koritora3
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i just found out my stbx is encouraging his mistress to get a restraining order against me. I've never even spoken to her and I live on the opposite coast. what are the grounds for a restaining order? anyone know?
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Buckeye
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It could be that there would be no telephone communication. BUT, most likely it will never happen. It's not like you are a physical threat to her.
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Miranda
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Well what are her grounds? Are you calling her job? Her boss? That would/could be considered harassment. I filed an "injunction against harassment" in AZ for my H's ex wife who lived in NM. I had her served with it and it basically stated that she could not contact me by phone or thru a third party. I could have then pursued action in her state, but it was not worth the time or trouble.
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koritora3
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i'm pissed as hell that he would encourage her to do this! (i read an email last night from him to her) it was like, i love you baby, can't wait til this is over, if you feel safer w/ a restraining order then i'll stand by you, she'll take it out on me but i don't care i love you so much...... I'm about to flip the hell out. Any advice on not going crazy! (oh, and I just got to look through all their vacation photos in Florida) AAAAAAGGGGGGHHHH!
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Miranda
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Well I hope you are not ha cking into his email account.
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koritora3
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is it [censored] if you have the [censored]?
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koritora3
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is it h acking if you have the p ass word?
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Miranda
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How did you get the pass word?
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koritora3
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very easy guess
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koritora3
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I don't know where she works. I've NEVER spoken to her. I honestly think he's convinced her that i'm out to get her. It makes him look like he's leaving me for a reason.
Edited by koritora3 (07/24/06 11:00 AM)
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