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c_jane
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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: gr8Dad]
      #799336 - 02/07/13 09:18 AM

"Larger house" -- Nope, doesn't fly. EVERY home in this subdivision has 3 bedrooms or more. His house has 3 bedrooms; my house has 3 bedrooms. So there goes the 'bigger house' justification.

And I AM getting rid of it entirely. I'll be sure and let you know how Exhole gets along with OUT my CS. If this paperwork ever gets signed. Been waiting now since I first filed in MAY.

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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: Sherron]
      #799337 - 02/07/13 09:20 AM

At the standard 17% for one child, I would be paying 779 a month. Which works out to approximately $9300 a year. Not an amount ANY family would choose to LIVE on.

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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: c_jane]
      #799338 - 02/07/13 09:24 AM

Yep. and you CHOOSE to have a three bedroom, he HAS to have a three bedroom. BIG difference, but, of course, you are looking to justify your whining, so you will grasp at straws.

"I'll be sure and let you know how Exhole gets along with OUT my CS."

That you would even CARE about your ex's personal finances, when they in NO WAY afect you (you do not live in an income shares state, thus, if he made 100 million a year, your child support payments would be the same) is pretty pathetic.

"If this paperwork ever gets signed. Been waiting now since I first filed in MAY."

LMAO< yeah, sounds like you are SOOOO smart and he is SOOOO dumb, ROTFLMAO.

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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: gr8Dad]
      #799340 - 02/07/13 10:23 AM

"At the standard 17% for one child, I would be paying 779 a month. Which works out to approximately $9300 a year. Not an amount ANY family would choose to LIVE on."

c_jane pays more, and you consider that amount a pittance. I guess you would voluntarily pay more support to assure you were adequately providing for your child, and not just paying a mere pittance.

Fyi, c_jane did not say "live on", but "live off". Since you only came up with around $500 in actual costs, that means dad is not contributing any money to the cost of raising the child and the other $350 is being absorbed into the household budget. What would you call that?


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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: Sherron]
      #799341 - 02/07/13 10:24 AM

"Yep. and you CHOOSE to have a three bedroom, he HAS to have a three bedroom. BIG difference, but, of course, you are looking to justify your whining, so you will grasp at straws."

Why does dad have to have a three bedroom?


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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: Sherron]
      #799342 - 02/07/13 10:44 AM

"c_jane pays more"

Really? Cause at $100K, over 15 YEARS, is averaging $555 a month (100K divided by 15, then divided by 12).

"and you consider that amount a pittance"

Not a pittance in regards to child support, a pittance in what a family LIVES on. I apologize for not being clearer.

"Fyi, c_jane did not say "live on", but "live off"."

Twist the words any way you want, she IMPLIED that her ex was living a better life HIMSELF due to the amount, which is bullsh!t.

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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: gr8Dad]
      #799344 - 02/07/13 11:07 AM

1. Why does he HAVE to have a 3-BR? 2 BR would be fine, but then you almost can't FIND a 2-BR house anywhere any more. And I CHOSE to move where my CHILD was after Exhole decided to move (which was legally his right) so I could share more of DS's life.

2. I would care only to see how the LOSS of income/CS/whatever you want to call it when they've been using it all along to benefit THEM affects their living.

3. Oh Exhole signed his part back in October, as did I. Now we're waiting only on the court system/judge. It has NOTHING to do with either of us. I'm theorizing that his azzhole lawyer finally got tired of dealing with him and told him to sign off on it -- that if we ended up in court HE could be paying ME CS, as DS was going to ask to live with me as CP.

And believe me, I have been EVER so grateful that I have a college education and a good job so I can SUPPORT two households and not be living on the streets. It's not only NCP MEN that get shafted.

[quote]Yep. and you CHOOSE to have a three bedroom, he HAS to have a three bedroom. BIG difference, but, of course, you are looking to justify your whining, so you will grasp at straws.

"I'll be sure and let you know how Exhole gets along with OUT my CS."

That you would even CARE about your ex's personal finances, when they in NO WAY afect you (you do not live in an income shares state, thus, if he made 100 million a year, your child support payments would be the same) is pretty pathetic.

"If this paperwork ever gets signed. Been waiting now since I first filed in MAY."

LMAO< yeah, sounds like you are SOOOO smart and he is SOOOO dumb, ROTFLMAO. [/quote]

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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: c_jane]
      #799345 - 02/07/13 11:11 AM

Fifteen years later and you are still calling him exhole? Sounds clear that Karma is and will continue to play a role. Enjoy....you've earned it.

Oh, and get some help. I can't say how the child is doing with your ex as he isn't posting here, but it's clear the child would do worse with someone as hateful and spiteful as yourself.


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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: c_jane]
      #799346 - 02/07/13 11:11 AM


"Twist the words any way you want, she IMPLIED that her ex was living a better life HIMSELF due to the amount, which is bullsh!t. "

That's because even with your math, there is an extra ~$350 a month above the cost of raising the child that is being absorbed into the household, while he contributes $0 financially. Hello, somebody...

Oh well.


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Re: Against CS and ALIMONY [Re: Sherron]
      #799347 - 02/07/13 11:46 AM

No, because as every MALE is told on here, child support is not based on the actual costs of raisin.g a child, but on a percentage of income.

What I am wondering is, is it her vagina or her breasts that entitle her to special treatment ny the board for HER attitude towards child support?

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