JennyLynn
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I can see how it'd be extremely difficult to still be living with your ex - personally I wouldn't even LET that happen! :)
But you're right jss1, to each his own. Some people are ready sooner than others.
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jss1
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Reged: 10/09/07
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Loc: New York
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Heres a question for the ladies would you date a man still living w his ex?
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peace
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Reged: 08/24/07
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I thank everyone for your comments and opinions.
I will say I went out on the date. He knows Im living with my x. I wish I wasnt but this darn housing market is killing me. I pray to St. Joseph everyday for my house to sell.It is a nightmare.
Well, the date was incredible. I never smiled and laughed so much. WE went out for dinner. He had such a sparkle in his eyes. We ended the date with a big hug and made another date for next week. I have never felt this connection in my life. I will take it slow and enjoy the friendship.
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Renee
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Loc: The Palmetto State
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I haven't read all the responses, but is HELL NO already taken?
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JennyLynn
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jss1 - honestly? No, I wouldn't date someone who was still living with their exspouse.
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matart1
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for you it sounds like the marriage is over - divorce done - and your ready to move on now....
I think the problem you face is that you still all live in the same house.
I understand why because of the way the market is but how is the relationship in the household..??
is there strife between the adults or do each of you pretty much do what you want..??
I think if you are going to date, I would keep it private until your living situation changes.
if you can't be discreet then I would not recommend dating as it may give you a whole set of problems in the household that you do not want to deal with.
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peace
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My xh and I actually get along better then we ever have. We both have accepted the divorce. We communicate about the needs of our son and finances however we each do our own thing. I will leave my dating private as it is not anyones business. I look foward to another date.
I thank everyone for your replies and comments. It has really helped me
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