yregna
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Reged: 07/25/06
Posts: 1265
Loc: Oregon
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One of the best things you can do is Teach the boys about the real Dollars and cents issues of relationships with women. You get married, you need to remember EVERY single time you contribute more than 50% of money into the relationship, you are getting ripped off...Because the lady can decide to leave the relationship at any time, and although she didn't contribute 50% to any of the cars, houses, mortgages, or whatever...She darn sure will walk away with 50%.
For your girls teach them that our society conditions girls to place value on sex, just like a prostitute. That is why it is called a booty call, booty means money. Do you want your daughter to value herself like that ?
What is the very first thing a women thinks of when she finds out her husband is cheating ? She wants money, right ? She wants to be reimbursed for her services. How sad...
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Renee
Carpal \'Tunnel
Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 4022
Loc: The Palmetto State
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What is the very first thing a women thinks of when she finds out her husband is cheating ? She wants money, right ? She wants to be reimbursed for her services. How sad...
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Wrong. The very first thing most women think is they want to rip his cheating ...... off and stuff it in his <name your preferred bodily orifice here>..
You see, the reason most women (or any gender) focuses in on the money, is because obviously the cheater doesn't value sex very much. If they did they wouldn't be sharing it with somebody on the side. So if the sex isn't valuable, you go for what is.
...and you can't tell me that there is ANYTHING else that will get a cheating man's attn faster than going after his WALLET. Thats usually what the men value most. (Besides a bimbo with a set of double d's)
***You stereotype your way, I'll stereotype mine, and we'll BOTH be wrong for the generalizations.***
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matilda
Pooh-Bah
Reged: 11/11/04
Posts: 2092
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Well stated Renee!!
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funkymom
recently joined
Reged: 03/30/07
Posts: 11
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[quote]What is the very first thing a women thinks of when she finds out her husband is cheating ? She wants money, right ? She wants to be reimbursed for her services. How sad... [/quote]
EXCUSE ME?!?
i just found out about my husband's infidelity and money didn't even cross my mind. i wanted to know why, i wanted to know how he could be capable of this, i wanted to know what his intentions were and i mostly wanted to know what happened to the man i married and spent the last 17 years (my entire adult life) with. where did he go and who is this stranger sitting before me tearing my heart out.
i feel sorry for you, obviously some woman treated you terribly at some point in your life.
as far as my daughter is concerned, i'm just worried about how i will be able to raise her without teaching her that men (and women, since it was a friend of mine that he cheated with) cannot be trusted. i'm hoping that i will heal enough and regain enough of my trust for the human race before this becomes a real issue. she's only 2 now.
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annoyedengland
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Reged: 05/02/07
Posts: 36
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OK funkymom. That is cool but let's be honest - next on the list is definitely going to be how to hit his wallet the hardest!!!! I WOULD and so would anyone. When you have been cheated on you have lost control. You can't hurt the person by leaving them (they are doing htat already) you can't hurt them with not allowing them to see their kids (what sort of mother are you?) so the one thing you can hurt is their wallet. Damn right - don't cheat in the first place is the answer - or pay for it.
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MominNY
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Reged: 02/20/07
Posts: 131
Loc: New York
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I think that yregna is probably angry because he couldn't get alimony himself.
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