names, seriously - especially by grown men and women who you think would have more sense, truly amazes me.

It's sad to see this continue to happen - not sad for myself, but sad for the fact so many people even care, and - not in the way those here care by contacting me privately - but those of you who even give the "trolls" the time of day or attempt to back up what they are saying, or excuse it.

I hope you never have to be in my position. Luckily - the judge couldn't care less. And as always - justice prevails, and what goes around comes around. And in the mean time - I truly feel sorry for those here who can't seem to move on. And some think I'm the one with the issues...

nope

(member)

01/22/12 10:23 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

It was Miranda that passed the site on to me through a post.

nope

(member)

01/22/12 10:34 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

"Reading a motion from the OK Court DOcket Lookup, OSCN, like it is fact is hilarious...

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13.1...because I am only half crazy!"

M5M5 also mentions the very site in one of her post's in the same thread.

Edited by Miranda (03/06/11 08:31 PM)

nope

(member)

01/22/12 10:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

For you to say "The judge couldn't care less" is laughable. Why was it again that you were arrested? Yes, MrsB, when you sign off on a OR, with a trial date set, you were ARRESTED for failure to obey a courts DIRECT order. You are correct, justice does prevail.

Are you suppose to be posting at all about your court case on the internet? Even behind the doors?

Sherron

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 11:06 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

""Reading a motion from the OK Court DOcket Lookup, OSCN, like it is fact is hilarious...

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13.1...because I am only half crazy!"

M5M5 also mentions the very site in one of her post's in the same thread.

Edited by Miranda (03/06/11 08:31 PM)"

Post the link to this.

nope

(member)

01/22/12 11:19 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[censored]://[censored].divorcesource.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=734833&page=0&fpart=58&vc=1

Miranda tries to pretend the ole' "who me?"
M5M5 also spills the beans in the thread

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/22/12 11:50 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Arden, all due respect, you are wrong. I never posted the name of the site. Ever. Please feel free to prove me wrong. If you can, I will issue you an apology.

What I DID say, was that it was easy for the freaks to find her info on here because she had been too free (TRUSTED the wrong ppl) on here...and I may have even said that it was online. But NEVER did I mention the name of the site.

Really? I expected better of you than to falsely accuse me of something like this.

For the record, I didn't say PM was giving out all JL's info. I told her I wasn't surprised to see her pop in on this thread (AND the last one Sampson posted...she DID, go back and read..and I wasn't anywhere to be found in that one). That's it.

Kinda weird that you read the papers. Even I haven't read 98% of them.

nope

(member)

01/22/12 11:56 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So, M5M5 you have been to the court site?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 12:05 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

You're right JL...maybe Arden can get her Search Queen friend PM there to find the post where I named the site your court papers were located on. They won't find it.

AAAAACKKCKKDKKKKKKK I hate when ppl post lies about me!! lol

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 12:06 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

WHERE did I spill any effin' beans? I went thru the ENTIRE long thread...and I didn't see my posting private info at all. Put up or shut the hell up!

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 02:10 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I think you'll be waiting a while.. :)

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 05:53 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

But of course. I'll not hold my breath!

Sherron

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:37 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

"[censored]://[censored].divorcesource.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=734833&page=0&fpart=58&vc=1

Miranda tries to pretend the ole' "who me?"
M5M5 also spills the beans in the thread "

Still waiting for the link, that info is not in the link you posted, and the quote is even wrong... sounds made up, since no one can find where M5 or Miranda posted it...

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:53 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

And FTR - what nail? That thread was mostly about her not sending the kid off with her exMIL, which she was entitled to not do per their agreement.

SockPuppet1

(journeyman)

01/23/12 02:30 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You bet she has. So have the rest of the "freinds."

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 06:55 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't see where I ever said this behavior is or was okay. I don't see where I have excused anyone either.

I stand by the what I said, there was a post by M5 that led me to look at your court papers. No, I don't think she posted it to lead people there. It was in one of those ridiculously long threads. It was towards the end when the thread was dying down. M5 had many posts in a row, where she was answering, defending you or challenging people/posts. Chances are if I had not been home sick for several days I probably would have never read it and we wouldn't even be having this conversation.

I read most of the posts, posted today and I see where someone said Miranda posted the site. I honestly don't remember Miranda at all, so I don't think I read that post. But, yes it os possible M5 was answering or agreeing with her that led me to that page. I know what was posted was not a direct link and it had to be searched. Didn't take but a few minutes. I do remember some old of your husbands driving records popping up first though.

I remember it came after some hoopla about you posting at another site. You were acting like you had no idea what that was about and saying you would love to know just what site it was you were posting at. I remember M5 defending you and agreeing with you. That went on until someone had enough and basically said,, oh for crap sake, the site is, xxxx. I remember feeling bad for M5 that she played into you hands about that and then it was brought out there was a site and you were aware of it all along. I guess that is why I paid a little more attention to her posts. Maybe I was wrong about her, but at the time I felt she really didn't know you were posting elsewhere. When I saw that other post, I clearly remember feeling bad at the time thinking in her zest to defend you she unwittingly revealed where you court docs were.

Should I have looked...probably not, but I did and I am sure I am not the only one. Do I think it is alright that I know where they are, no. I was very uncomfortable with the amount of information available through them.

That is why I had to wonder why you kept on taunting, engaging and daring people to look things up, take their best shot, so to speak, contact your lawyer/ex and all that.

After poking the tiger aka troll over and over you tried to act surprised when it finally bit you. When you clearly were not innocent in any of it.

It seems to me like you were playing a very dangerous game, knowing the amount of information available to people. Even as far as the last thread you started here. I have read that e-mail to your ex and not one time was DS mentioned. Only facebook and your other sites. I thought it to very careless of you to draw the attention of that here, when DS was not even involved.

Then again, you know your life better than me and know what is best for you. But, the bottom line is, everything I have learned about you came from either you or one of your close friends and defenders. Not once have I ever heard or read anything from the ones you think are against you.

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 07:04 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I wouldn't hold it either if I was you. Especially if you are waiting for me to look.

No way am I going to bother looking at any of those threads again. I couldn't even tell you which thread it was in. I have nothing to prove to anyone.

Plus more than once around here I have seen posts get edited. No I am not saying you have done it and I have never seen where you have. It is just there have been times I have started to comment on something and what I am commenting on seems to have disappeared from the original posting. For that reason alone, I personally think searching is a big waste of time.

I am not accusing you of anything. I know what I what I know and I know how I ended up at MrsB court records.

Everyone is so quick to claim their hands are clean, I was just showing you that is not always the case.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 07:10 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So, I guess the question of the day is "who hasn't read JLs online crap? Not who has."

Am I the only one who didn't care enough?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 07:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Well, you are wrong (responding to both your posts to JL and me)...it was not me. I only said that with as much info that has been made available (and yes, we have already established that JL shared too much and trusted the wrong ppl), it would be easy for someone with the time and inclination to find her online documents. That's it.

Pretty sure the one you won't name is PM...isn't she the on that spilled the beans on the other site? I like how you want to take up for your friend...but in this case...she didn't need it as I said nothing about her sharing information. It was her jumping on me for daring to jump on a troll. But...keep right on excusing her bad behavior or ignoring it. It's all good.

I didn't think I'd get an apology after you specifically said I was the one that named the site.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 07:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]So, I guess the question of the day is "who hasn't read JLs online crap? Not who has."

Am I the only one who didn't care enough? [/quote]

It paints a much different story than the one she has posted on here for years and years. It's like it's 2 different families, except the court records are much more accurate. It's a shame that she will loose custody to a man she hated to make the perfect family with her new husband, whom she no longer has. Poor poor kid.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 07:34 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

That was actually easy to figure out by her postings over the years. No one can have that much drama induced by other people - and be totally innocent.

I was just amazed that so many people fell for it. I did, though, for the first couple of years I was here. But, where there's smoke there's fire.

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 07:41 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5, honestly I am not trying to pick a fight with you. First off I do like you and second as far as all the whatfor and whatnots I just don't care enough...however....

It might have been Lexi that said the name of the site, the honest reason I didn't say a name was because I couldn't remember who it was. If it was her I am sure she will say it was. If it wasn't I am sure she will be here to say that too, lol.

Yes, I do like LB. I however do not run around here blindly backing up or defending her in every post she makes. I don't need to. Of she gets her ass in a tight, she knows how to get it out or give it up. That is one of the things I do like about her. The reason I posted this time was because I knew first hand what I was talking about, since I am the one that went and read her court papers and I know how I got there.

You can wonder all you want why I like LB after (gasp) what she did to MrsB. It is because she owned up to it. She didn't hide or make a cutesy game out of it. When the jig was up she owned it. I respect that. She took and continues to take a beating over all that crap. Obviously she wasn't in it by herself, but the cowards who hid and still hide are not not ever mentioned. At this point you have to almost think she was PMing all that shyt to herself, because I sure never see any others taking the heat. Say what you want about me defending her, this is the first time I ever mentioned all that on here and it will probably be the last.

I see you feel the same way about MrsB, even though she has proved not to have strong sense of the truth. You like her in spite of that. I don't think I have ever questioned you or anyone else on why they like her.

Now let me ask you a question,

Why did you play along with MrsB's little game of,

"Wow I wonder what site I post on. I sure would like to know..........................."

I didn't think you played those kind of games. Finding out you do makes you kind of a disingenuous poster and I didn't think of that way.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 07:43 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yes, even the man that married her fell for it, but he didn't stick around long.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 07:50 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

my favorite MrsB line was: "Yes I would like to know what I was arrested for and what I am being arraigned for???? I would like to know."

The Disney Dumbo could pull this off, not MrsB. It just made her look like an idiot, not dumb. Sadly, M5M5 came to rescue that time as well.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 07:56 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't stick up for JL all the time either. We've had our disagreements, believe me (and it's public..on this very board). My point and question to you is...why did you feel the need to say what you did? I didn't tell PM that she was spreading info. The ONLY thing I said...ok, well I will just copy and paste:

M5M5
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Re: Nail? Yes [Re: nope]
#775047 - 01/21/12 11:13 PM
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Obsessed much? Get.A.Life.Sad.Individual.

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LexieBelle
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Re: Nail? Yes [Re: M5M5]
#775057 - 01/22/12 08:56 AM
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I have to say, you're posting to this and saying THAT? Is really ridiculous. You are one who probably helped FEED these "obsessions" and helped make it POSSIBLE for these people to access court records and such.

Dumbo opened her fat trap and WELCOMED people going and looking at court docs and such and you and several others handed out site names like it was candy.

THEN you bytch on a post like this that whoever is "obsessed" when oh my gosh, YOU helped give them ammo.

Sorry, but that's completely idiotic. You helped CREATE the drama then stand back and wag your finger like you're completely not a part of it. Drives me crazy you don't see, or aren't willing to take responsibility for, YOUR part in this whole nonsense. It's very sad.

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M5M5
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Re: Nail? Yes [Re: LexieBelle]
#775071 - 01/22/12 04:02 PM
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Yeah, you keep telling yourself that. How many times have they posted in the past month or 3 and I have remained silent. Yet...I see you and SRS pipe in EVERY time they post.

You should realize how completely idiotic you guys look.

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I can't stand Liars. I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants doesn't catch on fire.

_______

Do you see where she jumped on me for telling a troll to get a life? What brought HER into it? NOTHING was said about sharing information. Period. I didn't start with her. So...your post makes no sense.

And to answer your question, I did not know there was another board until shortly before that thread. JL told me that she did post on another board but she didn't believe the trolls had that information. And if they DID have that information, she was wanting to know how they came by it since only a few ppl knew about them or where they were (if memory serves).

Does that satisfy you?

nope

(member)

01/23/12 08:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 08:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5M5, I'm sure you have seen the records by now. Still want to stand behind a liar? Just asking. You have been fooled, had, and manipulated by a woman who has made up sooooo many stories about her ex husband on this board, and the other 2 for giggles. The court records prove this.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:10 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

<<And to answer your question, I did not know there was another board until shortly before that thread. JL told me that she did post on another board but she didn't believe the trolls had that information. And if they DID have that information, she was wanting to know how they came by it since only a few ppl knew about them or where they were (if memory serves).
>>

Just to clarify - other than the one other person who posts there, the only other person who knew the exact board was PM.

So....yeah.

:)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Blatant lie! By the time you invited me to go to Delphi there were SEVERAL other posters there. NOT including YAH who is the "one" other poster. Absolute lie. And I sooooooo wish I hadn't been guilted out of saving private messages because in the invite sge SAID, CLEARLY that they had invited certain people and that there were others from here... There.

Leegirl, I'm pretty sure focused, to name just a couple.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:20 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Sorry, I have not read any records, except one, and that was over a year ago I think.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 08:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

LIAR! I've been posting there for years along with alot of others and YOU KNOW/KNEW THAT! Your stories just changed based on your audience.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 08:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

OMG: was it your private board? Only YOU could post on the 3 boards? Only YOU could invite people to other sites? MrsB you need a lesson on the World Wide Web. Your story was hard to miss on all 3 sites. Thousands of people visit Step Family boards every frigging day.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 08:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

There are several posters on both boards. It is easy to figure out who's who.

They are more hostile to JL over there because of the stalking stuff and her tendancy to post so much about herself - even told her to get a blog instead of posting so selfishly.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 08:41 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I know of the soccer mom, but I don't know her story except that she is always right and everyone better get that PDQ. Doesn't she call the school board a lot?

Oh and the lovely Miranda is there too.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 08:44 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Sorry, I have not read any records, except one, and that was over a year ago I think. [/quote]

Then you might want to! You are sticking up for a woman who has lied to 3 boards, has lied to the court so much that the judge had finally had enough and put in a SERIOUS contempt of court charge against her, for which she is now facing trial and will mostly likely loose custody of her kid. You want to support that? Oh, and the dad just wanted to be a dad. But you go on supporting her bs, most don't, including the judge.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 08:45 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

****Just to clarify - other than the one other person who posts there, the only other person who knew the exact board was PM.******

Liar Liar Liar...you know frigging well you brought Miranda AND the soccer mom there as well.

Can you ever just be truthful? Even when it is so simple to do so?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 08:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M. did let PM/LB have a go at JL after she accused her of stalking and banned her.

Yes, Miranda is there and so is the Soccer Mom.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 08:50 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So, has her husband left her because of all the drama?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:52 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Pretty sure the one you won't name is PM...isn't she the on that spilled the beans on the other site? [/quote]

-------------->>> Ehhhhh.. WRONG ANSWER!!! Arden has it 100% correct. Absolutely! I got the court site from the same thread she did. I won't bother retyping everything else she explained because it's the same. The long thread, the naming of the site essentially, JL daring people TO go look at the court site, your piping in as well.. all of it.

And Arden is also correct, we are NOT the only people that **I** know of who have gone and looked.

I will absolutely state that I went and specifically looked after JL implicated me, without necessarily naming me specifically HERE (but she did QUITE the number on me over at Delphi, to see JUST what I'd been accused of. Well, first of all what was sent to her ex didn't come from HERE, it came from THERE. NO question about it. And the person? And least POSED as a MAN.

So there it is.

Oh as for naming Delphi? Yeah, it's very possible it went down EXACTLY as Arden said. It was one of those "what? other site?? WTF are you talking about?????????" lies of JL's.. and it was being namby-bampy, tippytoed around so yup, I NAMED it. What's the problem????

I was NOT the "only other person besides the ONE person here" who was over there. and I wish to GOD, if I believed in such an entity, that I kept private messages because I'd sure as shyt post THAT private message because she was VERY CLEAR. They had an exclusive little group of people that (she made it sound like) that when "they" (insinuating her, with others) created the Delphi site, they chose to invite. For her to say anything other than that? is a baldfaced, out and out, patent LIE.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 08:52 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Bunny, you told me about that board, and recommended that I join WAY before I found this cesspit of a message board. It wasn't until you did the things you did with b and b that I came here, and you know that!

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 08:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Not sure who "the soccer mom" is.. but yes, she is a LIAR. i would give my right arm to have the message where she invited me there!!!!!

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 08:56 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The Delphi board came from IVillage. THey talk about it regularly. THey didn't like the Admin stuff at IVillage so they migrated. It isn't exclusive at all.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 08:57 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

LexieBelle, you have some spunk and I find you truthfull.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 08:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Soccer Mom's kids play soccer (obviously). SHe posts the same soccer stories on both boards.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Oh, not a DS poster then, one of the village people then, lol. "the village people".. lol.. I just cracked myself up!

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:02 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

No. Soccer mom posts here and Delphi. The exact same soccer stories. Just cut and paste. She and her ex do get along.

ETA: I had a small bout of insomnia this past fall, so I'd read here and there in the middle of the night. Better than laying in bed.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 09:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

From what I can tell, the scoccer mom is YAH, which is just as much a bully to her ex as Bunny. Except in Bunny's case, her ex is fighting back for his son.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yeah we all know this because you bring it up ALL THE FLIPPING TIME! It's obvious you just stalk the heck out of her on both boards. Jeez. Get a hobby.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:17 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ohhhhhhhhhh... duh... Okay... I was thinking that was a name, lol. Yes, what little I've ever been over there, and seen her post, they are exact cut and paste copies between here and there.

And thank you for your comment.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:17 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

When MrsB was on ivillage, same time I was, she was asking question on how to gather evidence that her boss was sexually harrassing her. They had a few romps and later she left the company. She did file suit against the comapny, but it was dismissed. She than returned to MrB and they kissed and made up.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:19 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Are you saying the judge filed a contempt motion against her? Why should I go and read her files? I have a life and do not have time for it, frankly.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:20 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Unless M5M5 you are on both boards how would you have that knowledge? Were you too "invited" over to Delphi?

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The judge had her ARRESTED!

