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>He would flip out if I was doing what he was.
Well, yes, I would think so, if he still loves you.
Lsutton, I know you have this 'biting my tongue' approach that people keep complimenting you for. But personally I think there is nothing more healing than to let some of the poison out of your system. Why not do it in a somewhat 'safe' way...telling your husband, I am so hurt, I am so angry, I feel so much like imploding and suffocating, I wish I could just scream it all out and then collaps and cry in your arms and have you hold me, console me, comfort me. It is just too much for me.'
Is your husband really so much of a loser that he would never be able to understand these feelings? Is he so cold that he would not take you in his arms when you ask him to?
I believe this is how to recreate intimacy again, not by 'biting your tongue' so hard that you end up swallowing your own blood.
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lsutton
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Maybe you are right. I have mentioned it and cried to him about it. Told him that I just was so hurt and didn't know what to do, that I felt like I couldn't let my guard down, he didn't say much just held me. But that was only one time and I want to scream like you wouldn't believe.
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