MommyAlisha
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Loc: Wesy Virginia
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The mom's stepdad is the child molester. We have a copy of his data on the registry. We also have the drug charges against her sister and sisters husband. There is a site in Maryland that shows criminal records. Her sister lives across the boarder from her in Maryland.
We have papers from my oldest daughter's school showing when my husband came for meetings. There are 7 total. He has came toevery meeting for all 3 kids since we have been together. Everyone that was there signs them and we get a copy. She is in speech because she has a lisp and a speech problem. We also have a certificate thanking my husband for going on a fieldtrip with my youngest daughter. I have 4 certificates for volunteering. I usually volunteer 60 hrs or more for my kids schools.
The pastor included a paragraph in his letter that states "Mr. and Mrs. (last name) have brought the baby to church 3 times. They do not leave the baby in the daycare. When asked why, Mr. (last name) stated that he enjoys all the time available with his son and does not want to be seperated from him. Mr. and Mrs (last name) attend church at least once a week and I have had the chance to see them with Alisha's children as well as the baby. They appear to be very loving and nurturing."
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MommyAlisha
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This is an initial hearing. It is to determine paternity, custody, and child support.
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MommyAlisha
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The only good really is that she made good grades but that turns bad because she was expelled for drugs.
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MommyAlisha
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She won't let my husband get a paternity test now. She said it has to wait until court. The testing place said he could not get one without her there or notorized permission because his name is not on the BC.
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MommyAlisha
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The lawyer is the cheapest we could find. He is providing things for the baby but not handing her cash. She filed her court response and denyed that he has sent anything for the baby but we have receipts. I say we because I bought the baby some things when my husband wasn't with me.
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No paternity test = no money or material things! Very simple to me. I have doubts your husband is dad if she is not willing to do a paternity test. If he was dad, she'd want to prove it.
The Maryland Case Search site is great - we've had a lot of fun with that.
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MommyAlisha
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It was suggested by the lawyer for my husband to buy the baby things and send them to offset back payment of child support.
She SAYS that she wants the test done through court so he has to pay more for it.
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MommyAlisha
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My husband also wanted me to point out that he started doing this before the lawyer said to. He is doing it because he said that the child might be his and deserves his support incase he is.
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Gecko
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She SAYS that she wants the test done through court so he has to pay more for it.
---> Then I would request that she share in the cost.
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Gecko
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We are having doubts because someone on here told us to consentrate more on my husbands good than her bad but the lawyer is mostly consentrating on her bad.
---> Since your husband is filing for CUSTODY, you want to focus on BOTH. Think about it...what good does it to focus on the "bad" of one parent is the other parent is worse?
---> And it should NOT be about what the TWO of you can provide that SHE can't, but what Dad can provide that Mom can't. And I'm NOT talking about gender, but the focus can't be on a "family" household verus a "single-parent" household.
---> The PRIORITY should be paternity testing...NOTHING else because if your husband is NOT the biological father then NOTHING else matters. ONCE it is proven that he IS the biological father, THEN you go forward with the rest of it.
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