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I can't speak to what you and JL discussed in private. I didn't say you named the court info...I KNOW you didn't. I was speaking of when you named the Delphi site. I was thinking it was Katie that named the court site.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:23 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

LOL, oh my.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 09:24 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Are you saying the judge filed a contempt motion against her? Why should I go and read her files? I have a life and do not have time for it, frankly. [/quote]

Yes, that IS EXACTLY what I am saying! If you have a busy life, then stop defending a person/cause that you know nothing about (if you haven't read the records). She does what she does best, lies! And the court has had enough.

I don't know your story M5M5 and I really don't care, but would you stick up for a parent that doesn't co-parent, withholds parenting time, lies to the court about income and now martial status? Would you?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:25 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Knowledge of what? That SRS follows JL to the other board? Because SRS constantly posts abut it.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:28 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

No, she wasn't invited. She's a wanna-be who will defend JL until she turns blue.

JL can steal, lie, and cheat but M5 will always have her back because JL is sweet and naive.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:28 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I've never heard of a judge filing a contempt motion on someone. I mean...don't they just normally hold someone in contempt?

Why do you care so much what anyone on this site or the next says about their own life? What business is it of yours? I'm not going to go "seek out" the files. I don't care WHAT has been filed against her. The only thing that would matter is what a judge put in a CO.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:29 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

lol so you are God now? lollololololol

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:29 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm curious to know how a judge files contempt against someone too :). Hold them in contempt? Sure. (however, I have never been held in contempt of court - but, nice try for the trolls). But filing contempt against someone? Does that even make sense? Oh dear...not exactly the sharpest tools in the shed...

Of course anyone can *file* contempt on anyone. Doesn't really mean jack sh*t until they are *held* in contempt.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote] Why should I go and read her files? I have a life and do not have time for it, frankly. [/quote]

No offense but.. then why are you defending her, if you don't know whether what Sampoe is saying is or isn't true? Particularly if you have a life, and don't have time for it?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:32 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Honestly, if you truly have the real-life stalking and other bad situations going on in your life that are being posted about - I'd stay away from posting in the internet.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:33 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Awe, sweetie - has your 7 year old gotten ahold of your computer logins again?

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:34 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Did you just type that? Oh my! You need to get therapy soon. Maybe the court should order that as well. You are totally off your rocker. You know damn well it is public record, yet you still say "What? What are you talking about?"

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:34 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Honestly, if you truly have the real-life stalking and other bad situations going on in your life that are being posted about - I'd stay away from posting on the internet.

You must be stupid to continue.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:36 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm floored... completely floored...

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:37 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The judge issues the arrest warrent. Then poor little MrsB had to go to court (didn't show up) but was order to appear in the Judge's chambers to sign her OR. When you have to sign an OR means you were placed under arrest! The judge ordered it.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:38 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't think JL is a bad person. Naive? Yes. Too trusting? Yes. Why do you believe Sampson? Have you read the documents? If you have, why don't you say so? Why don't you say whether Samson is right? Why doesn't Arden? Why doesn't anyone else except the trolls? Everyone seems to be basing their opinion on the word of TROLLS. I'm not likely to believe or trust them, but more power to anyone that does.

Just seems like a lot of effort for something that doesn't affect me. It's nothing for me to post on here, or FB. I'm assuming it would take a good bit of time to go thru years of documents.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:39 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The other party files the application or motion for the court to issue a citation, but the judge issues the citation itself.. then the person who charged with contempt gets arraigned.... but you KNOW that already, don't you?

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:39 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Not schizophrenia, but some other disorder perhaps?

nope

(member)

01/23/12 09:46 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I cannot believe MrsB is still able to sit here and pretend she doesn't know what I am talking about. It is very simple and a open court record. She should not have a child to care for if she doesn't remember being arrested. How awful.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 09:46 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Please don't act dumb! No, the judge didn't file contempt charges against you, your boy's father did, and the judge was in agreement with the evidence, thus, he set it for trial. But you know that already, so why the games about it? Own it!

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 09:48 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I already answered that question in one of these threads.. so did Arden. So no, I'm not basing my opinions off trolls.

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 09:53 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 09:56 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

----But, the bottom line is, everything I have learned about you came from either you or one of your close friends and defenders. Not once have I ever heard or read anything from the ones you think are against you.

This.

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 09:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]I don't think JL is a bad person. Naive? Yes. Too trusting? Yes. Why do you believe Sampson? Have you read the documents? If you have, why don't you say so? Why don't you say whether Samson is right? Why doesn't Arden? Why doesn't anyone else except the trolls? Everyone seems to be basing their opinion on the word of TROLLS. I'm not likely to believe or trust them, but more power to anyone that does.
[/quote]

Why doesn't Arden answer what? If you are asking if what Sampoe is saying is in fact in the court documents, the answer is, yes. What he is posting about those is true. As far anything else personal about her marriage and whatnot, I have no idea.

Now I have to ask, have you REALLY not read the docs or is this just another "What site" routine? Serious question.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

If it hasn't been to trail yet, how was she arrested? Doesn't she have to be "found in contempt" to be arrested? How long was she locked up?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I must have missed that. All I saw Arden say was that she read the documents. That's it.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

What the heck are you talking about?? You asked if I knew about the other boards...I said I found out during that thread or right before (sorry, I don't remember).

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I've not read the documents...just the one from a year or so ago that she filed. Now, since you have read the documents...is there a court order with all this? Or is it just her ex filing and accusing her of stuff? Was she found to be in contempt by the judge? Did the judge have her arrested?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So - what you're saying is - anyone can claim anything. Anyone can put anything in a court document and file it with the courts.

Not sure what you have seen or haven't seen - but if you're saying I've been held in contempt, and had to pay attorney fees for this BS, etc....it's a load of crap.

The fact that anyone takes any of these trolls seriously is hilarious.

Yes - there is absolutely some truth to what has been posted by them - and a whole whole bunch of outright lies.

Why anyone really cares the differences is beyond me. But hey - whatever floats your boat.

I can file a document accusing you of anything I want to accuse you of, and it will show up online on our court records - doesn't mean jackcrap, unless a judge has anything to say about it.

We can play the "oh JL is so awful" and her "ex is oh so great" all we want to. It's rather comical.

Am I perfect? Nope. Never claimed to be. But, nor will I explain myself to a bunch of bored losers who have nothing better to do than twist the truth and take a pathological liar's word to heart.

Seriously, it's become comical.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:04 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

<<If it hasn't been to trail yet, how was she arrested? Doesn't she have to be "found in contempt" to be arrested? How long was she locked up?
>>

Yup - just one tiny example of one of their outrageous lies. Nope - haven't been found in contempt. Nope - haven't had to pay any of his court fees (which he doesn't have to pay any at all, anyway). And nope - haven't been to jail!

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:05 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

<<I've not read the documents...just the one from a year or so ago that she filed. Now, since you have read the documents...is there a court order with all this? Or is it just her ex filing and accusing her of stuff? Was she found to be in contempt by the judge? Did the judge have her arrested?
>>

No, and No. :)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:06 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

She just further clarified it.. so no, she's not basing anything off trolls either.

the other questions are just silly.. it's a family court thing, it's not a criminal charge. You're not "arrested"... the court issues a citation, you show up to be "arraigned", they let you go on your own word assuming you're not gonna blow off a family court trial; HOWEVER, if you didn't show up? Yup, a bench warrant would be issued because if you don't show, that's a violation of your bond ("release").. This is just in general, not referring to her specifically but it "should" apply the same to her case.

I mean, this is pretty standard family court stuff... in terms of process. Those who have seen the docs know what for and some have posted.. in not necessarily exact terms and maybe with a little heat/tone.. but it is what it is.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 10:07 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

If you truly have this much IRL drama happening because of stuff from the internet - stop.

Really - just stop.

Pick up a book or watch a little tv. Go for a run.

Get off the internet and stop posting details about your life.

If your life is being torn to crap because of a few supposed trolls, then stop posting.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:09 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]<<I've not read the documents...just the one from a year or so ago that she filed. Now, since you have read the documents...is there a court order with all this? Or is it just her ex filing and accusing her of stuff? Was she found to be in contempt by the judge? Did the judge have her arrested?
>>

No, and No. :) [/quote]

Wow. And Wow..

nope

(member)

01/23/12 10:11 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5M5 are you back woods people? People go to trial AFTER they are arrested, not before.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 10:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5M5, despite what MrsB is going to say to you is not important. Go read the records and you will find that she is being 'held in contempt' on some pretty SERIOUS charges. The judge reviewed the evidence and decided that the evidence was too strong to dismiss (clear cut dry evidence) and set it for trial. Will she be held in contemp after the trial? YEA WITHOUT A DOUBT BASED ON HER OWN ACTIONS AND PROBLEMS. Will she have to pay ex's attorney fees? Yeah that probably too. Will she loose custody of the boy, not likely but it will go to 50/50 with the court and other agencies watching her and looking out for the boy. Sorry, but it's true. Everthing she told you about her ex and the relationship he 'wanted' with is son was a complete lie.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I think the issue is wording/phrasing.

It's coming across like she's already been found guilty of contempt, which isn't what I think you're trying to say. A citation is not a conviction. it means there's enough, in the judge's eyes, to warrant trial. And you issue a bond in order to ensure the accused's appearance AT trial. In criminal court, that bond would be either personal recognizance or money, depending on the severity. In family court, it'd be typically personal recognizance given the low level of "crime". Also, given the low level of "crime", you wouldn't be "arrested".. they'd schedule an arraignment or appearance and you'd be expected to appear and plead. They don't typically waste taxpayers money running around arresting people for contempt citations to appear in court. Just sayin' :)

Perhaps that will make it clearer to M5...

nope

(member)

01/23/12 10:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The judge was an idiot to belive him over her

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ok, so you're saying she failed to show up to court so the judge issues a bench warrant?

Yep, it's family court. All kinds of accusations, true or not, fly in family court. It's a downright dirty place at times.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:17 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Really? Tell that to my husband's ex. She went to jail AFTER trial.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:19 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Is there a COURT ORDER, with the judge's signature on it, that says she IS in contempt? Or is a a PETITION for contempt?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

LOL. I didn't "fail" to show up anywhere :). But nice try ladies.

Man - they sure haven't been this fiesty of all the times XH was held in contempt and didn't show up for hearings :).

So yeah...for the record? I have never been held in contempt. Have they petitioned it? Sure. As have I. Many times, for reasons that actually have meaning and for actually going against a CO.

No bench warrant. Not in contempt of anything. But yes, they've tried. :) And they have failed. :)

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 10:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Seriously M5, if you are this interested in what is going on, go read it for yourself. You can then draw your own conclusion. Why are expecting people her to spoon feed it to you?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Mmmm another LIE. I have never had a bench warrant issued against me.

This is funny :)

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:24 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

<<Seriously M5, if you are this interested in what is going on, go read it for yourself. You can then draw your own conclusion. Why are expecting people her to spoon feed it to you? >>

There are several people who have read the same thing and still come to extremely different conclucions. Take for example what you and PM believe to be true, vs. those of my friends or who are involved in real life.

It's all about perception, apparently. To those who aren't actually involved. *which would be every single one of you*

Even so. Facts are facts. Don't know WTH you even care, but hey, doesn't matter to me.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:25 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

One question.. did YOU know about the arraignment?

Simple yes or no will do.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You people can't READDDDDDDDD!!!!!!

Slowly now... if one is on BOND.. which Personal Recognizance, PRE TRIAL, is BOND, and one does NOT APPEAR AT TRIAL.. then a BENCH WARRANT WILL BE ISSUED! Bond is SUPPOSED to ensure one's appearance at trial. NO ONE said you had a bench warrant ALREADY issued against you. One WOULD be if you fail to appear at trial. Particularly since you have you have used your own self (OR/PR) as the surety that you WILL appear at trial.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 10:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:29 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

No, have no idea if there was an arraignment or not.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 10:29 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Is there a COURT ORDER, with the judge's signature on it, that says she IS in contempt? Or is a a PETITION for contempt? [/quote]

There was enough evidence against MrB, (despite her attorney's pleas in court and writtings) that the judge (who hates the ex) set it for MrsB to stand trial.

So, she is standing trial in the family court for not following court orders. Normally, a judge here would just tell you to stop it, but this crap with MrsB has been going on long enough and set her for a trial on her behavior.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:30 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Do you have short term memory loss?

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ok, so there is no court order, there is just a trial date...which we already knew about. Jeez.

Arden

(old hand)

01/23/12 10:33 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]<<Seriously M5, if you are this interested in what is going on, go read it for yourself. You can then draw your own conclusion. Why are expecting people her to spoon feed it to you? >>

There are several people who have read the same thing and still come to extremely different conclucions. Take for example what you and PM believe to be true, vs. those of my friends or who are involved in real life.

It's all about perception, apparently. To those who aren't actually involved. *which would be every single one of you*

Even so. Facts are facts. Don't know WTH you even care, but hey, doesn't matter to me. [/quote]

Umm that is exactly why I told her go read and draw her own conclusion.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 10:37 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Ok, so there is no court order, there is just a trial date...which we already knew about. Jeez. [/quote]

Do you have ANY IDEA what this trial is about? Because it has NOTHING to due with custody, visitation, child support or martial debt! I almost feel sorry for you M5M5, I feel that you have come in at the end of the movie.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 10:39 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

There was and she has had to sign a bond before her trial. Her trial has nothing to do with the CS or custody battle. It has to do with her recent failure to abide to the courts order. Are you just playing stupid? Or are you really stupid? She signed her own bond. People normally don't sit in jail waiting for a trial. Where do you live?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:40 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]No, have no idea if there was an arraignment or not. [/quote]

Okay, soooo, do you remember the conversation you and I had about lying? And what constitutes lying? And I asked you, if someone knew that they had an arraignment, but yet pretended NOT to know about one, would that be a lie.. and you said "yes, that would be a lie". I was very specific if you recall.

Soooo, we know there WAS an arraignment. It's not a question, it's a fact. Sooo, the fact she pretended to have NO idea what was going on.. (oh but now we ALL know and apparently have known there's a trial.. which is news to me, b/c she vehemently denied all this was even happening, it was a figment of a troll's imagination) is NOT a lie?

Very simply.. she KNEW what the "troll" posted was at least partially (really mostly) true.. but feigned ignorance. That's not a lie to you? Where DO you draw the line M5 and why WON'T you look at the documents? Afraid to find out just how many lies your "friend" tells?

Arden's right.. go look for yourself. Don't play this stupid game, it makes you look REALLYYYYYYY stupid. You do, you look idiotic at this point. She lied. Period. She knew the night before her arraignment there WAS an arraignment. She had NO reason to even acknowledge it.. just IGNORE it. No can do, she HAD to respond and she HAD to lie. Why? What mental illness causes that level of compulsive lying? And she is compulsive. Period. Her ex may lie? But I doubt the law guardian does.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:50 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Cliff Notes - motion about anything posted on any websites was sustained. Trial date pushed back 5 months. No one has been held in contempt, no arraignments...although if there is one, it will not be on me, LOL, for I am not in contempt of anything the judge has ordered.

Of course, there's more to life than what is posted on that site, so I can see how some idiots may not realize that.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 10:51 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Where DO you draw the line? Don't play this stupid game, it makes you look REALLYYYYYYY stupid.

She had NO reason to even acknowledge it.. just IGNORE it. No can do, she HAD to respond and she HAD to lie. Why? What mental illness causes that level of compulsive lying? And she is compulsive. Period.

...ITA.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/23/12 10:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

SHe has to respond. It is the oddest thing I've ever seen. And I have worked for almost 2 decades with Psych inpatients.

If a person really has all of these problems caused by internet postings, you'd think they'd stop. But, she can't.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 10:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

" What mental illness causes that level of compulsive lying? And she is compulsive. Period"

I believe this issue will be addressed by the court by 2/12.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:55 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I could care less. I do not eat, breath and crap JL like you do, obvious. Nor are we BFFs. JL must have SEVERAL subscribers on her court documents. I mean, for all of you to be so caught up on what's going on.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/23/12 10:57 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Cliff Notes - motion about anything posted on any websites was sustained. Trial date pushed back 5 months. No one has been held in contempt, no arraignments...although if there is one, it will not be on me, LOL, for I am not in contempt of anything the judge has ordered.

You, lady need some serious help! I'm speechless!
Of course, there's more to life than what is posted on that site, so I can see how some idiots may not realize that. [/quote]

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 10:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Are YOU stupid? I never said you had to sit in jail waiting trial. YOU said she was arrested. She hasn't found to be in contempt of anything, and until she is...shut up.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 11:07 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yes I recall our conversation regarding what constitutes a lie.

She's always said that there is some truth to what the trolls post, but it's mixed in with a bunch of lies.

ETA: And the trial thing? I assumed it was the visitation/CS trial.

nope

(member)

01/23/12 11:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

There was no arrignment? What???? What????? the court clerk made it all up??? The judge is a liar?????

nope

(member)

01/23/12 11:09 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Your attorney entered a Not Guilty Plea. Why would he do so, if there was no arrignment?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 11:29 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Mmm.. NO, she did NOT.. NOT about the arraignment. it's VERY simple M5. You should remember our conversation it was very specific and I used that exact thing as an example. And you said, very clearly that YES, if someone KNEW there was x going on and yet PRETENDED TO NOT KNOW that x was going on that YES, that would constitute a lie.

Are you now denying that?

If NOT, then, your friend LIED. Period. End of discussion. When the post was made by the "troll" that she was being arraigned, her response was QUITE clear. TOTAL "I don't have any idea what you're talking about". Should I find it and post it again? It wasn't any question of "some of it's right some of it's wrong". On the matter of the arraignment, it is VERY VERY CRYSTAL clear and that's why, in our discussion on lying and defending liars, I used that as the example. I already knew what was fact before I asked you the question.

