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spinnerdegrassi
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Re: lump sum in lieu of alimony? [Re: 1966Gal]
      #578214 - 09/15/09 06:17 PM

Let's see.

Old woman has saggier boobs, more likely to have stretch marks and wrinkles

Youger woman has perkier boobs, less likely to have stretch marks and liver spots and probably no wrinkles

Older woman has gone through menopause, has associated side effects congruent with it.

Younger woman doesn't have hot flashes and bitchiness tied to menopause

Older woman has probably popped out a few kids

Younger woman less likely


Older woman = more baggage in most cases
Youger woman = less baggage in most cases

and the list goes on and on and on.....


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Re: lump sum in lieu of alimony? [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578235 - 09/15/09 08:58 PM

You said:

Old woman has saggier boobs, more likely to have stretch marks and wrinkles

My response:

True. But then, so do older men. Which isn't that attractive to younger women.

You said:

Youger woman has perkier boobs, less likely to have stretch marks and liver spots and probably no wrinkles

My response:

And probably not interested in older men with their wrinkles unless they are gold diggers.

You said:

Older woman has gone through menopause, has associated side effects congruent with it.

My response:

No periods means no worries about getting pregnant. So no surprise pregnancies.

You said:

Younger woman doesn't have hot flashes and bitchiness tied to menopause

My response:

And can end up pregnant given that they are still fertile. Surprise pregnancies do happen. And if it doesn't work out, well, then, that's what child support is for.

You said:

Older woman has probably popped out a few kids

My said:

Both of my sisters had 2 kids by 20 and a couple of kids in schools that I attended had babies when they were 16(and they were surprise pregnancies. That happens with younger, fertile women), your point?

You said:

Younger woman less likely

My response:

Two words: Surprise pregnancy.

You said:

Older woman = more baggage in most cases
Youger woman = less baggage in most cases

My response:

Older woman=no surprise pregnancy
Younger woman=do I really need to say it again?

You said:

and the list goes on and on and on.....

My response:

Yes, it does. And every one of them ends up with the younger woman having a surprise pregnancy or how the only way they would be interested in an older man is if they are a gold digger.


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Re: lump sum in lieu of alimony? [Re: Goodmom]
      #578237 - 09/15/09 09:12 PM

Well it never became an issue with my father since he got a vasectomy after he split with my mother, and concentrated on dating women significantly younger. Did he care about them being goldiggers? Nope since he wasn't going to marry them anyways, and he was getting a nice young [censored] piece of ass that didn't come along with the baggage that the older woman did. He could get away with it because, even as he got older he was exceptionally successful at what he did, and knew there would be no lack of women who would pick up on that.

Your only point here is pregnancy. Once that issue is dealt with the vasectomy, since in most cases the guy has his fill of kids, then there's nothing really advantageous about going for the older vs younger woman. Let's face it. Older men have been dumping their wives for younger women for eons, and it will always be a factor. Do you think these guys give 2 sh!ts why the woman is with them? If they have the $$$ and the chick is sucking on his knob regularily, they're happy and all is good.


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Re: lump sum in lieu of alimony? [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578238 - 09/15/09 09:16 PM

and my g/f has 3 kids and had her tubes tied...she's younger than I!

My g/f sucks on my knob regularly and she is the one with the money...why? because I'm not getting any!

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I have found that younger women... [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578239 - 09/15/09 09:18 PM

...also do not EXPECT the LTR. Older women are still stuck in that "Get the ring" mentality, which benefits men in NO way. Younger women are, in my opinion, my equal in the relationship, realizing that what they are "getting" is what they are "giving" and they have a responsibility for THEMSELVES.

Older women seem to expect that you will take care of them, and do FOR them, and all they have to do is EXIST. I hope that this is a side effect of a changing mentality amongst women, making it better for my children.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: gr8Dad]
      #578242 - 09/15/09 09:25 PM

If I ever split from my wife, there's no way I'd be dating another woman my age. Why would I want to go through dating women with kids again and having to have that aspect be a factor once more? I've already helped raise a stepchild, I don't need to have that experience again. But how many divorced women in their late 30's don't have kids? It's a minority. How many women in their 20's to early 30's don't have kids? Significantly more.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: spinnerdegrassi]
      #578472 - 09/16/09 12:47 PM

[quote]If I ever split from my wife, there's no way I'd be dating another woman my age. Why would I want to go through dating women with kids again and having to have that aspect be a factor once more? I've already helped raise a stepchild, I don't need to have that experience again. But how many divorced women in their late 30's don't have kids? It's a minority. How many women in their 20's to early 30's don't have kids? Significantly more. [/quote]


That is a dumb thought process. You date a 20 year old who is going to want kids in a few years. That makes no sense. What you should do is date someone with grown children, so the entire children thing is not a factor.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: Miranda]
      #578483 - 09/16/09 01:02 PM

Or you date someone who doesn't want kids. My sister doesn't want kids.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: Cassie23]
      #578561 - 09/16/09 02:39 PM

For me, the "rules" would be: No one with kids who are still minors. No one with adult kids who cause problems. No one who wants kids. No one with an ex-w who still wields power over them.

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Re: I have found that younger women... [Re: 1966Gal]
      #578650 - 09/16/09 05:42 PM

Go gay. There's no problem with kids, your shirts and ties get coordinated. And really, who else would actually touch Stuck's knob?

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