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M5M5
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04/22/12 12:49 PM
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Wish me luck!
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I have CS court tomorrow! In the last 2 years, my ex has only sent 2 payments...one last July in the amt of $300 and the other 3 days ago in the amount of $69.23. He has a good job making great money since May...under the table of course. As far as I know, he still plans to claim he's been paying it all of this time by garnishment...and it's not his fault it's not been going to his account. I can't wait to see what happens when he tries to play that card.
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Gecko
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/22/12 01:21 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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As far as I know, he still plans to claim he's been paying it all of this time by garnishment...and it's not his fault it's not been going to his account.
---> If it's true, then it isn't his fault. He will need to provide copies of every pay stub where monies where withheld or a stub from last year and a current stub showing year-to-date totals of monies withheld. The court will then continue the matter while they investigate his employer.
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Re: Wish me luck!
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I highly doubt it's being garnished. If it WERE? He wouldn't bother to send ANY additional payments. Just wait for his day in court and be vindicated. The fact he's sending anything independently would seem to signal he knows he owes.
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Re: Wish me luck!
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Good luck!
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M5M5
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/22/12 02:49 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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He's lying. He is being paid under the table, so how can it be garnished? He told me he was filing a 1099 (so I won't get much if anything this year) as a self employed contractor. His whole story he told me...from CSE contacting his employer in June...is a lie. CSE didn't even know he was working until I called them in September...that's when they sent out the wage withholding order to them. I contacted CSE again in November for an update...because I had received nothing. They told me he was working under the table and there is nothing they can do about getting his employer to garnish.
He claims he has paystubs to prove it..but it is only a computer print out...and his wife is the office manager. They are both friends of the owner.
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M5M5
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/22/12 02:50 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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I sent him an email in July...telling him if he didn't start to pay CS (because I knew he had a good job)...then I would be hiring my own attorney to take him to court. The next day? There was a payment made to the account in the amount of $300.
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M5M5
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/22/12 02:51 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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Thanks!
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Gecko
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/22/12 08:22 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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He's lying.
---> Then instead of getting angry, simply give him the proper amount of rope in which to hang himself. I assume that since you have an attorney and said attorney is aware of the situation and that your ex intends to lie six ways to Sunday, that he has subpeoned ex's employers and/or their payroll records?
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Re: Wish me luck!
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Good luck M5!
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Reilly
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/23/12 11:27 AM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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Let us know how it goes!
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M5M5
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/23/12 03:24 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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It didn't. He didn't show up...turns out he was never served (you'd have thunk that my atty would have found that out BEFORE I wasted my time by going downtown). How did they attempt to serve him? Certified mail...he never picked it up. So, they are sending a couple of officers to serve him today...next court date is August 28th. I'm pissed.
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Reilly
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/23/12 05:06 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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I don't blame you one bit! How aggravating!
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Gecko
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/24/12 12:15 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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you'd have thunk that my atty would have found that out BEFORE I wasted my time by going downtown
---> S/he should have know and requested a continuance. Make sure s/he doesn't bill you for the hearing due to THEIR lack of due diligence.
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gr8Dad
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04/24/12 07:14 PM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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I get so frustrated with CSE. I called the other day, get through to an operator, she asks if I am employed (weird) I say yes. She asks if the full amount is being paid, and if not, I need to understand that I am responsible for the remainder, and my lack of making enough money is not their problem and I will HAVE to pay regardless of income.
I am like, "Huh?" So I explain that I am the CP and SHE is supposed to pay support. Now, she hasn't paid a DIME since July of 2009. Went to court in October of last year, after she had been picked up on a FTA warrant, then released about an hour later. She was given till November 1st of 2011 to start paying the measley $200 bucks a months she owes. No payments since.
So back to the story, the operator asks me if SHE has a job. I say I do not think so. THEN she says, "Well, if she is not working, you really can't expect her to be able to pay anything."
So I guess if I was supposed to pay and COULDN'T, tough sh!t, if SHE is supposed to pay an dcan't, I should show PITY.
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Re: Wish me luck!
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That's fvcked up gr8!
I think every person should own an iPhone, which should have the Recorder app standard. Records outgoing calls.. Be nice to have that kind of bullshyt on tape wouldn't it?
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M5M5
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(Carpal \'Tunnel)
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04/25/12 01:10 AM
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Re: Wish me luck!
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See...that is so messed up!! I can't stand dealing with them...and DH gets really mad at them because he has been treated the same way by them...even when he was the CP. A deadbeat is a deadbeat, no matter what gender you are.
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