So.. either she lied, or she did not.. Which is it? Because the FACT is, that she HAS been "arraigned". The wording is crystalline clear. Whether trolls lie or do not lie.. court minutes do NOT.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 11:33 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

ETA: And the trial thing? I assumed it was the visitation/CS trial.

that would be correct :)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 11:36 PM

Here's the text

M5M5
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Re: Thanks! [Re: cutiepie]
#771011 - 12/12/11 11:08 PM
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So, what crime is she being charged for?

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M5M5
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Re: Thanks! [Re: ssmom79]
#771013 - 12/12/11 11:10 PM
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I feel the same way, ssmom. And I tell ya what, sometimes it drives me plum crazy not knowing who the guilty party is. I mean...we can think and guess all day, but...no one really knows. I have some ideas who it is, but that's all they are. Ideas.

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Re: Thanks! [Re: M5M5]
#771017 - 12/12/11 11:23 PM
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I'd love to know too:).

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So I suppose you could squirrel out of it saying "well there's no CRIME per se" but we all know what was said, and what she said which is right there "I'd love to know too", like she had NO idea what the troll was posting about...

Soooo, did she have no idea and would love to know? Or did she know EXACTLY what it was and played like the troll was lying.. which they weren't, SHE was.

Which is it? Seriously.. Which is it?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/23/12 11:43 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]SHe has to respond. It is the oddest thing I've ever seen. And I have worked for almost 2 decades with Psych inpatients.

If a person really has all of these problems caused by internet postings, you'd think they'd stop. But, she can't. [/quote]

-----------Ditto your ITA! And I'll see you an AMENNNN!!!

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 12:03 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I've stayed away from your mess....I've kept my mouth shut...but I got to say this....without a doubt you have got to be the most stupid individual I have ever seen. Why the hell you still post is beyond me.... You've dragged so many people through hell with acqusations of stalking, obsessions....etc. you seriously need mental help. I can't believe what all I am reading...how do all these people know your life?? Why do you do this to yourself.....dear god, you are an idiot....

Okay, I'm done....carry on

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 12:25 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

No, I am not denying it now and I still agree with what I said to you before.

I just wasted like an 1.5 hour of good sleep time.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 12:27 AM

Re: Here's the text

Well...maybe I'm slow or just really really tired...but it looks to me like she said "I'd love to know too" in response to my question/statement about how I would love to know who the guilty party is...meaning, who the trolls are. Since she replied to me right after I said that.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 12:46 AM

Re: Here's the text

Sorry M5, you're wrong. I just double checked to make 100% sure. Her reply was made to your "crime charged with" post. No question. It's right there in the "Thanks!" thread where she announced her ex was contacted.

Soooooo... by your admission above, pretending to not know something you DO know, she DID lie. Correct? It's very simple.

She won't tell the whole truth about the contempt either. It would make her look bad. So she will go along with the assumption it's about withholding visitation from her scumbag ex. Not quite.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 01:27 AM

Re: Here's the text

Ok, before hitting the sack, just wanted to reply and say I went and checked too, and you are right...she did say that in response to my "what was she charged for" question. Sorry. If one says they know something and one really does know something, yes...that would be a lie.

BTW, I said I just wasted a few hours. I read the court documents...kinda felt compelled to since no one would SPOON FEED it to me (thanks Arden..I now have a headache this big { } ).

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 05:37 AM

Re: Here's the text

I'm so lost....so what is the contempt for? If its not for withholding. Why would she low when so many people have access to her records? None of this or her makes sense. It's a trainwreck.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:11 AM

Re: Here's the text

She has not been found guilty of anything, for the record, that I can see. She was charged with contempt. An arraignment gives an accused person the right to hear the charges for which he or she is being prosecuted. Arraignment is the initial and first appearance before a judge where he reads the official charges against the defendant and he/she enters a plea (in this case Not Guilty). She has not been convicted of anything...she has not been "found in contempt".

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:13 AM

Re: Here's the text

Thank you M5.

Sorry u wasted hours, unfortunately, it's not her place or mine to potentially sway you with our perception of what's there.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:30 AM

Re: Here's the text

And - did you read what I was charged contempt for? Not being able to pay the GAL yet, which he has not completed either :). And that was not even filed by the GAL, but by his attorney.

If that's the worst thing I can be held in contempt for...well, alrighty.

And no - I have not been charged with anything. I have not been freaking arrested. I haven't even set foot in that court room in over a year.

Like I said - anyone can file anything they want, and claim anything they want. Doesn't make it true, nor does it make it valid to the judge.

The truth ALWAYS comes out in the end.

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:33 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

my words: But, the bottom line is, everything I have learned about you came from either you or one of your close friends and defenders. Not once have I ever heard or read anything from the ones you think are against you.
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That is why I posted.
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So you did know that MrsB was posting on another site and that was just a little slapstick routine you came up with to what, amuse yourselves? Trick posters who were putting real time thoughts into answers?

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This is late in the game, but I feel as though the reason why anyone can look up JL's court documents goes wayyyyy back. Way back when someone (eta: not a "friend" or "defender") splashed JL's real name and her X's name on this site. How else would anyone be able to look up the information? Either you were FB friends with her or saw her name splashed on here and looked it up.

As far as the "other board" from what I remember someone asked is there a board that you ALL- like there was a group of us- the very clique we all get accused of being part of- go to? JL answered with no, that there isn't. Just because SHE and maybe two other people go to another board doesn't mean we all do. It was in that context, I didn't even check out the other board until maybe a month ago. I wasn't invited- I remember years back people talking about ivillage, however there wasn't a "group" here that was part of the other board. And even if I remember correctly it was always just JL and YAH that sometimes visited another board- I never knew about anyone else.

As for the current stuff- well obviously, if someone knows JL's info they can look up her case. It's public information. I was already informed by JL about the current situation and when a trial was set for. I didn't need all the details and like anyone who has been to court in the past- your X can ask for anything and they often do. It does not mean it will be granted.

It just saddens me that this many people have no problem getting involved in someone else's child custody/CS dispute. That so many people went and read the documents and that there is a push to prove that every little thing JL says has some form of dishonesty to it. Is it really THAT important to a bunch of strangers???

Lastly, I would LOVE for SRS to take her own advice and ONLY post on topics where she has been in those shoes worn by the one the trolls post about. Where are her little rescuers reminding HER that it isn't right to kick someone when they are down or make light of situation? You just end up looking as more foolish than you suggest JL is.

I really had hoped this board to get back to be a support forum and maybe those you who cannot stand certain posters would just stop trying to out them? In the end, what good does it do? Do you feel vindicated? Can you sleep a little better at night knowing all you do after reading the court documents? In having doing so or writing about it- has it changed your life any? One would assume not. So why waste all this space? Get back to the little things- we all have children/spouses or family to love and be grateful for. Can the disdain for JL be inferior to the fact that she has a child in the midst of all this? Can't people let it go for the sake of the child? The court will figure out what needs to be done in the eyes of the law and as for the rest- we each answer to ourselves, our families and God, if we so choose.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:35 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Thank you Cassie. Excellent post.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:38 AM

Re: Here's the text

No, Arden didnt' send me the link. I was just commenting on when she said she wouldn't spoon feed it to me.

Yes, I saw what you were charged with and I still stand by what I said...you were not convicted of anything or found guilty of contempt.

Ppl are making it out to be more than what it is.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:39 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Well said, Cassie.

SockPuppet1

(journeyman)

01/24/12 06:42 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

JL got the attntn she wntd, ddnt she?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:42 AM

Re: Here's the text

Thank you yes I deleted that part about Arden sending it to ya :). Realized you could have found it yourself.

That's the thing - it's very clear I have not been charged with anything - those who have seen it are allowing the trolls to say it's more than what it is. I have never been found in contempt of anything - can't say the same for him.

And really, I suppose it doesn't matter. Cassie is 100% correct. There is so much more to this than a few angry internet bullies trying to prove me wrong, or make me look bad. This is my real life - and there are real children involved. I don't know why anyone cares so much - but those who know me, and know the situation, know there is much more to a few documents someone can view online. I really don't need anyone's validation. Although I appreciate you saying that M5.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:48 AM

Re: Here's the text

Shew girl...it took me a while to find it, let me tell ya. Anyone that interested to go and search it out (cuz I didn't remember your ex's last name or anything like that)...has mental problem. Took forEVER and like I said...I wound up with a huge headache. I feel like I should have found more than what I did...like evidence of abuse or something ya know? Something really really bad. And I didn't find anything really really bad...you can find worse than that in my DH and his ex's ginormous file. Alot worse.

ETA: I'm pretty much done with these threads. It's just ridiculous how much time some spend on this, especially when it doesn't even affect them IRL. I never should have said anything in the first place to the troll in the first place.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:51 AM

Re: Here's the text

LOL. Well - and as I"m sure you know, not everything is on there - discovery, correspondence, etc...

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:53 AM

Re: Here's the text

Yeah, I noticed that.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:54 AM

Re: Here's the text

(And just to clarify - the reason they filed a motion to compel our discovery was b/c we were possibly going to settle on something outside of court...that didn't end up happening, so it delayed the discovery responses on our end - not to mention, 5 years of crap takes a while to get together ;) ).

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 07:09 AM

Re: Here's the text

WHHYYY are you still here? Does it not bother you that you have people you don't know who they are PROVIDING this board with this information?? I mean MY GOD woman.. are you really this stoopid? here I am, been accused by you for over 2 years now of harrassing and stalking.. I've been accused of being all these people... and I no NOTHING about your situation... ONLY to find out that these people MUST know something about you.... and have told the board... AND you continue to provide information... You beat all I've ever seen JL.. seriously, you are f*cked up.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 07:11 AM

Re: Here's the text

Okay... does it not baffle you in the least that she is still here... posting? I mean.. if people had all that type of info on you... and you don't know who it is.. wouldn't you just kind of walk away? Quietly? I don't get HER posting... and playing a victim... and playing stupid..don't get it... and I can't feel sorry for her... it's HER own flipping fault.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/24/12 07:17 AM

Re: Here's the text

I don't think she has the mental capabilities to walk away or she just enjoys being the center of attention.

She's not naive, trusting, or any of those other words that her posse uses to describe Saint JL. She has to be stoopid.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/24/12 07:26 AM

Re: Here's the text

I think she does know who they are. It is amazing that she and Miranda post almost immediately after they post, isn't it? They both say that they never come here anymore, but they just "happen" to catch the trolls posting. Each and every time.

Coincidences? Each and every time.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 07:59 AM

Re: Here's the text

I don't get it either. It just makes no sense that she replies at all NOR does it make any sense that she always "just happens" to be around when these posters post. I'm not a believer in coincidences in general and even less so when the "coincidence" is a regular event.

I believe she's compulsive, victim complex, and an attention seeker. It's very sad but like Runs said it's impossible to feel sorry for her at this point since she's truly created this drama, fed this drama, and continually perpetuated this drama.

For me, I'm just tired of being blamed for it.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 09:31 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 10:08 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling (1 Peter 4:8-9).�

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law (Galatians 5:22)

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 10:20 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

handing it out like f*cking pez to children.. .OMG.. I just spit my water out my nose on that one.. I think that is your best line yet.. seriously... I needed that laugh today. thanks!

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 10:21 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Hmm.. I'm not religious, if you recall so biblical quotes don't do much more than irritate the crap out of me :)

However, relative to the first one? I think lots of people here offered her "hospitality" by believing her and what'd she do? Lied. Repeatedly.

The second one... mentions "self-control". Perhaps you should post that to MrsB.. she should have used some..

One other quick note.. these are both from the Old Testament are they not? Which is interesting b/c in the Old Testament? God was pretty fricken vengeful a bastard wasn't he? And his love didn't "cover" the sins of Adam and Eve, now did it? Otherwise, he wouldn't have cast them out of Eden.

Just sayin'.... it's kinda amusing to see religious quotes that the God in which they come from.. supposedly.. doesn't abide by them himself.

Sorry, whatever you hoped to accomplish with them.. Epic FAIL.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 10:30 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Glad I could oblige ;)

Seriously though.. NOW we find out.. how many pages into this thread? Ohhhh yesss.. people HAVE known. Oh how is that? Ohhhhh yesssss... JL TELLS THEM!!

And so, all along, these people KNEW and knew she LIED when she pretended to have NO idea what the "trolls" were talking about. Oh that's right, she might.. 5 threads in to being caught in the lie admit there's "some truth" to things. BAER.

I think what annoys me even more than her at this point? Is the people who see nothing wrong in her behavior and worse, DEFEND it. Note to you folks.. your friend? Has a PROBLEM. You're not HELPING her. She is an emotional addict and you are all ENABLING her sick behavior. You're not doing her a favor, you are HURTING HER. Stop. If you were her friends? Every time she engages in this you would post publicly.. I love you, I'm your friend, STOP. Delete that post.. STOP. Don't argue it and defend it and encourage HER to keep posting. Tell her to STOP. She's ILL. She's an attention addict. It's obvious she cannot help herself. Stop enabling her. And that IS all you are doing.. particularly you M5. Stop. Don't post, don't argue.. let it go.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/24/12 10:42 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:06 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ditto, hallelujah and amen!

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:23 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

LB, that was a quick reply. It was to EVERYONE. Fail? Um OK. So what I hoped to accomplish was another gentle reminder to everyone. Coming from a pretty objective person, who has little to nothing to do with the issues at hand. Pretty sure I did that. So your epic fail comment appears to have failed.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:29 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ah... since you replied to my post and didn't specify it was a general statement, I assumed (since you don't usually "quick reply") that it was specifically directed.

Since it was meant generally, then yes, my comments relative to an overall fail would be inappropriate/inaccurate. For me, personally, the posting failed since I find religion (and thus, religious quotes) to be exceedingly hypocritical.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:32 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

BTW, come on LB you of all people should know that I'm not speaking directly to you...I KNOW you aren't religious. You (collective) could definitely apply those things in life without being religious though, which is why I left the other quotes SRS posted out of my comment. Just something to think about after a thread went on for days spreading the hate and animosity.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:34 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Thank you LB and this would be why I don't usually do QR's and why I usually add the general reply disclaimer...oops. I missed all my usual means to inform others of my intent!

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:47 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

But see... I did that a year ago and I was a big ole bully and mean... and then I became a stalker who created multiple names... LOL....

They are enabling her.. period. I've stayed out of her posts for over 6 months now... I don't know whats going on in her life and haven't really cared...

but honestly... to those of you that "are" her friends... please.. seriously.. help her. If you all do like her, love her.. and trust her.. please tell her to stop giving out information.. I mean.. I knew NOTHING of whats going on.. and she laid it out for me and everyone last night.. WHY would she do this "if" she's a victim? Please, someone try to figure out that logic.

I'm done on this whole mess.. I've spent 6 posts that I can't get back... I feel badly for her family, her child... she's just messed up.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 11:55 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

No problema ;)

annieo

(veteran)

01/24/12 12:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Theorists believe that self-control (particularly low self-control) comes from ineffective parenting (Merton in particular) and it also comes from one's environment especially an environment that lacks non-economical institutions such as the church, schools, the role of a homemaker etc...

Individuals who are "right fighters" and have to "have the last word" tend to have low self-control. It is an effort to try to get ones validation by what ever means necessary and the need to get heard is first and foremost - it is not enough to know that within ones self that they know they are correct and that he/she can be self confident in simply "knowing" he/she wants others to know as well - so much so that he/she will continue to try and be heard.

Attention seeking is the the need to be validated. Continued seeking of validation generally comes from childhood; the child did not get his/her needs met by his/her role models, namely the parental role model but teachers and peers play a significant role as well. Seeking validation also comes from low self-esteem, which also stems from the lack of parental involvement and/or overtly degrading parenting in combination with the child's environment. It also comes from traumatic events in childhood for which the child did not receive the adequate attention, affection, ect... during said traumatic event(s) (my example would be my fathers death and my mother not attending to us in the way we needed - I had self-esteem issues for a long time - counseling worked wonders - we all need to know we are accepted and validation allows that and for the building of self-esteem). I am not saying anyone had this childhood - it is what research has found through an abundance of studies.

I am not trying to educate anyone but I am perplexed about the continued personal postings that can (imo) endanger ones life and/or God forbid the lives of children.

I tend to agree with the others when it comes to the continued posting of personal information in a precarious situation. Personally, I would stop with the personal related court information - In this day and age I would be incredibly nervous if so many knew my real name, addresses, etc...

BeachBabeRN

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 01:10 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Great post annieo....;o)

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 01:42 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

General question:

Has she actually posted anything new that was personal? I'm seeing the trolls posting things and her laughing and pointing at them and everyone else, but nothing of substance on her situation. What am I missing?

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 02:06 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't think they see it that way, LB. They think she's innocent and trusting. Yes, she is trusting and dumb.

She trusted her friends with her information and they betrayed that trust. Her "friends" posted her information all over the internet for everyone to see. Sent PMs about her and forwarded things around.
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I wish you would stop posting about something you know NOTHING about and were NOT here at the time it happened. Someone who was NOT her friend posted her personal information on here. Someone that said they would post her information, someone that should have NOT known her information, someone that JL did not like and they did not like her... Once JL said she wouldn't accept their help to buy plane tickets then they splashed her personal information out on the site. Then it started...where did they get that info from? And I still say it was because of FB- that NON friend was friends with one of her friends and JL's personal name was seen.

Just like how YOU- SRS- invited JL to be your friend on FB! A non friend used her personal info and that is how it got out.

So the trolls start and funny enough SRS you are almost ALWAYS right behind the trolls that post. So it's okay for you to say what you want- but then a friend of JL's kicks in or JL herself and she is stupid for posting anything?
The trolls already have JL's info- they can already look up her public information. ANYONE on FB can look up yours SRS. JL could look up yours if she remembers your name. BUT would she go on here and spread your private info? Could someone else had seen your FB profile and seen your name on one of their lists of friends? This is before people really started using the privacy features FB had.

