Goodmom
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The only time holiday transportation is addressed is with the father doing the driving.
You said:
Mom and Dad should be able to figure out a compromise here, like spliting the time and having mom keep the kids through dad's first few days of summer vacation and the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend, travel on the Sunday (meet at halfway point), dad gets the kids on the Monday holiday and starts the summer parenting time.
My response:
To be blunt, he also posted this same question on another forum. He has no interest in working this out with his stbx. To him, it's all about making a statement about his rights. It's all about doing it his way and his interpretation of a vague court order (same applies to the mother).
Neither one of them are putting the kids first. I feel sorry of the kids.
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gr8Dad
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Of COURSE you side with her, he doesn't have TITS. You and your BIASED postings are REALLY getting old.
"He has no interest in working this out with his stbx."
So he ASKED a question, is LOOKING for options...and to YOU, that indicates he has no interest in working it out with his ex? I guess the ONLY way you would admit a GUY was willing to work it out is if he simply GAVE IN to Mom's demands, huh?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
Edited by gr8Dad (05/21/13 09:19 AM)
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Avaya
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"Personally" since mom has them all of the school year, if I was mom, I'd forgo the 3 day weekend and let them stay with dad.
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Goodmom
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Hey, notsogr8, your bias and lack of reading comprehension is showing. Again.
It's the OP who is here, not the mother. My responses are going to be geared to what he can do as he can't force his ex to do anything.
BTW, I clearly stated that BOTH parents aren't putting the kids first. Which is CORRECT.
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gr8Dad
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"Hey, notsogr8, your bias and lack of reading comprehension is showing. Again."
So, please explain how NOT wanting the replies to be biased is BIASED?
"My responses are going to be geared to what he can do as he can't force his ex to do anything."
Great, I agree. However that is NOT what you did. What you DID was to tell the OP that HE was wrong for not WORKING with his ex. Well, he listed a PROBLEM, and asked for clarification on the order and asked what he should do. Apparently, if a person ASKS for help (oh yeah, and has TESTICLES), in YOUR book they are not WORKING with their ex.
"BTW, I clearly stated that BOTH parents aren't putting the kids first. Which is CORRECT."
See, THAT is where the bias comes in. He ASKED what he should do. He ASKED. That was it. Yet you have apparently decided, without know WTF he was planning on actually DOING, that he is not putting the kids first.
But I will give you a chance to redeem yourself. What is he ACTUALLY DOING to NOT put the kids first? Should be an EASY answer, right? I mean you KNOW what he is going to do, because you already JUDGED him for it, right? So how about you explain WHAT you judged him for?
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gr8Dad
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Oh, and by the way, YOUR claim that he posted this in another forum is a LIE, as the guy has TWO TOTAL POSTS, both in THIS forum.
But, I guess us guys all look the same to YOU, right?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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finz
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[quote]The only time holiday transportation is addressed is with the father doing the driving.
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So ? That's for HIS holiday time because the possessive covers both parts of the statement.
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finz
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[quote]Hey, notsogr8, your bias and lack of reading comprehension is showing. Again.
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I wouldn't be so quick to insult someone else's reading comprehension if I had failed to correctly comprehend the OP's quote from his CO.
Doh !
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Goodmom
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[quote][quote]Hey, notsogr8, your bias and lack of reading comprehension is showing. Again.
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I wouldn't be so quick to insult someone else's reading comprehension if I had failed to correctly comprehend the OP's quote from his CO.
Doh ! [/quote]
I correctly comprehended the OP's quote from his CO. The OP is to do the transportation for holiday parenting time.
And as I stated, having read his posts on another forum, neither party is interested in putting the kids first and are basically going to force the poor kids to travel over a thousand miles in less than a week.
I feel sorry for the kids as their parents simply aren't willing to love them more than they
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Goodmom
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[quote]Oh, and by the way, YOUR claim that he posted this in another forum is a LIE, as the guy has TWO TOTAL POSTS, both in THIS forum.
But, I guess us guys all look the same to YOU, right? [/quote]
Divorcesource.com is not the only forum on the web.
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