BetsyR
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Reged: 07/12/07
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Relayer, you may have every reason in the world to be bitter, cynical, pissed off, or whatever. BUT . . . people turn to this forum for advice. One can only get good advice from someone who's calm enough and level-headed enough to realize that everyone in the world is different. We each have our own motives, which may not be remotely like the motives of your exes. We each have our own needs & goals, which may not be remotely like your needs and goals. If you can't see that, you're just ranting. When you start giving real advice (which you used to do very well), we'll all listen.
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almostheaven
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Reged: 07/13/04
Posts: 10468
Loc: West Virginia
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>>>>>However, of late his tolerance for what he views as less than acceptable levels of responsibility has decreased significantly.<<<<<
Amen. I knew I wasn't the only one who was seeing this change.
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Jill
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Reged: 09/19/05
Posts: 211
Loc: Oregon
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What JennyLynn said is correct. What the Judge court orders means NOTHING if the ex doesn't follow through. Contempt charges are worthless if he dies. Don't be bullied into signing off on the divorce because all the attorneys and the Judge think you should give in.
To Relayer: FYI, my ex was bankrupt when I met him (he lied to me, imagine that). I paid CASH for 55% of our business, while he'd rob the till every evening to pay for his share. I paid all our family expenses during the first year of our marriage, then returned to work after our child was born. I took care of our child every night(born with severe colic and never slept through the night for 4 1/4 years). Not all women are lazy. In fact, quite a few of the women who've posted here have pulled more than their fair share in their marriages.
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