Regardless, you all sit there and bait her...calling her names and then when she does stand up for herself you call her stupid for posting. It's like you get a kick out of it. If you think it's BEST for her not to post-- STOP posting to her. Yet you all can't because it is part of your sick need to be part of something. Probably because your real life lacks any kind of luster.

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 02:19 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Cassie,

To answer a few of your questions..

First of all, yes there WAS a little clicque that was "invited". JL made that crystal clear when she sent me MY invite.

Second of all, I wouldn't have gone and looked at the court stuff EXCEPT that JL herself bashed me here, and much worse over on Delphi. Sooo, since I supposedly contacted her ex? I figured I'd better go find out what I said :):)

Seriously.. The woman CREATES HER OWN DRAMA. NO ONE and I mean NO ONE on this site or any other would have any of her information if.. and wait for it.. SHE didn't hand it out like it was fvcking Pez to children. At what point DO you hold HER responsible for the fact that this is out there by HER doing?

Allll she had to do was keep her mouth shut.. Or at least close it a teensy bit. It's completely insane what she's done. And continues to do. It baffles any semblance of logic. Really.

You can excuse it, that's great. I won't. Particularly not when I'm her personal blame target. She's a mentally ill woman and she really should seek help.
-----------------------------------------

IMO She is being held responsible for posting too much info and for not keeping her life private. She doesn't have to answer to ME- if I feel like I need to say something to her, I do in PRIVATE. I wouldn't choose to berate her on here in front of all the hungry wolves- just as I am sure you wouldn't do the same to Arden or KK.

One thing I have noticed repeatedly from you LB is your need to try and make ME see what you see. You will keep throwing out there that her friends are excusing her behavior or we are just as much to blame because we didn't do this or that. I learned long ago you cannot control what others choose to do. It's a lesson I teach my daughter, almost weekly, regarding her friends. Even in the past when this ALL started you wanted to look at the PMs you had saved because it would PROVE the truth. I didn't want to and when I told you so- you went on and on about my weak character. It's almost as if you feel the need to pull out whatever stops you can to CONVINCE me to do or see as you do. I may agree with you and at other times, I may not. I actually respect some of your viewpoints, but when your posts are constant put downs and name-calling (the latest being "Dumbo") your viewpoint is just skewed/blurred in my eyes. I no longer see it.

Maury

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 02:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I tend to agree with that sentiment.

annieo

(veteran)

01/24/12 02:30 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

after M5M5 read the documents did she read what the contempt was actually about which was then added to by JL

little pieces here and there are being added by those who want to say stuff and then JL will respond with a little more not always but sometimes and it is that sometimes that gives more for consumption in an already precarious situation.

I had a response to JL's post to me but the post was deleted and I lost my response I only had the one sentence that I was responding to but I had added more.

"But, thanks for the lesson in life. I'm sure everyone here will great use out of it :)."

basically I was saying I wasn't giving a life lesson to anyone and I said some more - mainly that I would just not respond to the continued posts and comments that have been put out there for all to see and that I am concerned because so far all that has been said is simply said but there is some effort going into watching her and that God forbid it doesn't go any further...

I also stated how I know how hard it is to dispute depositions that are full of lies and how we did that and it cost a friggin fortune. When someone tells a lot of lies in a deposition even though it may be lies - it is "out there" and in JL's situation those who have the personal info can read it and then bring it here for folly - I said I wouldn't continue on this path - that she knows what goes on in her life and that is all that matters it is irrelevant what others think or believe.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 02:32 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm very black and white..and if there's proof? Then why NOT see it other than a desire to not know?

Now, THAT principle HERE is absolutely born of the insistence of yes, your part and M5's and others, that things that ARE true, are NOT. Now, when I have an email sitting in my inbox saying otherwise? Well yeah, you look stupid. You're telling me (in the past) that what I have in black and white to be true, is NOT TRUE. And I got it straight from the source (JL). So yeah, if you're gonna sit there and call me a liar and defend the person who IS lying? Damn fvcking skippy I'm gonna wanna trot out truth. I do NOT appreciate being called a liar when I have the truth which confirms I'm not in my hands.

It's why I was very very specific with my "what is a lie" questioning with M5 that one time recently. And, last night, she had to concede.. YUP.. only took a few months, she LIED (JL). Now, I knew that night she lied. No doubt. But yet M5 spent how long battling me that ohhhhh noooooooo JL wasn't lying.. and how DARE I suggest otherwise?

I'm pissed Cassie because a) I'm the one JL blames the most for this crap and b) she's HER OWN WORST ENEMY!!!! katie would NEVER have had HALF the information she ultimately got? If JL herself had shut her fvcking mouth for 3.5 seconds once in a great while. Hmm.. well, she had her son's name on the wedding site.. duhhhhhh.. Well gee, do you think you'd maybe make it a private site if you're so concerned about your privacy and things being public? But oh no.. Katie got nothing that JL didn't basically hand her on a silver platter. End of story. THAT, my dear, is reality. And nope, I tend to not sugarcoat, gild the lily or put pretty bows and rainbows on what basically amounts to a sow's ear.

Miranda

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 02:53 PM

Spot on Cassie

I wish you would stop posting about something you know NOTHING about and were NOT here at the time it happened. Someone who was NOT her friend posted her personal information on here. Someone that said they would post her information, someone that should have NOT known her information, someone that JL did not like and they did not like her... Once JL said she wouldn't accept their help to buy plane tickets then they splashed her personal information out on the site. Then it started...where did they get that info from? And I still say it was because of FB- that NON friend was friends with one of her friends and JL's personal name was seen.

Just like how YOU- SRS- invited JL to be your friend on FB! A non friend used her personal info and that is how it got out.

So the trolls start and funny enough SRS you are almost ALWAYS right behind the trolls that post. So it's okay for you to say what you want- but then a friend of JL's kicks in or JL herself and she is stupid for posting anything?
The trolls already have JL's info- they can already look up her public information. ANYONE on FB can look up yours SRS. JL could look up yours if she remembers your name. BUT would she go on here and spread your private info? Could someone else had seen your FB profile and seen your name on one of their lists of friends? This is before people really started using the privacy features FB had.

Regardless, you all sit there and bait her...calling her names and then when she does stand up for herself you call her stupid for posting. It's like you get a kick out of it. If you think it's BEST for her not to post-- STOP posting to her. Yet you all can't because it is part of your sick need to be part of something. Probably because your real life lacks any kind of luster.

*****************

Spot on Cassie. Very,very,very well said! And I agree 100%.

And the whole "friending on facebook" with anyone on this site is DANGEROUS. Because as we all know, info is passed. Everyone's info. Not just JL's :)

Miranda

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 03:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]I tend to agree with that sentiment. [/quote]

Cassie has pretty much summed up everything nicely.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 03:45 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Agreed.

To the lot of you: have fun. I'm done. This is a waste of time and...I can totally see why some of our best DSers have left. It's pretty sad.

nope

(member)

01/24/12 05:40 PM

Re: Here's the text

*** did you read what I was charged contempt for? Not being able to pay the GAL yet***

That isn't even close to the truth.

****And no - I have not been charged with anything***

see ^^^^^^^^^^^^. Your own words. Your story or "Truth" changes second to second.

***I haven't even set foot in that court room in over a year.***

Liar, you really HAVE LOST YOUR MIND. You were in court in June. Have you really forgotten that little trip to the court house? Ya know the one, where the judge denied your motion to suspend visitation and ordered all the make up time and more? God, I don't know or like you. But, it is scary the way you recall facts of YOUR life. Down right psychotic.

****This is my real life - and there are real children involved*****

Glad you get that at least. Now pay your bills and provide a roof for your child to live in. Is it your ex's fault about that too? Just maybe your ex is now the more stable one at this time. Does he have a job and a place to live?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 05:58 PM

Re: Here's the text

Out of wild curiousity... if you don't know her, how would you know if she has a job or a roof over her head?

nope

(member)

01/24/12 05:58 PM

Re: Here's the text

If I were in your shoes, thank God I am not, I would try and get a job, move in with my parents and save every penny I could to try and get myself and my child into an affordable and suitable living situation. Your child deserves some stability.

nope

(member)

01/24/12 06:01 PM

Re: Here's the text

The info was sent to me in a private message.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:05 PM

Re: Here's the text

That doesn't make it accurate though.. One of those "consider the source" kind of deals.

nope

(member)

01/24/12 06:12 PM

Re: Here's the text

This is accurate. She needs help. She does not need people cheering her on. She has lost touch with reality. I had my suspicions. Today it was confirmed when she talked in circles and had no recall of being in court 7 months ago for a court action that she brought before the court herself, one that she appeared at and signed off on.

To answer your question: It was fact checked.

nope

(member)

01/24/12 06:20 PM

Re: Here's the text

I will add: She knows her ex, his attorney and most likely her attorney are reading her every post on all boards. For her to ramble in such a disturbed manner is proof that she no longer is "with us" in reality. She was told not to post about the court case on a public forum. Not only did she DO just that, she lied about it AGAIN.

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/24/12 06:26 PM

Re: Here's the text

"To answer your question: It was fact checked. "

That isn't even remotely an answer. Seems JL isn't the only one who talks in circles. You must be related to her.

nope

(member)

01/24/12 06:32 PM

Re: Here's the text

Not actually "related" to her. Nice try at a jab though.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/24/12 07:51 PM

Re: Here's the text

Jenny's 'other' legal troubles with the court and her soon to be ex has nothing to do with custody or visitation with her boy and his father. Shame on you for bring it to the board!

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/25/12 08:42 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Basically, if someone calls me hateful names they are fair game. So, yes, JL is fair game.

Too bad, doesn't have the intelligence to defend herself. SHe has to rely on her frenemies to do it.

ANyone can friend anyone they want to on FB. Who cares, it is FB. If you don't want to be friends, then don't make your profile public. Ignore the friend request. What a concept! Privacy settings! OMG! Easy, peasy for most people.

I get PMs ALL.THE.TIME from friends on this board telling about what nastiness JL has done to them. SHe's not all sweet and light like you all post publically. Own up to it.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 11:02 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

You say stop to MB...just stop MB...then you comment saying she doesn't have the intelligence to defend herself. Well jeez, didn't you want her to stop posting? Now you want her to defend herself?

Just stop SRS....please just stop. Go back to those gentle reminders you posted and see where it says you're fair game if someone calls you names....let me save you the trouble. It doesn't.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 11:15 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

It amazes me how absolutely rude and cruel some of these women are.

SRS - you're on ignore, stop wasting your time. I don't even peek. It's a complete waste of space. Practice what you preach lady, no need to be so hateful. WTF is my life or anything about me to you? Move on already.

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 01:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

CCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCatfight!!!!! :)

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/25/12 06:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Oh Bunny, way did you delete your post? It was enlighting, to say the least.

nope

(member)

01/25/12 07:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Well it was sort of ironic considering.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 08:56 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Basically, if someone calls me hateful names they are fair game. So, yes, JL is fair game.

Too bad, doesn't have the intelligence to defend herself. SHe has to rely on her frenemies to do it.

ANyone can friend anyone they want to on FB. Who cares, it is FB. If you don't want to be friends, then don't make your profile public. Ignore the friend request. What a concept! Privacy settings! OMG! Easy, peasy for most people.

I get PMs ALL.THE.TIME from friends on this board telling about what nastiness JL has done to them. SHe's not all sweet and light like you all post publically. Own up to it. [/quote]

No one PM's you a damn thing. :::blech::: Get a life, find a man, get to know him before you have kids with him, make sure he doesn't have a $40K/year gambling habit. God, your poor children, makes my heart ache just thinking about them living with such a f***ed up person. Evil has a name people, it's SRS. Get out of JL's life, you spend waaaayyy too much time obsessing over her. No, my widdle feewee's aren't hurt, you sick biotch, I'm nauseous, not upset or hurt. :::blech:::

Talk about mental issues, you've got them SRS galore. I'm sure you have talked to many mental patients.....most likely while you were locked up with them. Again, it's not at all healthy to fixate on someone like this. I'm going to pray for you and for your children. An exorcism may be in order for you though.

ETA: Sone people just need a sympathetic pat on the head...with a hammer.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 09:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't doubt that people PM her. They PM me too. NOT everyone is on JL's cheering committee and quite a few question her stuff.. they're just not necessarily public people, or not willing to take the hit it means you'll take if you dare to suggest she's got issues.

And SRS is 100% correct. You have NO complaint of stalkers, privacy violation etc when you are the main reason your private stuff? ISN'T PRIVATE!! At what point do folks hold her accountable for her own actions that created a good deal of this mess? And let's go wayyyy back, and yes, it does have a bearing.. on how she lied to the board when she was married to the ex. People remember stuff, and they often don't take kindly to being manipulated. So she created "enemies" of sorts. That's what happens when you lie and use people. Even me, i was a horrible person never to be trusted.. then it was okay to be my "friend" and use as a techie resource but when that didn't serve her purpose anymore because well, I'm not stupid, I can read, and I wasn't going to let what I knew were untruths to pass? Well then I was a psycho again and in reality? I didn't do anything more than point out a lie but that sent her into the furriest little flurry. Crazy.

I'd bet my salary on SRS telling the truth before I would on your being right any day. You're backing a KNOWN and REPEATED liar. That's a fact. And it's not "past history".. She lied about being arraigned, not 2 months ago. She LIES. Period. As much as I may not agree with SRS, she's not known to be a liar, is she? She may have other issues but, lying isn't one of them.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 09:44 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

My post had very little to do with JL. It is about SRS, and you quite frankly, obsessing over someone. My hell. Who gives a sh&t??? Let her judge, attorney, state, ex, etc, deal with her. SRS is a known liar as well. Again....who gives a sh&t??? You two are like a fricken broken record. I'm not stoopid, don't have hurt feewees, I'm not a cheerleader, I'm not perfect, but damn, I'm not fixated on someone and bound and determined to make people see them in my eyes. The whole board knows how you feel. We all know your salary (mines nicer btw). Saying it over and over is not making you heard any louder. It takes a very evil person to try their hardest to break someone's spirit. You think JL is mentally ill???? Then quit stomping on the mentally ill. It's evil.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 09:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't think she's mentally ill.. as in a problem outside her control ;)

I'm sure your salary is nicer dear, you're a BUSINESS OWNER :) Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... if it wasn't? I'd question your business acumen ;)

I don't obsess over JL. Unless one of these posters brings her up? i don't give her any thought whatsoever. Hadn't in quite a while until SHE brought ME into the whole "someone emailed my ex" bullshyt. Perhaps you should refresh your memory. Go look on Delphi. I didn't bring me into that SHE DID. Sooooo who the fvck is obsessed???? Ohhh that's right.. HER with her ridiculous persecution, "someone's stalking me" complex. Just remember that. I made my point over at Delphi when she LIED about me and how I got there and I was done with her. SHE brought ME into the ex contacting retardation. Which is REALLY funny because, if you read the emails? HERE??? IS NEVER MENTIONED. NOT ONCE. Where IS mentioned? Oh, that's right.. DELPHI. And where are the posts sent to her ex from? DELPHI. Soooo, if you're talking about evil people? Look at her, because there's ZERO reason she'd REMOTELY think I did it. First of all, are you aware the emailer is supposedly a MAN??? Yeah, a man. And mentioned two other sites very specifically but one in GREAT detail but NEVER mentions this one? Not once. So where did she suspect it was me exactly? Who obsesses much? Why did she even BOTHER to post her "revelation" of the ex contacting HERE when HERE was never even MENTIONED??

And damn fvcking skippy I looked. [censored] lied about me AGAIN not only here but really threw my ass under the bus on the other site, you bet your butt I went and saw what I was supposedly responsible for.

And yeah, I'm pissed.. and yeah, when this topic comes up? I'll say my fvcking peace. Why? SHE gave me that right because SHE can't get past her imaginary "she stalked me" bullshyt which is JUST THAT.. BULLSHYT. period. End of discussion. Don't like it Loretta? Fvck you.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/25/12 10:24 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Feel better? That was so yesterday. Today's a new day. Embrace it.

nope

(member)

01/25/12 10:40 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

wow. Just wow. You are offically no longer nice.

nope

(member)

01/25/12 10:43 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

**** It is about SRS, and you quite frankly, obsessing over someone. My hell. Who gives a sh&t???****
YOU do, apparently

nope

(member)

01/25/12 10:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I read all the court papers. Not once, NOT ONCE was thsi site EVERY MENTIONED, EVER!!! It was the other 2 sites that she post on EVERYDAY. BTW, one has to PAY to read her crap over there. She knew it was NOBODY on this site. She posted her rant over there, then waited 9 hours to cut and paste it over here. The shock blew over there, so she moved it over here for some excitment.

Why did the looser post AGAIN here TODAY reminding that the rude, nasty and cruel women are still on ignore? Was it to show what an idiot she is? If 80% of the board is on ignore, how the fvck would she know that anyone said a word? Remember, she doesn't peek, EVER!!!

nope

(member)

01/25/12 11:12 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Not to mention, there is a GAL involved. A GAL that went to court and told the judge that MrsB is uncooperative (even though MrsB REQUESTED a GAL in the first place.) When the GAL started questioning MrsB about her parenting skills and offering some "tips" is when MrsB slammed the "door" on the GAL and refused all contact or payment. Afterall, MrsB requested the GAL so the GAL would tell the judge what a POS her ex was. That didn't happen.

No doubt the GAL is reading her posts. She seems INSANE. Her custody issues are in the hands of the GAL and she keeps posting nonesense on a public board?????? Crazy girl

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 12:02 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

You're new.. never was ;)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 12:15 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

She can see that someone posted.. just the text of the posting itself (when you open it) is "you are ignoring this user". HOWEVER, if you "quote" or "reply to" the posting? You see all the text ;)

Maury

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 01:01 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Apparently this thread is not a marquee for how to win friends and influence people.

