JMG77
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I am glad that things have calmed down! Hope it stays working in your guys' favor.
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MJenkins
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:/ He had a meeting with her this evening that went terribly wrong. SHE requested the meeting. It took place in a public place...and SHE shows up intoxicated. She's loud/insulting, antagonistic, telling him he's selfish for not wanting to be with her, he wants to have his cake and eat it too because he wants to have a relationship with me but still see his child, etc. She said their child would be f***ed up from going back and forth between homes, and that he doesn't care about her if he doesn't want to be a family with them. When her yelling got excessive, he left. He had the restaurant sign his receipt as a timestamp, and is keeping a journal of everything that's taking place. He intends to pick his daughter up tomorrow according to the CO, and she stated tonight that if he did, she'd call the cops. He's planning on taking a neutral witness and a police officer if at all possible. At this point he he's prepared whether or not she complies tomorrow...if she's cooperative, great. If not, he'll document it and have witnesses. He'll then return the next day at the same time, so on and so-forth. I believe that proof of denial 3 times will count as contempt, etc...I'm exhausted but if there are any night owls or morning people, let me know of any other precaution he ought to take. He's an extremely calm man, however I don't like the idea of her calling the cops and lying or whatever she intends to call them for. Everyone knows whoever gets to the phone first, the other one's goin' to jail. Anyone have experience with police escorts in this situation?
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MrsB
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Unfortunately the police won't always get involved in matters like this. I'd tell him to call the police station first and see what his options are. And call his attorney And at the very least take a witness like you suggested.
And wow! What a piece. Showing up intoxicated! Who had the child?
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MJenkins
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Her parents had her, thank goodness. She showed up to the meeting with two strange men (they appeared to be thuggish) and had them drop her off. She had a gloss smear on her cheak as if she had been kissed (like maybe the guy had carmex on or something).
I know sometimes the police don't want to get involved...and it's FINE if the cop doesn't enforce the court order in my bf's hands. But I want him to have an escort for his safety, and as a witness to the denial should she choose to say no as she's said she would. The last thing I need is for him to show up and get arrested without anyone asking questions because there's a misunderstanding or she lies on him.
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ccmom
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Although the police may not "enforce" the order. They will write up a police report that just documents that he tried to pick child & was denied. You can use the police report in court.
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Avaya
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FYI, you might want to start a new thread when you have updates if you want responses and advice.
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finz
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I think it's smart for him to have a witness whenever he sees her for now and that you seem to understand that the witness should not be you, as that probably would just set her off.
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MrsB
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I agree Finz.
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finz
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Didn't you get the memo ? I'm ALWAYS right !
tehetehetehe
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MrsB
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Hehehe 
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