MrsB
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Okay, my kid's Dad hasn't been involved in their lives. He may see them every other month, but has gone as long as 9 months without seeing them.
--How long ago was that? How often does he seem them currently?
He used to live a couple of miles away, but this past summer he moved 90 miles away. Now, he lives approximately 65 miles away. He doesn't notify me when he moves - didn't give me addresses until I asked him.
--Not sure what this has to do with anything. I'm glad he gave it when you asked so you were at least aware then.
I am thinking of moving to a large city that is a 5 hour drive from where we currently live, so that we have a better support system.
--I think it would depend on what your CO states, and how often he sees them. I think it would depend more (if the CO isn't specific) on how it would affect your children, and what would be fair to them. You do have to remember - if you move away, you aren't giving him the opportunity to be involved.
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MrsB
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Is it a move away, if the OP moves first?
--Depends on what the CO says and how many miles it states in the CO, if at all.
Has hasn't seen them since Christmas, btw. He took them for 3 days less than the actual CO'd time. Last night was the first time he has called them since Christmas. I think that kind of stuff would help in a court case, wouldn't it?
--Doubt it in a moving away situation. It's not as if he never sees them at all.
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MrsB
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<<It is frustrating at times - that higher standard. Especially since he's quit paying CS reguarly and never takes his COd time.
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Welcome to the club. Still doesn't mean you can move - you haven't said what it states in your CO.
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MrsB
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<<How about ever having been to a doctor or dentist appointment? No parent-teacher conferences? Missing First Communion - even though he lived 4 miles away at the time.
Plus, living 65 miles away.
I've got almost 6 years of this documentation.>>
Again - welcome to the club. May or may not make a difference. Being minimally involved isn't not being involved at all - I have been through similar experience for almost just as long - I still wouldn't move away from DS's father unless he wasn't involved at all.
Not seeing them since Christmas is not that long in the big scheme of things. That's like 6 weeks.
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SweetLight
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It is odd, your feeling the need to reply MB- 4x in a row, to an older thread, and to someone you have on ignore. Why?
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MrsB
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It actually isn't an old post - I've been following it, yet haven't had the time to respond. It's about what, 5 posts down? Do you look at the dates everyone posts, b/c I don't :). I forget sometimes to venture to this one and child support - so now and then I get caught up. Is that ok with you? ;)
I ignore her when she posts nonsense in response to trolls and garbage. I do not read what she posts in threads the trolls start.
When someone posts something I know about, and have experience about and can offer an opinion about - I'll respond to anyone.
She actually does this a lot. She posts something, doesn't answer valid questions that several people have already asked - then doesn't respond. It's a common theme of hers. People post to other posts days or weeks after it's started...this isn't exactly uncommon here.
Oh, and 4 responses - because I do that when responding to anyone, while I'm reading, I respond as I go...I don't read it all, then respond, unless it's a super long thread.
That's why. :)
(It sure is gonna take you a while to ask everyone who continually posts to me who knows I have them on ignore why they do it!)
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SRS
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Why are you posting on an old thread? 4x or so? I thought I was on ignore because I was an old hag? THat is exactly what you said.
I've had you on ignore for a long time because you are totally, 100% certifibly crazy in my opinion.
I wouldn't take advice from you or reply to your nonsensical questions if you were the last frickin person on the earth.
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M5M5
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Yeah that's why you read every post about her and from her. BAER.
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SRS
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Aren't you just a fine little helpmeet to JL? Holy crap.
You have been on ignore almost as long as JL - and you both know it.
Why respond at all?
I can only guess what other of her little friends will post next. You know - because she's so naive and all. She can start crap and it takes you to finish it.
Egads.
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LexieBelle
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I'll be honest.. I read JL's replies on this thread and literally laughed out loud at the SICKNESS of it.
FIRST of all, JL has SRS on IGNORE. Why why WHY would she post on this thread??????
SECOND, she knows ZERO about move-aways, she's never DONE one.
THIRD, her statements to SRS? Completely and utterly FALSE. The woman has YEARS of documentation of his violating their court order in terms of visitation. ABSOLUTELY that is a factor.
FOURTH, the hypocrisy of this bytch saying "gee he's their FATHER, doesn't MATTER what HE does" is so fvcking funny I literally about peed my pants laughing so hard. This chick is in court currently for basically telling a LAW GUARDIAN to go fvck themselves and she'll do what she damn well pleases (didn't she stop counseling for the child? And she's been ordered to re-start it?). Never mind the level to which she tells the father to go fvck himself (and don't tell me she doesn't, **I** have the emails to him that CLEARLY show that she's a horror show to deal with for him).
Obviously you're JUST as sick as she is. Really. It's pathetic.
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