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 05:59 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

ETA: Sone people just need a sympathetic pat on the head...with a hammer.
___________________

Wow! I have to say this is the nastiest comment I think I have ever read here.

First you say you are going to pray for her, then you suggest she needs to be hit in the head with a hammer. Really? You felt good suggesting that? Not only suggesting it but, going to the trouble of editing your post so you could include it.

Your post makes no secret of what YOU think of her. It comes through loud and clear. Gotta love the prayer line though! No matter what you think of her, you need remember she is the mother of young children, people in her real life know and love her. To suggest she needs to be hit in the head with a hammer is just about as wrong as I have ever seen someone post here.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 06:11 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

No worries... I didn't even read it. I know how she gets, knew she would have to say something even though my statements weren't about her at all. What.ever. Shes another one.. When I could be of use to her, well, that was just fine :). I truly find it amusing.

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 06:19 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

That post was directed at SRS, You probably don't want to read it. Full of hate and nastiness. I wish I hadn't read it.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/26/12 06:28 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Yup. And no one believed me about the nasty PMs from her. Guess, this shows the difference and why I put her on ignore right after that.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/26/12 06:43 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 08:12 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Absolutely Agree!

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 09:13 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ok where are we with all this, since I can't be bothered reading this whole thead, I don't have a dump in me long enough.

Is JL Divorcing her current husband? If she back in court? Did she lose her job? C'mon people, I need answers.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 09:23 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Life is splendid, and people shouldn't talk about what they know nothing about :). Really, none of that is anyone's business. People can say what they want, and add their own details...really doesn't make a difference to me. Life is going great - but I'm glad everyone is oh so concerned with my life. Come on people...worry about your own lives a bit more instead of being so interested in mine. It's really NOT that interesting!

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 09:41 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

That's too boring. I thought the whole purpose here is to find out dirt on you regarding custody, marriage, child support etc....

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 09:43 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Well, seems that's most everyone else's purpose ;). Sorry I couldn't be of more help! :) Guess everyone will just have to guess and assume like usual.

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 10:25 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I totally agree, LB. I don't think about many of the people here during my day. However, when someone posts about JL and the PMs start flying, I get irritated. I was mad about being called names by JL and being accused of being "the stalker" by her frenemies when I am nothing of the sort. She doesn't have a real stalker, btw. That is just a sympathy thing she does to get attention.

BTW, if everyone is so smart, think about this. A person's future behavior can normally be predicted by their past behavior (which is why we call references on job applicants, use credit scores when determining lines of credit, and do Performance Based Interviewing for hiring).

If a person has lied to you in the past about money or being arraigned, your husband screwed around with you when he was married to his kids Mom, or they lie about having a stalker they will most likely lie to you again.
-----------------------------------------------

You have every right to feel that way SRS, but then YOUR rules have to apply to everyone- including YOU. You say that M5 stalks you, you ask her not to respond to you because you have her on ignore. JL has asked the same of you. You have the same problems with JL that many have with you. I have caught you in a FEW lies on here regarding your X- as you suggest, same as JL. In the end, you look more foolish than that of JL because you are preaching something that you, yourself, do.

I actually can't stand when people say--- I am getting PM'ed, people are PM'ing me-- whose business is it, BUT YOURS that you are receiving PMs? Just remember if YOU are getting PMs I can assure you some(<--ETA) of those same people are probably PM'ing about YOU as well.

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 10:28 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

No matter what you think of her, you need remember she is the mother of young children, people in her real life know and love her.
---------------------------------------------------

Great line- I hope that is intended for everyone.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 10:33 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

nope

(member)

01/26/12 01:55 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

****Is JL Divorcing her current husband?****
Other way around

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 02:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Where's the court link to the filing?

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 03:37 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Absolutely it does. I would hate to see harm come to anyone here.

Whether I like them or not is completely irrelevant to them or to the people in their real lives. I might disagree and argue from time to time. But, at the end of the day the computer is off and I am in my real life, as I assume most of you are. Suggesting someone needs to be hit in the head with a hammer, just because they don't see things your way, is beyond crossing the line IMO. That is reason I am so taken back by that statement.

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 03:41 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

After seeing that post, I will say I believe you about the nasty PMs. There was a lot of hate in that posting.

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 04:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Harm just physically? I agree that the WORDS need to stop whether they are about physical harm or calling someone a hateful name. The verbal abuse this board throws out is ridiculous. THAT started pages and pages back. As it continues it just gets worse and worse. Everyone who has been hateful in this posting needs to take a step back and realize that we are all parents with children- and someone's hate and nastiness should be inferior to that alone.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 05:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't. Loretta has no problems saying what she wants on here for all to see. No way would I believe she was "stalking" and sending hateful pms to SRS. Heck, she's accused me of stalking her, which is a laugh, so heck no I don't believe much of what she says.

Compared to the things SRS and PM have said on here before? Loretta's post is pretty tame, IMO.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 05:41 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

that didn't take long..... (frankly I don't care if you stay or go).. but you've reminded me so many times that I was "gone", I thought I would offer you the same curtisy... (sp)

nope

(member)

01/26/12 06:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

***Life is splendid***
Let us review: You are being sued by 3 different parties (all different cases), have nowhere to live and/or call your own "home", are single, in a very ugly custody battle involving a GAL that doesn't like you, and were "let go" from a job you just found.

If that is "Splendid", no thanks!

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 07:12 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So where is all this information? It's all well and good you're tossing stuff in the wind, but I want tangible proof. Give me links.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 07:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Drama Fag! You claim to be in the circle of Smart People. You can figure it out.

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 07:24 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]Drama Fag! You claim to be in the circle of Smart People. You can figure it out. [/quote]

I figure you needed a break from sucking her ex's dick. It's not like you have much going on based on your obsessive postings.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 07:44 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Her ex's dick isn't something that I would "take in." However, Her STBX sure has a "thang" that one cute girl is getting. Local rumor has it, MrsB didn't cook or shop for her son's food, napped too much, used him as a baby sitter, and NEVER touched him. He moved on.

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 07:51 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

nope - a little tip for when reading the online court records.

When the case number begins with ML - it is the filing to obtain a marriage license. Not a divorce.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 07:58 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Idiot!!!! Thanks for old news. But, Elliesmom, I take it you are a on-line court record SNOOP.

Since you snooped, as you just admitted, I take it you missed the application date????

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 08:12 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

After all this BS about her being arrested - yep I did.

You implied that her now husband has sued for divorce. He has not - that is simply not true.

The arrested bit is a stretch. Under the strictest definition of the law, perhaps yes. But no one was led away in cuffs or anything. Just a lawyer appearing, signing a document, and entering a plea.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 08:14 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Even a Pet Rock would know that a man cannot file for divorce before the marriage took place. You are 1) STUPID or 2)typing what MrsB has asked you to respond with. Either way, you just made a fool out of yourself (because you have said on this board, that you would NEVER do "that".) YOU TOO SNOOPED in the court file. We know you did, because you only mentioned the ML, yet nothing else. She needs help. Help her.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 08:17 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Opps...I didn't even consider her STBX as one of the three suing her. Dumb moment. Ok 4 people suing her.

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 08:25 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

"Even a Pet Rock would know that a man cannot file for divorce before the marriage took place." --True, but irrelevant to the current conversation.

MrsB does not tell me how to respond to anything. I have not always agreed with her choices in dealing with her ex and have said so.

Not sure what exactly it is I said I would "never" do and then did. I generally don't speak in absolutes such as "never."

MrsB has family, friends, and a paid attorney to "help" her. I am sure she will be just fine. Even if the contempt thing IS in fact over withholding visitation, AND she is found guilty? BFD. She isn't going to lose custody over it. Anyone who has ever set foot in a family court room knows that it takes a lot more than ONE contempt to "lose" anything. Especially if the person is a woman.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 08:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

When a married man moves out of the house and tells the wife to stop calling him, goes out with the boys every night, stops paying his portion of the rent/bills and is dating/sleeping with another women openly THAT makes her SINGLE. Truth be told, he has to wait for his tax refund before filing offically. Street word has it that he and his new gal are very happy. He just wants to put MrsB behind him.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 08:33 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

"MrsB has family, friends, and a paid attorney to "help" her"

Excellent. I am sure her attorney will enjoy reading that He is "paid."

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 08:37 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You need a life. You're getting way too much sand in your vagina over someone one the net.

nope

(member)

01/26/12 08:45 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

are you flirting with me?

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 08:51 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You don't make enough money.

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 08:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Harm just physically?
________________

Yes, I meant physically. That is why I repeatedly used the phrase of being hit in the head with a hammer. To me for someone to suggest another person on here (or anywhere) needs to be physically hurt because they don't agree with each other, is some nasty stuff.

Arden

(old hand)

01/26/12 08:57 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 09:36 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]After all this BS about her being arrested - yep I did.

You implied that her now husband has sued for divorce. He has not - that is simply not true.

The arrested bit is a stretch. Under the strictest definition of the law, perhaps yes. But no one was led away in cuffs or anything. Just a lawyer appearing, signing a document, and entering a plea. [/quote]

Amazes me anyone takes anything this troll says seriously.

Nope, he hasn't sued for divorce.

Nope, was not held in contempt for withholding visitation.

But, nice try...yet again...

nope

(member)

01/26/12 10:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

****Amazes me anyone takes anything this troll says seriously.****

*Not a troll, actually know you (not related)
*Even your "Board Friends" had to look up your on line file, they did learn you were a liar
*Please deny that you are NOT getting a divorce, or that your husband is OUT!
*Are you going to pretend that your stbx has a lady friend?
*Are you now homeless?
*Is the GAL leaning towards your 1st ex-husband requests and did the GAL tell the judge that you need paranting classes?

Deny Deny Deny....

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/26/12 10:12 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

*** You are ignoring this user ***

Still ain't gettin' it?

nope

(member)

01/26/12 10:52 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I giggle and blush when you respond to me. BTW, your car tags are due. Time to call Daddy

annieo

(veteran)

01/27/12 12:45 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

"Amazes me anyone takes anything this troll says seriously"

Why are you responding? You know what goes on in your life and what is true and what is not why do you come back and respond? Some believe you and some do not and the continued responding of - not true - you don't know what your talking about -neener neener implies you are really concerned about what the board thinks of you and it really should not matter to you - you know what is true and that should be ALL that matters.

Maybe your bored tonight and came out to play I just do not get why with your precarious situation you continue?? I am not saying to go away and not post anymore but maybe not engage with the ones who are trying to provoke you into saying "not true but nice try"

If it isn't true and you are just amazed by someone believing what is said then let it go - those that believe you will still believe you when you do not reply and those who do not believe you will eat it up and carry on. Not responding doesn't make it true but the continued responses from you keeps the "game" going. Should the others stop sure but obviously they are not going to and every time you chime in they have more fodder to play with.

It does not make sense to me that there are people playing with your life (which if it were me it would really scare me) and you continue to play with them. You do not know who they are but they seem to know you, your child, your husband, and your ex.

Unless this is all made up and they know nothing about you and you have no stalkers who gave information to your ex or what have you I do not understand why you are putting yourself and your family in jeopardy. Either these people have fed the information through emails or this and the other boards to your ex and you have stalkers or it is all made up - if it is all made up and it is a game feel free to keep playing and if it is true then WHY are you jeopardizing yourself?

I would just like to understand why this continues either they need to stop or you do unless it is a game both sides are playing then carry on. I was really concerned about the safety aspect especially for your child but I can only think it is all a game because a mother would not continually put herself in a situation that could go further than these boards (apparently there is information out there that could lead back to you) and in any way shape or form put her child at risk.

I don't know you and I don't know them and I haven't the foggiest as to what may or may not be true - what I do know is that if it is true that your information is scattered around and you have stalkers etc...please stop responding to them in any way - you do not know how far it will go (if all of this is true and not a game then it has already gone too far) and it may not be safe.

I am really not meaning to be rude or mean I just want to understand why a mother would continue to jeopardize safety if she was truly being watched, stalked, etc... and those doing the stalking and watching know the court dates and can get all your personal info off a website etc...

My apologies for the sermon - maybe I will have to settle for not understanding....

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 06:02 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

AnnieO?? NOW you get it...This is what has frustrated some of us for so long...the game of "I'm ignoring you, can't you SEE that I'm ignoring YOU?" and then HER continued feeding of the trolls...FTR...I don't think they're trolls, in the traditional sense of the word...

As for the court records...yes, there are some things there that "nope" is right about...she's not out an out lying about them, but she's skirting around them...

In the end? It doesn't matter...it IS her life..she's the one who has to live it...she's put it all out here and on other internet mediums, and one would think "once bitten, twice shy", but no...she has to keep doing it..

JL..please...stop responding...stop giving them anything to feed on...if you never respond, they have little fodder to play with...

ETA: JL..I don't think anyone here would think less of you for not participating in these threads...Anyone here that cared about you would encourage you to let.it.go. I understand you feel a need to defend yourself? But really, it just makes it worse..especially when people have the ability to look things up....please..just stop responding...

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 07:47 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Let's see, who keeps starting the threads? Like Cassie said - guess not everyone has to play by the same rules. She hit it spot on. If I don't post - I'm afraid and can't stick up for myself and others have to stick up for me. If I do - I'm feeding into it and am mentally ill...

Yeah...

Carry on.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 08:08 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I can't imagine being in her position and still responding. Makes no sense to me, particularly given she knows people can look up the truth on at least a portion of the issues.

For my part, she dragged me into it (again) by bringing me up both here and even more so over on Delphi as the "ex contacting culprit" so to speak. Frankly, she owes me an apology for doing so because there's absolutely no way, no how, one would get to me as the source. Simply not possible and what she's down is downright defamatory and in the process continues to, yes, LIE about stuff. So damn straight I'm gonna call her out on it, since she's elected to involve me (yet again).

If one knows that even a portion of what's posted is true and you're going to "defend" against what's posted, then you have to acknowledge it. She'd get much further credibility-wise if she'd say, UP FRONT, "yes, this this and this are true BUT, that that and that are not.. here's the deal". But she doesn't. She lies. And we've clearly established, there's not half-truths, there's not evasions, there are LIES. Now for those that say "well, what do YOU care?????" welll umm.... as I stated above, she's not so subtly blamed ME for the ex emails and LIED. If ANYONE here has a legitimate beef? It's definitely me. And she won't face ME face to face, proverbially speaking. I'll face her, she WON'T face me. Because she can't. She's not a big enough or mature enough person to. Plain and simple.

I would feel sorry for her except she's the creator of her own issues, no question about it.

annieo

(veteran)

01/27/12 11:15 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I probably should have clarified when I say they and them I mean the new names (ie. nope, sampoe, sockpuppets)- the ones who came here just to "play" with JL not those who have been here.

"Let's see, who keeps starting the threads? Like Cassie said - guess not everyone has to play by the same rules. She hit it spot on. If I don't post - I'm afraid and can't stick up for myself and others have to stick up for me. If I do - I'm feeding into it and am mentally ill..."

I did not say you are starting them but you play along once they are there and you don't have to. You are the one with everything to lose (they know where you are etc...) if the whole stalker fed stuff to my ex shyt is really going on and it goes further than the board who have you actual location etc... THAT is what would scare ME.

I do not "get it" why you are concerned with sticking up for yourself when it could create harm to you - your information is "out there" and they know how to get to you.

It isn't "fair" that the rules do not apply to everyone but everyone doesn't have stalkers and court and people out to get you because everyone doesn't have their personal information ie. court issues "out there" that is why you should quit responding.

If you are being stalked. watched, your ex is here or someone he knows or what have you it should not matter to you to defend yourself YOU are the one in danger - of course if it is all a game then carry on...

I do no think LB contacted your ex I think someone irl that you either told or they overheard or it was in passing who know both you and your ex looked it up. If you tell people about your issues with your ex (as much as you have said here) at some point someone (probably a friend that was both of yours) will help either you out or the ex out. It makes more sense for an irl person who found out about the boards and now your ex, his attorney, and a GAL knows. Again if it is a game then carry on.

I don't know one way or the other but am going off that someone knows you and is willing to derail your life and it includes your child and that is why I personally (if in this situation) would stop engaging it just isn't worth it defend myself, not defend myself, fair, not fair, etc... my safety and the safety of my child would win out above all else and I would have disappeared long ago when my ex was notified or what have you. I may still lurk but I wouldn't post - but that is just me I will always be safety first especially with not putting my child at risk.

I don't know you but if this is all true the stalking etc.. and you are still engaging with those (nope, sampoes etc) who can do harm then I will never understand and I will quit trying to understand why you don't care about your and your sons safety and hope that it never goes further than these boards.

btw I don't think your afraid, can't stick up for yourself, or that you are mentally ill, I think you want those who do believe you to keep believing in you and that it matters so much to you that you will put your safety and the safety of your son second to maintain those friendships. I think your friends should encourage you to be safe and not engage and if they want to defend you then they can but it isn't their lives that are in a precarious situation YOURS is.

If the whole thing isn't real then carry on - maybe I should just think it is all a game then I wouldn't need to be concerned with the safety issue for you and your son.

Another sermon from me - sorry

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 11:29 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

My 16 and 13 year old have better restraints than JL......
I don't get it, won't get it... and lost sympathy for her years ago after a) she lied to the board b) dragged me into her crap c) played victim... d) is now... just stoopid.

Let her sink her own ship.... I've begged her to stop posting.. SHE WON'T... so if she's that stoopid... the God Forbid she has coming to her what is due... If she loses custody of her kid, it's her fault... if her new hubby is divorcing her.. it's her fault.... Do I think she's mental? I dunno, I am not qualified to say so... amazes me how many Dr's are on the board... Frankly.. now it's just a train wreck and I'm out of popcorn... Blessit...

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 11:32 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Well said...

