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AngryDad10
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Surviving an Ex After a Divorce
      #624950 - 01/21/10 12:02 PM

I don't know about most of you, but the worst part of my divorce were the months that followed it when my ex wife went completely off the deep end. I started a blog about it in hopes that it will help others with a similar situation.

[censored].exwifesurvivalguide.com [url=[censored].exwifesurvivalguide.com]Ex Wife Survival Guide[/url]

There's also a link to a facebook fan page on there. and for every fan we get, your ex will gain a pound...ha!

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: AngryDad10]
      #624976 - 01/21/10 12:42 PM

LOL I wish that worried mine!

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: TeriLynn33]
      #624981 - 01/21/10 12:53 PM

lol, i'm sure they're just trying to keep warm through winter.

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: AngryDad10]
      #625253 - 01/21/10 07:33 PM

And I'm sure you were completly rational through out the whole thing. In my experience a lot of cr@p gets thrown around by both parties in the heat of a divorce.

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Debi]
      #625379 - 01/22/10 07:31 AM

Yea, actually i was completely rational throughout the whole thing considering she abruptly left and got her own apartment 2 hours away to be closer to the guy she was having an affair with leaving me to raise our 6 month old daughter at the time. Then when i ask for a divorce she breaks into my house, then later calls the cops on me (twice) for allegedly hitting her, even though i didn't see her that day, nor have ever laid a finger on her. or the fact that before the divorce was finalized she got knocked up by a completely different guy who abuses her, but she still gets custody and i'm in constant fear of what goes on while my daughter is there. and when i got remarried she stalked my new wife across the city, leaves me messages lying saying she saw my wife cheating on me and in the same sentence confesses she wants to remarry me.

so long story short, yes, i was completely rational. i managed to raise my daughter alone for a long time, hold down a good job while being promoted twice and fighting a custody battle all at the same time.

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: AngryDad10]
      #625424 - 01/22/10 09:30 AM

Wow, that's a terrible situation. Congratulations for managing to stay sane through that entire ordeal, especially as a father. I know the feeling myself.

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Atlas]
      #625518 - 01/22/10 11:42 AM

Thanks atlas, as rough as it was, things are for the better. if she spontaneously combusted, things would be the best.

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: AngryDad10]
      #625591 - 01/22/10 03:31 PM

"Congratulations for managing to stay sane through that entire ordeal, especially as a father."

Why, are fathers usually not good at staying sane? ;)


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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Sherron]
      #625856 - 01/23/10 09:52 PM

"Congratulations for managing to stay sane through that entire ordeal, especially as a father."

Why, are fathers usually not good at staying sane? ;)

Why does a man get congratulated for staying sane as if it's monumental feat? Is that admittance that women are more level headed as a general rule? Hmmmm

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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Debi]
      #625920 - 01/24/10 12:01 PM

yes AngryDad I can relate. She went off the deep end.

I've passed my 1 year mark post the legal divorce, and my 2nd year post her being removed from the home, and about 7 yrs of having a pleasant relationship with a women! :O

The best part was when she finally got someone else and her mind finally left the fighting. Her sleezy cellphone nude pics finally got her a man.

But the fighting stopped and thats when the bottom was hit, and the kids and I started climbing back to normalcy, to happiness, and to a peaceful life.

I didn't have to pay the guy much either. (lol)


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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Debi]
      #626085 - 01/25/10 07:03 AM

I was commenting on his particular horrific situation, not on men in general.

But if you want to make it about that, go right ahead. No one's stopping you.


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Re: Surviving an Ex After a Divorce [Re: Atlas]
      #626193 - 01/25/10 12:19 PM

yea its nice when the ex moves on. its like a whole other sigh of relief. kudos on 7 years with a new significant other. its sometimes hard getting someone else to put up with your baggage.i wrote a few tips that i picked up during my fiasco.

[censored]://[censored].exwifesurvivalguide.com/2009/05/how-to-prepare-your-new-significant_30.html

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