spinnerdegrassi
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[quote][quote]The only problem with Renee's reply is that most men would have already tried to sleep with their platonic female friend . [/quote]
I think it's funny that women actually think they can be just "friends" with a guy.
No matter what the guy says, his ultimate aim is to get laid.
Always. [/quote]
Depends how old and ugly she is. I have friends from work who in no way would I ever try to tag, cause honestly, I wouldn't get stiff even if I tried. They're just not attractive (and way to big for me)
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jss1
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theres the term exception to the rule that I think applies but for all the rancor there is some legitimacy in the above discussion on both sides
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emilar
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I think it's funny that women actually think they can be just "friends" with a guy.
No matter what the guy says, his ultimate aim is to get laid.
Hate to break it to you guys....good women still sometimes just want to get laid too...and who better than a friend...except of course either of you suck in bed...then there's a problem...hard to be friends then ...LOL
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Renee
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Amen emilar. Best Friends with Benefits works both ways.
Men may want to chew their arm off in the morning in order to leave.
Women may want to send you packing after 'dessert' so she doesn't have to deal with your morning wake up fart.
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Pooh-Bah
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[quote]Hate to break it to you guys....good women still sometimes just want to get laid too...and who better than a friend...except of course either of you suck in bed...then there's a problem...hard to be friends then ...LOL [/quote]
There's going to be a damn big problem if both don't suck in bed.... nibble....lick...etc.
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emilar
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Good one changes...HaHa....Have to start watching my wording around some of you...LOL
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kotabear
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What happened to all the nice guys? Well just because you had a [censored] realationship and think you are a good guy in YOUR situation doesn't mean everyone on here had a nice guy all the time. Mine was the jackel and hide. the worse of him always came out with his buddy mr kessler.
So time machine I don't think would help, because you can't change things like that. Don't get me wrong, I love him for many reason's, miss him, and would love to have the good ol relationship we had, BUT I can't walk on eggshells and live me life like that.
So just because you are pissed that you have to pay that [censored] of an ex-wife and don't get to see your kids everyday, don't hate on all of us! Even though I don't ask or get support from my (still husband) can't seem to go threw with it, I still stop by OUR house and let him visit the kids or keep them over night IF things seem fine with me.
Life brings many changes, and you have to keep on keepin on, getting pissed will only make you die sooner, take your anrgy and make it into something, unless you are just f u c k i n g with us all on here and then get the hell off of here and go wrestle or box it out in the gym!
If you were a nice guy you wouldn't hate on women so much you would let the small minded on here go by and waste thier lives and move on to better things. But no you can't you have to be an ass and generalize all women. Grow up!
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CiCi
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FANTASTIC POST, Renee! I'm going to hang onto this one : )
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NeedToKnow451
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"Nice Guys" = Anti-Jerk. Think of males this way, there are three types "Nice Guys or Anti-Jerk", "Jerks", and "Men". These three descriptions form the points of a triangle with Jerks and NG's being on the bottom corners and a Man being way at the top. This is an isosceles triangle with the side being twice as long as the bottom.
NG's are just what was described by Yregna. And I think most people know what a jerk is. A man on the other hand is someone is secure in himself. I gives’ because he wants to and does not attach strings. If you were to tell him you want to have mad animal sex and then never see him again he would have no problem with that. A NG would be like but “how come we can’t blah, blah… A jerk would be like “Hey baby you rocked my world. Lets’ hook up again. A man will be like ‘Thanks that was great, see you around.” Oh and this applies to the females also just different names. Most people are located in the bottom 1/2 of the triangle. The marriages that work have two people in the top half of the triangle. And those marriages that make you want to puke because they work so well are at the top point of the triangle. Me I am now located near the top of the triangle. And my counselor and I have worked hard to get me there. I am now located near the top of the triangle. And my counselor and I have worked hard to get me there. Stop being NG’s and jerks or you will never find happiness.
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