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 01:07 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You're right, I shouldn't say she's got mental issues. I don't necessarily mean it "literally".. More like the phrase "head case", you know? I think I picked up up "psychotic" from... ??? bee movie? I'm pretty sure that's it lol. Gotta love Jerry Seinfeld, lol.

annieo

(veteran)

01/27/12 02:31 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I do not think she is mentally ill but I do think there may be some issues to address with a professional but I also think a lot of it stems from the corner she has painted herself into and sees little to no way out (only my observance and opinion, which comes from trying to understand it all).

It can be all consuming when your taking a lot on, whether it be here or in court or in her life and I think she doesn't see a way out of it (at least on this board) so the placing her self and child at risk (if the stalker etc.. is true) continues and is put in the context of trying to defend oneself and to let everyone know they have not ran her off, which really shouldn't matter when it comes to safety it should not matter what me, you (general you), or whomever says that she feels needs defending - but I am not a doctor and all I have to go on is what has been posted here in the responses etc... I really don't want to say I see desperation more like frustration - then again it may all be a ruse in regard to the stalkers and someone from here feeding he ex the info etc...

I am leading towards this is somewhat of a game and entertainment and there are no stalkers or anyone feeding this to the ex and the GAL etc... If the ex and whomever else does know it came out of irl contacts and the newer individuals (nope, sockpuppets, etc) are those irl contacts but her actual safety is not really at risk and she knows that so the continued responses are simply playing that game....

I really have no idea and at one point I thought that nope and or sockpuppets was JL - it fits if this is a game and she has no worries about her safety and continues to respond BUT I really don't know and I do not want to point fingers when I have no proof - all I have is my mind working overtime because my curiosity was expanding ;)

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 03:43 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

And THAT's how it starts...your curiosity starts expanding and your mind starts wondering how in the WORLD any of it could be REAL...So people start looking...doesn't make them stalkers..its makes them human.

Anyone with a REAL stalker doesn't post their entire life on the internet for all to comment on...they just..don't...

That's what so mind boggling...and then? When you actually find out that only half of it is true or has been a manipulation of the facts? Well, its just human nature to comment on it..

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 04:10 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I think stalker is a misnomer. Its more like an online "mean girls" session. Most of us here have the luxury of telling our stories from our vantage point without being refuted. We get to leave out details we consider private/personal all the while participating in this community. Unfortunately long time ago MrsB was goaded into revealing too much, and did so. And she can't unring the bell. I looked, hoping that the person was wrong. I am happy to say that this person seems to be misrepresenting what can be read online. Or at least filling in huge blanks in the online records with their own little novella. MrsB's version is plausible, and even more likely to me given the few ways the anonymous posters have blatantly misrepresented the facts that can be seen there (like, that her husband sued her for divorce, NOT!).

I had hoped that if a few people who AREN'T too cowardly to use their real login names looked and refuted this nonsense MrsB would be able to go about her day without having to step in this.

nope

(member)

01/27/12 04:20 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

And this is how rumors start. NOBODY said MrB is suing MrsB for divorce. NOBODY!!! He packed up and left, he had enough. In addition, I DID SAY, he was filing after his tax return.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 05:04 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm a little surprised at you EM. I've read the same documents and dont' think the "troll" posters are THAT far off-base. What HAS happened is they say one thing, her supporters come and THEY exaggerate what the "trolls" say and THAT because the basis of what's being defended.

They NEVER said her husband filed for divorce.. NEVER. They said "stbx" which, if he's left and is dating someone else? Well one assumes divorce is eventual. They then DID clarify and state that the divorce filing would come after a tax filing.

So where's the problem?

Oh and MrsB doesn't get flack because she was "goaded into revealing too much". That is THE most hilarious thing I've heard in a long long LONG time. Soooo, I was a stalker right? And untrustworthy right? Sooo, I'm so terrible that she voluntarily and TOTALLY not at my suggestion sends me read notifies with her ex's IP addresses so I can hunt him down for HER. That's reality.

At some point she trusted SOMEONE with her ex's last name. I'm going to bet a million dollars she wasn't GOADED into giving that information out.

What DID happen? Is she spent quite a long time lying to this board. To manipulate a situation. Then after she came clean because she was LEAVING that situation, and then when THAT situation was bad, she had to spin it to look good on her. Unfortunately she did so in kinda sorta maybe half truths and lies and in order to maintain her image? She's gotta keep spinning, and spinning and spinning.

What's REALLY funny? Where are the "oh yeah, you were RIGHT!"s???? Didn't people call this? Her husband not sticking around.. her eventually getting called out on withholding visitation from the ex and generally being a control freak. This was all forecasted you do realize that right? So all those psycho people who were sooo mean? Just so happened to be RIGHT.

Just sayin....

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 05:11 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

The troll posters are not that far off base...I'm not willing to spoon feed anyone or tell what's there, I'm just saying they are NOT telling untruths...

No one here hates JL...at least I don't think so...I think its weird to "hate" someone on a message board...I even think its really a far stretch in most cases to wish harm on someone from a message board...I understand that hewhocannotbenamed is the exception to that rule...that guy did some real damage to several people...

I don't believe for one hot second she was goaded into giving too much personal information..

ETA: and if I recall correctly, JL was here while some of the "hewhocannotbenamed" crap was going on...PERFECT example of how NOT to behave on a message board...

annieo

(veteran)

01/27/12 05:44 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

It would be really sad if her new marriage is failing not only for her but her little one who from what was said really likes his step-dad.

It sounds like there may be a lot going on and time would be better spent in real life then on this board trying to counteract what is being said here...

She does get support here and she may be in need of support so maybe that is why it is important for her to be here, however, if it were me I would not be responding to lies, half-truths, truths or what have you.

Of course I have a ton of irl support so I can rely on that when I need support and I would rather have those around me who not only support me but call me on my bull and point out different views. I try to see different views because some times when one is so caught up in the emotional it can be difficult to to see through the emotions that come with difficult issues and (to me) I find that if I can see all sides objectively I can put the emotions aside and move forward on what I need to concentrate on - I hope this makes sense??
I think most people know what it is like to be spun around in circles and trying to come to a stop can be difficult.

meganb

(old hand)

01/27/12 05:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

They may have never said it like that, that her husband filed for divorce but this is what Nope did say on 1/26/12 at 1:55pm in post #775632

****Is JL Divorcing her current husband?****
Other way around

Isnt that the same as saying he is divorcing her????? One would assume by that statement that he had filed, atleast that how I read it.

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 05:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I didn't say it was ALL totally off-base. Just that it was a liberal interpretation of the scant information available. And at times untruth. I am not going to go back through this thread to prove it (making dinner right now), but I recall that in the whole I am an "IDIOT!" exchange it was said she was being sued for divorce.

As far as the goading - I was specifically referring to the the thread that was 200+ posts about how she was lying until she directed everyone to the website to prove she was not. I cringed at the time. She's a big girl so it is on her, but it wasn't like she gleefully revealed THAT.

And FTR I never thought it was you (or Runs for that matter) that "stalked" her. I think she blamed you because she knew YOU knew enough to do it and you were cross with her at that time. But realistically, anyone who wanted to play Sherlock and had free time COULD have figured it out by piecing together tidbits of info over time. And I think that is what happened. Why someone cared enough to "out" her I will never know or understand.

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 06:02 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Good post, EM...

nope

(member)

01/27/12 06:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

***about how she was lying until she directed everyone to the website to prove she was not. I cringed at the time.***

Then whoever went and actually looked were "stakers" who she SAID she enjoyed.

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 06:42 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

"Then whoever went and actually looked were 'stakers' who she SAID she enjoyed. "

Well stakers sure - they are a laugh riot. Its those stalkers you have to look out for....

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 08:20 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

That's what's so funny about it I suppose. Why on earth would I share something that would only make me look like a liar :). There's plenty on there to interpret the wrong way - there is also a lot of accusations that are false, which have already handled thanks to good record keeping and documentation. Like I said - I've made plenty of mistakes in sharing too much personal information, can't do anything about that now. However, also like I've said - truth always comes out in the end. People are welcome to believe as they wish - really, no skin off my back.

As far as others here - they've taken it way too far. If I'm such a mental case liar - leave it alone already. Don't really see what they get out of trying to discredit me - but, more power to 'em. I really don't understand how they have so much time on their hands or even care - but, whatever floats their boat I suppose.

nope

(member)

01/27/12 08:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

There is NOTHING FUNNY about your situation.At.ALL. Stop!! More than a 9 people, that I know of, have gone and looked. Remember, "What arrignment, I have no idea what the crazies are talking about."?

***Why on earth would I share something that would only make me look like a liar***
You did share and it did prove that you were a liar

Here is just a thought, take it for what it is:

Dear Board,

I will admit I have not always been honest in what I share on the board. However, I do post in the moment and sometimes, from my perspective, events seem different from what is reality. I am only human. I only had the best intentions when it came to my son. I still stand by that. Yes, I have played dumb at times. I have to protect myself from the constant hurt that some people dish out. I was wrong to direct people to the web site with all my information. I realize that I might have put my son in harms ways. I pray that is not the case. I also know that it was wrong to freely direct board members to my ex-husbands personal information, his 1st wife's personal information and their minor child's name and address. I had no right to do that. I am also sorry that I threw the term "stalker" around so easily. It is not a term to be played with. For that, I am wrong. I did not have any stalkers. In the future, if I post, I will take a moment and reflect if what I am typing comes from a "wanna be" emotion or the truth. I won't play word games or run around in circles with my thoughts. I won't pretend that everyone is crazy and that I am far better than them.

nope

(member)

01/27/12 09:00 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

***Don't really see what they get out of trying to discredit me - but, more power to 'em.***

That ^^^^^^^ statement futher demonstrates how immature/juvenile your thoughts are. You are in a sense, sending out another " I dare you." When are you going to get it?

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/27/12 09:39 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You very well know who I am, as we've discussed it off board. This post is not something I can support at all. Take the help that is being offered to you. You need the rest, your son needs a break and when you are well you can think with a clear head. For your own sake, if you post again, I will reveal my ID and our relationship. I'm sorry Bunny, but you have taken this way too far for fun. I'm serious. I will reveal because I love you and care about you and B. As you very well know. But I'm serious.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/27/12 10:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Anyone got some popcorn? Sh*ts about to get good.... waiting for JL to post.. I

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:24 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Will Cheese Nips do?

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:40 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'll admit this stuff has piqued my interest the last few days. I attribute it to having a relatively normal and mostly drama-free life.

While I don't wish JL or her son to get hurt from the fallout of this soap opera, I have to say I'm glad I'm not her.

Nothing like chaos in someone else's life to make you grateful for the quiet in your own.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 10:55 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Hmmmm. discussed it off board? I'm sure everyone would love to know you're real identity. At least some of us aren't cowards and can post under our real names.

(that wasn't to you java ;) A little birdy shared some info)

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/28/12 11:18 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

Really?! Just stop.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 11:43 AM

Re: Nail? Yes

So, Javajunkiee is Nope or Sockpuppet. Interesting!

SockPuppet1

(journeyman)

01/28/12 12:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Lv her alone. She cnt help it. She hs to dfnd herslf agnst u bullies.

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 12:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You should really acquaint yourself with how the quick reply feature works.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 03:49 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

And who is your "Little Birdy?" You just had to bring yourself front and center again. Don't you have packing to do?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 04:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]You very well know who I am, as we've discussed it off board. This post is not something I can support at all. Take the help that is being offered to you. You need the rest, your son needs a break and when you are well you can think with a clear head. For your own sake, if you post again, I will reveal my ID and our relationship. I'm sorry Bunny, but you have taken this way too far for fun. I'm serious. I will reveal because I love you and care about you and B. As you very well know. But I'm serious. [/quote]

-------->>>> Soooo, she posted again since you posted this.. Soooo, who are you, and what's your relationship?

I notice you've said you're not "related" in quotation marks a few times. I suspect you are someone related now by marriage or who WAS related by marriage. Ex brother in law? First wife of her ex?

Enquiring minds wanna know and we all re-stocked on popcorn, cheese nips, ring dings and ho ho's just for this occasion.. so either do what you said you were going to OR stop posting since you will have lost all credibility.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 04:07 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I am the one that is not "related" is Sampoe too?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 04:13 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ah, I could have sworn it was Sampoe.. but sometimes you two seem to switch roles so it can be a bit confusing to follow.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 04:23 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Wondering who Sampoe is too? MrsB said she knows from her little birdy friend. Wonder if that was a lie??? My big fat gut tells me, MrsB knows exactly who Sampoe is. I think they were once friends on the other board and made up Sampoe for a few rounds of fun over on this board. MrsB and "Sampoe" had a falling out either irl or on that board. Just a feeling? MrsB said just TODAY she knows. Wonder why she is keeping it to herself!?!?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 04:45 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I don't know why, if she knew, she wouldn't just say so. Your theory is a good one though. Many of us here thought Sampoe was here to begin with. A personna she created to perpetuate the "see I'm being stalked/victimized" image. So I'd totally buy that that personality was actually her and someone else, and the other person turned on her.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 04:54 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

MrsB can't say who it is. It would take the wind right out of her sails. Game over. The fat lady has sung. I also have a hunch about Sockpuppet. Again, my BFG tells me it is MrB or MrB's new girl who joined to just play with MrsB.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 05:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

So you think Sampoe is still MrsB?

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 05:17 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

You asked for it, and Bunny (a long standing nickname) didn�t believe me when I said the jig is up. I�ve know J for about 6-7 years, my name is Mackey Mxxxxxxx. We were originally introduced by her now ex husband R. We eventually became close friends and lived in the same apartment complex years ago. From what I was told, there was a Sampoe on DS that outted J about a year or two ago. J suspected that it was her ex husband and asked that I �flush� him out in an attempt to expose him. Not only did that fail, but I learned more than I cared to about J. I confronted her about her RL behavior, her behavior on these message boards and most importantly in the court proceedings. Needless to say that didn�t go over well and our friendship ended and she deleted me from Face book to never be heard from again. I met up with R sometime ago and got to know him a bit better and learned about the issues he was having with J and court. I NEVER told him about these boards, EVER. Whoever sent him to this site was not me and I have no idea who the others are. I will not provide my entire name or location but I�m sure you have questions. So ask away. Sorry J, but I really believe you need some serious help and your son�s mental health needs to be your first consideration. There are no stalkers, she created them (well at least me) for some reason that even I really don�t understand. I may continue to post on this board and will continue to use Sampoe. There you have it.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 05:41 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

No, I think Sockpuppet is MrB or MrB's new gal

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 05:52 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Sooo why the big tadoo about him getting contacted then if she's thought for years he knew about this site? Not understanding that one.

How do you know any of her real life stuff today if you're no longer friends?

Also, her ex wasn't sent to THIS site, he was sent to Delphi. That's where the person provided the postings from. THIS site? Was never mentioned by name. That's why I can't figure out why she'd insinuate ME as the perpetrator. I only went to Delphi at HER invitation (which she lied to board moderators about) and I totally hated the format and that, as bad as we may be here? They're just totally and completely psychotic over there. Off the wall. I would never have gone back there ever, if friends of mine on this board hadn't told me what was going over there and her lying to the moderators over there. I went back, and NEVER posted.. STILL.. I just communicated with the moderators about her lying about me.

So anyway, whoever the contacter was knew about Delphi.. and probably more importantly, her history on IVillage too. So my guess is that it's one of the people who moved from IVillage over to Delphi. Here? Never mentioned specifically. However, the contacter was supposedly a MAN. At least if you believe how they signed their emails.

As for your getting de-friended. Yes, that's pretty much how it rolls. She got herself into a hissy fit with me the last time because she had sent me a bunch of correspondence back and forth between her and her ex and she'd sent me other stuff that she'd sent and I'd made my comments that basically if **I** were in her shoes, I wouldn't be talking to him like that necessarily but.. as I told her, I'm a total pansy in that regard ;) HOWEVER, what I took exception to, was her position, on board, at one point, that she miss love and light in corresponding with the ex. When I pointed out that I knew differently because of the emails I'd personally seen, welllllllll, I was disclosing personal information blah blah blah. So basically the drill is, as long as you're blowing sunshine up her butt and telling her she's right ON BOARD, it's all good. I learned you CAN challenge her (if you do it the right way) PRIVATELY, just don't do it PUBLICLY. That's the key.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 06:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Sockpuppet showed up around the same time MrB flew the coop and started again dating his high school gf.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 06:15 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I have no idea who contacted R. After a couple of days, or weeks (because I really can�t remember) she didn�t think the original Sampoe was the ex, but the game was fun and we kept it going. Dumb? Yes, I know. Her stuff is common knowledge because we have mutual friends.

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Wait a minute...you're saying JL brought you here in an attempt to get her EX to contact you? So you were a dissenter by mutual agreement...

Oh Good Lord...

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:25 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm a bit confused too. I do remember there being another "sampoe" name. Had a number with it maybe???? Anyway, so it appears that Sampoe appeared, JL thought it was her ex, so she and this person created THIS Sampoe, in order to "out" the ex as the ORIGINAL Sampoe.

In other words, Colonel Mustard in the Library with a Wench.. oh wait, I meant WRENCH ;)

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 06:25 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

In the beginning.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 06:27 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]I'm a bit confused too. I do remember there being another "sampoe" name. Had a number with it maybe???? Anyway, so it appears that Sampoe appeared, JL thought it was her ex, so she and this person created THIS Sampoe, in order to "out" the ex as the ORIGINAL Sampoe.

Yes

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:30 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm not entirely sure someone could make that sh!t up...really...

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:38 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote][quote]I'm a bit confused too. I do remember there being another "sampoe" name. Had a number with it maybe???? Anyway, so it appears that Sampoe appeared, JL thought it was her ex, so she and this person created THIS Sampoe, in order to "out" the ex as the ORIGINAL Sampoe.

