finz
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[quote]Nicole lied to the board about BM denying time.
It was BM's time and Nicole wanted to pick her Steppies up early to make things convenient when she picked up her own child from the grandparents. One of her first dramatic posts.
CJ supposedly lied in 2008/2009 about custody.
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I think Nicole misspoke on the op in that thread. In that same post or later ones in the same thread she explained the whole situation which was clearly not one of the bm denying scheduled parenting time. She was corrected on her inappropriate use of the phrase "denied parenting time" and didn't deny that was a poor choice of words.
CJ purposely posted something she KNEW to be false in order to deceive.
BIG difference between the two.
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SRS
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Misspoke to invoke sympathy? Not fessing up until she was caught? Isn't that the same as lying?
Guess it depends on how sympathetic you make your case.
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gr8Dad
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You are either a COMPLETE MORON, or so completely full of sh!t even YOU don't realize it. One person used a word improperly, and corrected herself immediately, while the OTHER lied for YEARS, then admitted she lied just to "play" with us.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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Cassie23
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Her TITLE on the thread was "Denied Time". Immediately after under the title she wrote, "BM just denied us an extra 2 hours because she said she didnt want them picked up that early. My DD spent the weekend with my parents so I had to go pick her up and I asked BM of on my way back thru if I could pick them up. I text her at 12:21 and finally at 1:50 when I text her again asking to just say yes or no she finally text me back saying no because they were hanging out. Just disappointed."
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Nicole clearly stated in the FIRST post of her own thread that she wanted an EXTRA two hours and BM said no. That is hardly lying.
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gr8Dad
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Don't waste you time, its a non custodial MOM versus a STEP mom, SRS always backs the MOM over the stepmom.
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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MinnesotaMom
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I read through lots of CJane's posts from the past.
I'm not an expert, but it appears her wanting custody is about hurting her ex and ending CS.
Actually spending time with child is #3 on her list. Hopefully a judge will be able to see that.
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SweetLight
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I'm not so sure I would feel any differently than CJ feels after all these years. Who would?
And what exactly is the harm in a judge hearing from a child his age? I think he’s 15. I cannot imagine the number of threads some would start here over the years, in the same situation CJ is in.
We’ve had a little taste with Cassie’s situation, and she should go for it. But CJane should not? JMHO, of course. CJane is a scapegoat here for a ton of shyt that she doesn't deserve. Simply because people want to make it about themselves and some witch hunt here, without knowing all the facts. Really, it happens. :-)
I wish CJ (& her son) the best of luck!
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SRS
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There has to be a villan in every story. But, really, who is it here? and why?
CJ? Gr8? Cassie? SL? Me?
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Cassie23
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We’ve had a little taste with Cassie’s situation, and she should go for it. But CJane should not?
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Interesting take. BUT I have never been in the above situation persay. When we talked about, as stated above, we did NOT go for it because we were told X would have to agree. It would have been quite the fight with YEARS and thousands of dollars. SD left her Mom's when she was "of age", so no fight. The only consideration we had to make was- should we go for CS? Most on here said no and we would never get it. Most on here were wrong :) I think it is difficult to gauge unless you are from the same part of the OP's state and no others who have BTDT.
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finz
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I'll add another difference Cassie.....
Not saying that you never called bm a name or shared your judgements about her, but on the whole, you related the FACTS about what was happening and let us make our own judgements.
I just don't know much about what kind of dad CJ's ex is. I've read more "ex-hole comments" than I've heard what he has or hasn't done for the boy. I don't know which is the better home for the kid in CJ's case. My impression is that her ex is no prize, but I don't know much about his actual relationship with his son. All I do know is HATE isn't a good environment for a child and CJ seems to have a lot of that.
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