Yes [/quote]

------------>> I gotz skillz ;)

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:45 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I would tend to agree..

You got cheese nips? I brung the popcorn tonight ;)

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:46 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Cheese nips are gone...but I got chips!

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 06:50 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

There ya go! I also have Cadbury Mini Eggs.. startin' Easter off early this year :):) LOL...

Seriously though, I suspect there will be no response to this. Although there is on way to PROVE that what Sampoe is saying is truth but like you said, you can't make this shyt up.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 07:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm waiting for MrsB's response. Sampoe, do we know each other IRL?

LB, how could this Sampoe prove this? I am starting to connect the dots.

MrsB will pipe in and say "Oh good grief, is this still going on? Get a life people. My life really isn't that exciting. I can't believe people are still talking with the trolls. For you that are not, thanks Ladies :)"

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'm not sure how one would prove it, that's true..

However, lack of provability doesn't make it true, neither does it make it false.

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I still don't think someone could make that up...LOL!

She's been asked for months to quit responding...now she will....LOL..

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:22 PM

Sampoe...

LMAO - Thanks to the birdy who copied and pasted Sampoe's "outting" of him/herself.

Do people really believe this crap? Was that supposed to even be semi-believable?

Oh my...wow. Good try though. Still hiding behind your cowardice and fake name, still making up lies - and jeez, not even good lies at that. I'm seriously laughing...surely you could have come up with something more believeable at least!??

nope

(member)

01/28/12 07:22 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

what I find interesting, if you look "Who's Online" there are three people reading JL's posts from 2 and 3 years ago. I just bet the ex, his attorney and the GAL are doing homework.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:28 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Oh no, her "little birdy" has been busy ;) Which now she confirmed how she knows what's been said by people who are "supposedly" on "ignore". ROFL.

I'm surprised she doesn't think it's "semi-believable". It's pretty believable, not that far a stretch. She's always been up her ex's butt like a hemorrhoid so the explanation doesn't seem that far-fetched to me.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 07:29 PM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote]LMAO - Thanks to the birdy who copied and pasted Sampoe's "outting" of him/herself.

Do people really believe this crap? Was that supposed to even be semi-believable?

Oh my...wow. Good try though. Still hiding behind your cowardice and fake name, still making up lies - and jeez, not even good lies at that. I'm seriously laughing...surely you could have come up with something more believeable at least!?? [/quote]

Sorry

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:30 PM

Re: Sampoe...

*** You are ignoring this user ***

Blah blah blah. You're seriously nutso! I'll stop wasting my time now...carry on!

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:34 PM

Re: Sampoe...

So...? She doesn't really ignore anyone, right? the BIRDY sent her Sampoe's post..she didn't READ it...right?

OMG...more believable by the minute...

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 07:44 PM

Re: Sampoe...

No Sweetie, I gave my first name and last initial (so you would know). I'm no longer hiding behind anything, unlike you! Want to tell this message board who Longroad was? I'll save you the trouble...It was J. I was sampoe and she was Longroad.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 07:47 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Who is it Jennylynn? Who is Sampoe? Stop the games?

nope

(member)

01/28/12 07:51 PM

Re: Sampoe...

MrsB, YOU stop being a game player. Post what your little birdy sent you. You can leave off the name and such. Just post the typed part. That is if you do have a little birdy friend. That corner is getting smaller and smaller.

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 07:59 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Hmmm...LR actually outed themself at one point. Anyone else see what I see?

ETA: removed the post # since its apparently not searchable. Suffice it to say its an interesting post.

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]I still don't think someone could make that up...LOL!

She's been asked for months to quit responding...now she will....LOL.. [/quote]

Guess not....sigh....lol..

nope

(member)

01/28/12 08:08 PM

Re: Sampoe...

ok Javajunkie?? How did Longroad out themself? Ok, who is Longroad? Or are you too, just playing in the fun zone with Jennylynn?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:12 PM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote]Hmmm...LR actually outed themself at one point. Anyone else see what I see?

ETA: removed the post # since its apparently not searchable. Suffice it to say its an interesting post. [/quote]

Longroad outted themself? Do share. (took me a minute to figure out what LR meant, lol)

Arden

(old hand)

01/28/12 08:12 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Why wouldn't it be believable?

It makes as much sense as anything else that has been posted. Even you yourself are very careful with your wordings. You don't say flat out that this in not true. You just ask if anyone believes it.

You don't say your husband has not left you. You just say, nice try no divorce is "filed".

Now do you owe anyone the truth or an answer? Nope, not at all. So why say anything at all. I have seen you be asked a number of time in the last few days for you to stop replying. I just don't get why you keep going and going and going......unless....

Speaking of your online friends if this is even remotely true I feel really bad for them and shame on you. They spent a lot of time being loyal to you, supporting you and defending you. I can only imagine how they feel that all this might have been nothing but another one of you parlor games. Like the one you had M5 play about posting at another site.

Which brings up your "little birdy", really? Someone on here has that much time to monitor and send you posts of people you ignore? Why would you put someone to that much trouble? Just so you can announce you are ignoring them. You are still reading what they post and troubling someone else so you can.

Actually, the more I think about it yes, it does sound believable. I could never understand why one minute you would be all up in arms about a posting, then the next making a big joke out of it. saying your stalkers make you laugh, don't bother you, will not run you off, that you play with them and they entertain you. I guess if you knew all long who all the players were and it was all a game, it would be fun........for you.

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:13 PM

Re: Sampoe...

I don't play in the funzone. Search longroad posts from March of this year. LR identified themself by name.

The irony is interesting. I'm not repeating the content on the board out of regard for the safety of the child.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:15 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Oh man, that's just too much trouble. I don't care that much :)

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:17 PM

Re: Sampoe...

What I find more interesting is who is NOT saying a thing..

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:30 PM

Re: Sampoe...

There's a lot of us not saying a thing. No reason, at least on my part, just trying to get ready for R&R. :)

It's pretty silly if you ask me. If someone really cared about her son??? This would not be the way to handle it. This is just hateful people who have nothing better to do. Talk about a shame.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:32 PM

Re: Sampoe...

You know you don't have to post publicly and post to the troll for me to know where you stand :):).

I have so many people on ignore in this thread, it's just difficult for me to know what's going on...hahaha. ;)

nope

(member)

01/28/12 08:35 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Ok found it. LR slipped and refered to himself as Pipper's mother, So what? Who is Pipper?

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:35 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Its all good...

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:36 PM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote] If someone really cared about her son??? This would not be the way to handle it. [/quote]

That's an interesting viewpoint...

nope

(member)

01/28/12 08:37 PM

Re: Sampoe...

You just sent any lurkers right to her son's name, her ex's name and his 1st wife's name. Good going Javajunkie. You are a true game player. Way to go!

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:40 PM

Re: Sampoe...

"Pipper" has not been in the body of ANY post in the last two years.

Try again....

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:42 PM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote][quote] If someone really cared about her son??? This would not be the way to handle it. [/quote]

That's an interesting viewpoint... [/quote]

In what way? Whoever started all these made up names started out saying how worried they were for her son. Really? Anyone who was worried would not handle it this way. Just silly for a liar to be calling out someone else for lying. Why pick and choose tidbits as the truth?

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:44 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Yep...

javajunkiee

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:44 PM

Re: Sampoe...

No, you just did. Nice job troll.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:45 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Totally agree Loretta. I do find it funny some of these ladies are ragging on ME - I'm not the one who continues to start this crap. They're calling me a liar, talking sh*t on me - and I'm the one who's wrong for responding...RIGHT. Makes TOTAL sense to me ;).

This person is a fake and continues to lie about who they are. And continues to lie about me. Whatev. It's really getting old. A friend of mine name Macky or whatever!?!? Really?? LOL. Riiiight. At least that story was good for a good laugh this evening. :)

Oh and YES - absolutely agree - if someone was truly concerned about me or my son...they wouldn't be making up made up fake names on some message board. Seriously..who believes this crap..

nope

(member)

01/28/12 08:49 PM

Re: Sampoe...

who is it. I thought it was the Piper name. Actually, I was wrong. That is women who is suing her.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 08:51 PM

Re: Sampoe...

JL, for the most part, did all the postings. She had the sign in and passwords for all of the ID's. She made a mistake (by accident) a while ago and signed into her old name and 'pretented' to be a stalker. When she figured out what whe had done, she deleted it, but it was too late. Others had see it, so we had to up the game. That is the truth!

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 08:54 PM

Re: Sampoe...

No..no way...LR's language and syntax was too different...You can only fake that for so long...

LR was completely different...couldn't have been JL...

nope

(member)

01/28/12 08:55 PM

Re: Sampoe...

If you go to the web. There are 60 people near you with the 1st name Mackey. Intresting. I have never hear of the name.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/28/12 09:05 PM

Re: Sampoe...

You don't get it,

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 09:07 PM

Re: Sampoe...

"Mackey" is probably a nickname for Mackenzie.. or could be. Irish I believe.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 09:10 PM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote]You don't get it, [/quote]

You got that right. I just don't get it.
I don't get the obsession.
I don't get putting a child in danger.
I don't get the thrill.
Yep, I don't get it.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 09:15 PM

Re: Sampoe...

MrsB shoulp be answering the questions. It is HER child and HER that keeps going and going and going

elliesmom

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 09:18 PM

Re: Sampoe...

That really makes no sense. If she created the IDs, decided what needed to be said, etc. WTH did she need you for? Why involve a random ex neighbor? Why not flush out the ex herself? I am not buying it.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 09:22 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Anyone with any intelligence wouldn't believe it. It just gets some people off to hear a juicy story. People should forgive and move on. Revenge is nasty and takes too much energy, in my opinion.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 09:35 PM

Re: Sampoe...

<<That really makes no sense. If she created the IDs, decided what needed to be said, etc. WTH did she need you for? Why involve a random ex neighbor? Why not flush out the ex herself? I am not buying it.
>>

Hey - I'm all about the IP addresses being turned back on. I don't have time to make up fake names and post under them and all that BS...amazes me anyone has the time or energy for it.

And I'm with Loretta on this one :)

nope

(member)

01/28/12 09:59 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Ok confession time: MrsB played right into the trap. She played, played and played. After months of me posting, and months of her "ignoring" me, yet posting to ME through other people, we are done. Last night I wrote a letter and posted it. MrsB ignored it. She has been told just how dangerous her on-line hobby, of sorts, is. She speaks to the stalkers, even tonight LOL and was amused. Very scary she isn't even worried at all about her safety or that of her son. Time to let CPS know that a single mother is in contact with her stalkers.....knowing that we all have her physical address if we wanted to look again. Her son need to be placed in a safe home.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/28/12 10:09 PM

Re: Sampoe...

ooo...cool. Leave to go to work and do some errands. Get back and look at what's happened. Very interesting.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 10:19 PM

Re: Sampoe...

You all know she uses the stalker term figuratively not literally. Stalker as in "nasty biotches who obviously have nothing better to do than try try to f@ck with my life". Everything has been twisted and distorted so badly that it doesn't even begin to resemble reality. Get out of her life. Remember, she is somebody's daughter, sister, friend, mother, wife, etc. people irl love her. She has a real child who sure as heck looks happy and healthy to me. I actually know people who know JL irl, nothing but good things said about her. YAH knows her. Not sure how LB fairs better with her KK KNOWS me line to prove she's not a hateful evil [censored] irl???? Susan and Red met JL, all good things.

When M5 or I say anything we're labeled as JL cheerleaders, why? Because we don't beat JL up? I just don't get off on it.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 10:43 PM

Re: Sampoe...

KK's and my relationship is VASTLY different than comparing JL meeting Red and Susan for an afternoon or a day. We have been in person friends for four years now. We have spent tons of time together. My daughter was having sleepovers at KK's house before she even had them at her father's for pete's sake. We've traveled to see them where they are now.. stayed in their home for days at a time. Woken up in jammies and hair undone and no makeup on. She's socialized with my parents and I with her ex's family. I've socialized with her coworkers' spouses. If I died tomorrow? Every dollar of life insurance I have goes direct to KK. No trust, no legal paperwork, it just goes to her, or her husband if something happened to her before my daughter turned 18.

She's not an acquaintance, she's not even a "friend", she is FAMILY. The comparison is insulting frankly.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 10:56 PM

Re: Sampoe...

**You all know she uses the stalker term figuratively not literally. Stalker as in "nasty biotches who obviously have nothing better to do than try try to f@ck with my life"***

Ok, not much better. She is willingly engaging not with "stalkers" in the true sense, but with people that she doesn't know other on a website?!?!? She expresses glee over the attention. She knows a handful of people know her IRL, know all about her, yet she carries on!?!? Not the profile of a responsible single mother with a young child. If I was the ex, just the last few weeks would be enough for me to go for full custody. MrsB would have to have supervised visitation based on her lack of judgement while on the internet.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 11:01 PM

Re: Sampoe...

***I don't have time to make up fake names and post under them***
That is why you got Sampoe.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 11:01 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Doesn't surprise me.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 11:10 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Okay, using that logic, the millions of people on Fb, MySpace, google, twitter, mylife, as well as singers, actors, ext., should lose custody of their children. I've posted all about my kids and grand kids and my address and business on my Fb. I must be unfit. Any Internet savvy person could find out about anyone. Welcome to the 21st century.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 11:15 PM

Re: Sampoe...

That I think it's insulting? I'm sure you don't. You know darn well the comparison is utterly stupid and you did it just to be.. stupid.. apparently. I find the Red comparison spectacularly astonishing given he was the third party in the original JL debacle with me and Katie. He's the only "stalker" who got an entirely free pass on the whole deal AND got a nationwide, "let's meet the ladies of DS" tour to boot. ROFLMAO. sorry that's the funniest thing ever. Seriously.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 11:23 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Not the same.thing.at.all!!! You know it. There are pages and pages of just MrsB and JennyLynn begging for people to "dig" futher. BTW, MrsB was ordered not to post on any "public message/blog" site. Just yesterday, she hinted that her ex was the one that was going to be arrigned, not her. Her hole is so deep, she can't crawl out. Her son needs a safe and solid place to live.

If you thought for one minute you had "stalkers" of ANY KIND, would you still post pictures of you grandkids, your bizz address and what not? on any site? Facebook, Twitter, Myspace ect...????

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 11:26 PM

Re: Sampoe...

No, the fact that the most reliable person in your life has only been there a few short years. You're not exactly a poster child for how to win friends and influence people. I know people who have known JL her entire life, they say good things about her and her family. My SIL is from there. His brother is married to a girl JL went to school with. Small world.

Call me stupid all you want. I have friends that go back as far as I can remember, wonderful parents who love me, an amazing husband who spoils me like crazy, happy kids, adorable grand kids, sons in law that any mother would be proud of, a successful business, the sweetest dogs, nice home, I'm truly blessed....now back to packing for our Indonesian trip. Very excited as my BFF is joining us for one of our three weeks in Bali. Life is good. Not bad for stupid.

nope

(member)

01/28/12 11:34 PM

Re: Sampoe...

The fact that she is still posting is crazy. Brian BEGGED AND BEGGED her to stop posting last summer. She couldn't and wouldn't. Now where does she sit? She has lost it all...her husband of 1 year, her job of a few months, her rented house and her Tahoe. She lost it ALL over her addiction to have strangers like her, believe her and validate her. She is 3 months away from the custody trial of her LIFE. Yet she continues. One crazy women!

Who wants to stand proud and say they agree with MrsB or Jennylynn? Come on, stand up and say so- be proud that you back such behavior of a single mom. I bet my right nut, not one parent on this board would have behaved like she has/does.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/28/12 11:49 PM

Re: Sampoe...

LOL.. Ahhhhh, you're so cute. For the record, one of the things that was odd about me and KK, having met HERE, was how many common she has (as someone NOT from where I am from) to people I have known for YEARS before she got there. Her next door neighbor? Known since high school.. and her brother. One of the girls in her social circle here? I went to elementary school with. Her job? Is where I used to work. You really have no clue wtf you're talking about.

Just as a fun "aside".. there was a question on FB once, about "which one of your fb friends have you known the longest?".. Mine? BIRTH. Yes, literally, BIRTH. We are born ONE day apart, we have been friends since birth. We shared a crib.. OFTEN. Since you're being such a stupid insensitive cvnt, per usual, WHY? Because my mother was DISABLED when I was born and spent 6 months in a hospital afterwards. So this girls mother, who was besties with MY mother, when my father ran out of sick time to take care of me? I lived with that girl's family, essentially, for the next 3 months.

You're a stupid, evil, nasty woman Loretta. Period. I'll put my character references AND my history, against hers ANY day.

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 07:24 AM

Re: Sampoe...

[quote]You all know she uses the stalker term figuratively not literally. [/quote]

Oh...then she doesn't REALLY consider them stalkers? All right then...so the dicussion can continue...no big deal..After all, at this juncture, its just people, sharing opinions, thoughts and ideas...No harm to anyone..

"You've all been cleared of STALKER status..."

Proceed...

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 08:29 AM

Re: Sampoe...

Personally I feel stalkers would be an accurate term. Goes far beyond people just needing to get a life. So carry on if you wish, but remember, again, that she is a real person with a real child.

By your smart remarks I assume you agree stalkers is correct?

Reilly

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 08:42 AM

Re: Sampoe...

She is a real person with a real child who doesn't care how her actions affect her REAL CHILD...holy cow....

Because if she was truly being STALKED then she would have just disappeared from all the internet posting...

And now that its been determined, that she never took any of it seriously anyway...what's the big deal..?

I mean, either she felt STALKED and in danger or she didn't...

So we've determined that she uses the term "figuratively"...so there isn't any harm in continuing the great debate...she's getting what she wants, right?

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 08:54 AM

My Two Cents...

Not necessarily b/c of what you posted Reilly, just avoiding Loretta :)

Sooo, I have no doubt that Longroad is JL. There is a thread from March 2011 as Java said. Having read through it all again last night, SRS hit it square on the head when she said in that thread, over and over again (and no one paid her any mind) that JL was Longroad and Sampoe was a friend IRL.

EM asked "why on earth would JL DO that, why not just root out the ex herself??? Makes no sense". YES it DOES make sense, EM. Follow JL's psychology on this board for YEARS. She does NOTHING of her own. LOOK at ANY of these threads. Can you find one where JL piped in and defended herself immediately? Or first at all? I bet you can't. Or if you can, it's an extreme rarity (like ONCE). No, she waits. She has 3 or 4 people who do her defending dirty work FIRST and THEN she jumps in. I know from personal experience that she enlisted people to help her dig dirt on her ex. She had me digging up locations on IP addresses from where he was opening her emails through readnotify.

It is what it is.

In that thread we discussed the "star syndrome". NO doubt that JL has multiple personalities and bumps her own threads. Despite her protestations to the contrary, no one cares about her enough to go through the IMMENSE bother of having multple logins JUST to go bump her threads to have lots of stars.. or to downgrade other people's threads (which I'm also sure is her). It's not just a matter of coming here, and signing up and voila! Multiple logins. One has to go through the trouble of creating multiple EMAIL addresses too, since you cannot use the same email address twice to register her. Who the fvck would bother?? Stalkers or no stalkers.. really, think about it. Why would anyone bother? Makes no sense.

The REALITY is? Most people wouldn't have any interest in her case files, or who these people are if SHE hadn't created this situation. Which leads me to one part of the "story" that perplexes me. WHY if Sampoe was looking to protect her son/keep tabs on her, SUDDENLY out of the blue decide to pop up with a thread like this one? If he or she is NOT on JL's side? My theory is that they are not friends on the OUTS, I think they are very much friends on the IN. This board has been pretty calm since when? Ohhhh that's right, the LAST JL drama about the contempt charge and the arraignment. Since then? Everyone gets along, no real drama. Hmm... been too quiet. Maybe JL's husband HAS really left. She's bored. Hm... hey buddy... let's go stir up some shyt over there on DS.

And VOILA, here we are. However many pages later. I think the girl has an insatiable need for attention and yes, it doesn't know any limits, including potentially putting her child in harm's way. God forbid we still had a "he who shall not be named". She's made it unbelievably easy for any crazy to practically show up at her front doorstep.

But, I don't think she thinks she has stalkers. SHE has created this all. She has a history of lying to and manipulating this board. She has a history of lying in real life. It is what it is.

I would personally suggest that, if in future one of these "trolls" starts a thread? IGNORE IT. Every single one of us. Not ONE response. If she stops getting ANY feedback from it? She'll have to stop doing it, or she'll have to find somewhere to do it. Don't bother telling her to stop.. don't debate the accuracy of what's being post. Just ignore it. Entirely. I liken it to an alcoholic (which wouldn't surprise me if those statements were true about her, not even remotely).. they can't have ONE drop. Once an alky, always an alky. This is her alcohol. Don't give her any more drops to drink.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 08:55 AM

Re: Sampoe...

I can't speak for her. Sorry if I gave the impression I could. Continue to feed the drama if you want. I have other things to do today.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 10:09 AM

Re: Sampoe...

People invest so much of their time sensationalizing these threads. Then they says STOP. Let's see who can actually stop though.

I'll put my husbands salary on the line, plus two years of child support that those who have always fed this drama will continue to feed it.

Clock is ticking. Go ahead, prove me right.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 11:08 AM

Re: Sampoe...

<<Personally I feel stalkers would be an accurate term. Goes far beyond people just needing to get a life. So carry on if you wish, but remember, again, that she is a real person with a real child.
>>

At this point (ssmom this is in response to you too!), I don't think they will stop. They will continue to blame the JL "cheerleaders", and myself, for stepping in when it gets ridiculous, and having something to say about it.

I don't know what I'd label it- but any way you slice it, it's freaking crazy, unnecessary, lame, nosy, and just down right mean.

They will continue to feed each other's egos, make up lies, put down others, only to try to bring themselves up.

I feel sorry for them.

Like I've said many times - the truth always comes out in the end. These people are nothings in my actual life - and nothing to my child. Thank God.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/29/12 11:28 AM

Re: Sampoe...

HAHAHAHA......ROFL......Just dying of laughter right now. JL couldn't do it! She just couldn't help herself. OMG that is so funny.

I am dying....someone warn me next time so I don't spit coffee on my screen. This was just too funny.

Sorry, LB, I fed the addict.

Arden

(old hand)

01/29/12 11:37 AM

Re: Sampoe...

I completely agree Reilly. At first I couldn't figure out why she so unconcerned for her sons safety and her own for that matter. Now it all makes sense. There was never any danger to her or her son. It was a big game to her and she knew who all the players were since she is the one that put them in place. To be honest I feel like an idiot for even worrying about looking at her court papers and seeing such personal information. Now I see we were all just bit players in her self manufactured drama, for her entertainment.

At least Loretta was honest enough to admit JL never thought there were ever any real stalkers, only crazy biotches. Crazy biotches that JL could toy and play with for her own amusement. So yeah, it looks like it was a all a big fun game. At least it was until someone decide not to follow the script and contacted her ex.

So yup, I agree with you. Everyone can carry on. After this thread I will never participate in another one of her threads. Actually even in this thread I was posting/talking to M5 and not JL.

Frankly, this whole mess is disgusting and leaves a bad taste.

Arden

(old hand)

01/29/12 11:53 AM

Re: My Two Cents...

I would personally suggest that, if in future one of these "trolls" starts a thread? IGNORE IT. Every single one of us. Not ONE response. If she stops getting ANY feedback from it? She'll have to stop doing it, or she'll have to find somewhere to do it. Don't bother telling her to stop.. don't debate the accuracy of what's being post. Just ignore it. Entirely. I liken it to an alcoholic (which wouldn't surprise me if those statements were true about her, not even remotely).. they can't have ONE drop. Once an alky, always an alky. This is her alcohol. Don't give her any more drops to drink.
__________________

I agree and would love to see that happen. I know I can say you won't be seeing me respond to any of them. I will not be played by some bored housewife who likes toying with people.

annieo

(veteran)

01/29/12 11:55 AM

Re: Sampoe...

that has been my concern all along - the safety of her son and her as well but she is not concerned with it so I am not going to be either and now that this whole thing was/is a game I also feel like and idiot because I was so concerned especially for her son.

Continue playing...

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 12:00 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Glad you all have it figured out and know what's best for me and my son:).

They have already contacted my X. They have already proven to me they are liars and spread a wealth of misinformation. Seeing as how I'm the one who lives my life and I'm the one involved in the reality of this case...these people do not scare me anymore. It isn't them I have to worry about. The cat's already out of the bag. My responding here and there about the stupidity of it, and the fact that they lie - isn't going to change what has already happened.

There is a lot I don't comment on for that reason - I think I know my situation better than anyone else here, but thanks for the condescending tone and sincere concern, LOL.

People read a few docs online and think they have it all figured out.

I don't need your concern, or Arden's, or Reilly's, etc - it's superficial at best. SSmom sure was right - this has no end in sight ladies.

But hey - It's all good. I bet you all feel a LOT better about yourselves getting so involved in my life every day..

annieo

(veteran)

01/29/12 12:13 PM

Re: Sampoe...

my concern was NOT superficial and you do not know me well enough to make that statement - the things I posted were all questioning and concern and trying to understand it all and make sense of the whole situation.

I wanted a reason behind it all so that I did not have to think a mother (the sweet, kind, all engaging) one I saw when I first came here would put herself and her son in jeopardy.

From your lumping me in there maybe I am wrong and you do relish the attention and validation... and have no concern for yourself and your son.

Arden

(old hand)

01/29/12 12:32 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

but I�m sure you have questions.
_________________

I do have one. Why was all this set to make it look like RUNS, SRS or Lexi were the ones behind all these fake names? I mean if this was all set up only to "flush out" MrsB ex, why would either of you let these 3 take blame for it. What was the point of that?

Mostly RUNS and SRS here. But, Lexis name was taken over to the other site as the culprit. Knowing it wasn't her, what was the point? Why did it even need to be brought up over, much less lied about?

Arden

(old hand)

01/29/12 12:42 PM

Re: Sampoe...

No worries. You do not have my concern any longer. Actually my concern for you was fleeting at best, just from watching how you conducted yourself on here. Now that Loretta has made it perfectly clear you never were in fear of real stalkers, it's all good.

Everyone has been on here talking about your sons safety, when ultimately that is your responsibility and only yours. And you seemed to be the only one not concerned. Of course it all makes sense now, as to why that was.

Granted you might have bigger problems than you bargained for since someone from the other site sent all that stuff to your ex. Then again I have seen you warned many times that was a possibly. You only laughed and told them to do it. They did and here you are. You continued to play with fire and you got burnt.

spinnerdegrassi

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 01:42 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Since I don't have time to read all 39 pages here, where are we at currently with this thread?

Is JL divorcing her 2nd husband?
Does her ex have a job yet
What did her son eat for breakfast today?

And most importantly....where's the link to all these facebook pages and court documents?

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 01:49 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Is JL divorcing her 2nd husband?
--Most people know this now - we are having problems, like most all couples do. But no, no one has filed divorce. People can fill in the blanks all they want - it's really no one's business:). Happy to say things are great though. And no - he didn't leave me. No, it has nothing to do with this mess. He has always been very supportive of me and the situation I have dealt with WRT DS's dad, again - people will make up what they want to try to discredit me. They can all they want:). As usual, it's BS. There's a heck of a lot more we've had to deal with than this petty crap.

Does her ex have a job yet
--Not that I'm aware of.

What did her son eat for breakfast today?
--He's at his dad's this weekend. So, I dunno :). I haven't talked to him since last night, but I'll ask, since inquiring minds want to know ;). Just kiddin.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 01:57 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Btw - that's also something they had to have been told either by my X, or someone I've told - which are very few, so I have no doubt it wasn't from anyone here. X has known for months.

You can't find anything about it on our online court records (another flat out lie by the trolls) - b/c nothing has been filed, nothing has even been written up TO file.

I'm sure they're getting quite a kick out of it. Sad really. To ever be happy when someone else is going through marital or personal problems. However - can't say it's surprising.

SRS

(Pooh-Bah)

01/29/12 02:02 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

[quote]but I�m sure you have questions.
_________________

I do have one. Why was all this set to make it look like RUNS, SRS or Lexi were the ones behind all these fake names? I mean if this was all set up only to "flush out" MrsB ex, why would either of you let these 3 take blame for it. What was the point of that?

Mostly RUNS and SRS here. But, Lexis name was taken over to the other site as the culprit. Knowing it wasn't her, what was the point? Why did it even need to be brought up over, much less lied about? [/quote]

Thanks, Arden. I have never stalked this biotch. Ever. I'm probably the only one here who hasn't looked up her crap. I did have real worries that she was putting herself and her son at risk by posting so many details about herself. But, you know what. It is her life. If she can't control herself, then that is on her.

I do wish all of the ladies that have called me names like stalker and hag would fess up and say they knew it wasn't me, Runs or Lexi. BUt, I don't see that happening.

Oh well, I can look at myself in the mirror at night knowing that I didn't do all of the stuff JL and her admirers accused me of.

LexieBelle

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 02:08 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I'd like the answer to that too SRS!

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 02:20 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Maybe she's not worried because its all lies? If someone was trying to pass off lies as the truth???? I wouldn't be too afraid either. That's the most believable scenario to me. Not as exciting as you'd like it to be? I don't believe she's crazy or stupid.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/29/12 02:21 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

It wasn't planned to look like any poster in particular, it just played out that way and was a bonus in J eyes. I don�t know any of you or your stories, so I really didn�t care who was getting accused of what. For that I am sorry.

nope

(member)

01/29/12 02:24 PM

Re: Sampoe...

***Maybe she's not worried because its all lies? If someone was trying to pass off lies as the truth???? I wouldn't be too afraid either.***

What lies?

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 02:25 PM

Re: Sampoe...

WINNING!!!

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 02:59 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

This is to Sampoe.......go f*ck yourself you spinless twat. In Jan, while my father was on hos death bed, I was brought into this shyt because I think JL is a spoiled brat child. Due to my honest opinion of her and how her stories from day one didn't add up......I was accused of contacting her, her ex, giving out personal Information.....etc.

Let me make a few things clear. I don't know JL's name....except Jennylynn. I don't remember her maiden name, her marrried name or her name now....I don't know her exs name, her husbands name. I have never asked one person on this board FOR this info publicslly or privately. Not one person can say i've asked. I have lupus, I've had a stroke....I can't remember names....period...it gets worse every year. While my dad was dying, I was getting emails, pms and even contacted on FB about her bullshyt. How she and MANY of you accused me of this shyt. For 6 months, I didn't respond to any of it and it continued. I greatly appreciate the recent messages I received apologizing to me for accusing me of doing this. Sincerely it meant the world. I feel somewhat redeemed in knowing that more of you know I had NO part in her games. But to those of you that refuse to admit you were wrong, for you...Sampoe and even to JL..... Go f*ck yourselves.

Sampoe

(enthusiast)

01/29/12 03:03 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I deserved that.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 03:07 PM

Re: Sampoe...

Honestly, I think you would do us all a favor and just go...leave...really.
Life for you can't be that awesome. I dont believe it for a minute. I think everything that comes out of your mouth is a lie...you disgust me, honestly you do.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 03:11 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

How about you leave too....do us that favor also because I also dont believe a word you say either. I think you are someone from this board f*cking with us for some sick, perverted reason. I tell you what..... If you want to clear this up with me....email me...I will give you my number...call me. I bet my salary you wont. You are a coward.....just f*cking go.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 03:26 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

nope

(member)

01/29/12 03:47 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I wonder if we know each other irl or have mutual friends? Probably mutual friends. Your story doesn't sound familiar.

Loretta

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 03:52 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I know I already did this privately but I'd like to do it publicly as well. I'm sorry RWS.

ssmom79

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 04:01 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

If you are talking to me I would say I do not know who you are.

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 04:18 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

It's cool...you apologized a while back. We are solid. I appreciate it and your advice. Thanks!

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 04:23 PM

Re: Sampoe...

I heart you ;)

nope

(member)

01/29/12 05:02 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

OK, I thought you might be friends with Stacey.

M5M5

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 05:16 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Ditto. I don't think any of the fake handles are RWS. I've recently apologized to her for thinking she could be one.

*backing back out of the thread*

Cassie23

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 05:19 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Here's the thing....if you believe MB could make up fake names, what makes you think nope or even this Sampoe isn't MB??? I mean you'll gladly accept the poster's word as truth...but how do you know the poster isn't just another fake name...where does it ever end for you people?

I have always been very clear. 1. I have no idea any identities of any fake handles. 2. I am friends with MrsB off the forum. 3. I love my hubby.

Seriously...winning though. And I'm only saying that to remind us all we keep feeding it, it will still happen.

--------------------

I agree. Some are mad because they were accused of being the Sampoe or LR or whoever... Yet most of those same people were ALSO saying JL were those those same people. So it's OK for one to say it must be JL while if someone else says it must be <Runs, SRS or whoever> they are wrong? It's ALL wrong! We can't speculate and the trolls can say whatever they want, but they could have been 100% honest from the beginning and weren't.

Glad to see the apologies- I really don't know who the trolls are however I never thought it was anyone actively currently posting. I thought after someone showed JL's X the board that maybe he were feeding the trolls information- from an X standpoint. However, I don't know because I always felt like the trolls "fish" for info and then JL will right some wrong info- giving the trolls the info they were fishing for.

I watched nope post something that was soon deleted only to see sampoe post it the same way moments later. I also thought nope said they were a "sock" from the other board. Although maybe my memory isn't working lately- but that led me to believe sampoe and nope were the same.

Who knows- I would like to see the trolls leave. Just surprised that there are a few willing to believe the trolls... I have no problem if you don't want to believe JL or any poster- your right, but strange that people would believe a troll... IMO.

nope

(member)

01/29/12 05:40 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

Cassie, has Sampoe or LR or any of the others posted anything that was not in fact, true? Sampoe seemed to know the facts. MrsB denied, brushed it aside and even lied about all of it. Today, she had to admit it was ALL true. So who is one to believe.

MrsB

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 05:43 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

I have absolutely wondered if it has been several people here - I have been tricked by several women here who are consistently attempting to discredit me and put me down - now - that I think I personally have the right to question them, considering the history. I won't apologize for questioning RWS, PM, SRS, etc. I still do question them - and their motives, and what they have spread, tried to spread, etc. Whether or not they are the troll I really don't care anymore - I know it is no one I am close with, and I know it's no "Macky" I used to know or live next to, LOL.

Do I know who they are? No. Which is why I have never 100% accused anyone here. Have I had my inklings? You betcha - and I still do.

I do find it interesting just about everyone here can be excused for believing the trolls and telling me I'm a liar, withOUT proof - yet I, the one being targeted, can't make the same assumptions about who it is posting behind the fake names.

The hypocracy of some of the women here never ceases to amaze me.

PS - And I know I'm not the only one who finds it interesting katie and aqui haven't shown their faces since all this started...

Runswithscissors

(Carpal \'Tunnel)

01/29/12 06:14 PM

Re: Nail? Yes

JL, you accused me....do we need to go back and find the posts? You accused me in Dec or Jan....no, you don't own me a damn thing......I only accept apologies from those that are worth it...you are not one of those. You are a troubled spoiled brat who is going to have a life of hell. I only feel bad for your son and its a blessing you haven't been able to bring another one in this world...... I only hope you get your life right.....then maybe you will be able to have the life you do deserve eventually. This is the last I will say to you on this f*cked up subject.

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