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Re: saving my marriage [Re: Debbie_L]
      #198914 - 02/13/07 03:52 PM

Oh my, those are circumstances with which I have no experience. I can be of no help here. I will leave you to the others. I do wish you well and good luck.

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Some questions, Kip... [Re: GeorgiaPeach]
      #199027 - 02/13/07 08:27 PM

My first question would be, have you explored any possible medical reasons for the lack of sex? Also, could you have sleep apnea which causes you to snore loudly or restless leg syndrome (RLS), either or both of which would not make you a good bed mate overnight?

As for the bathing issue, I think you already know that's simply slothful.

The money issue could also be huge. Add that to the mix as well as your concentration on your daughters and you've hit all of the Big Three reasons marriages run into trouble and fail -- sex, money and children!

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Re: saving my marriage [Re: Debbie_L]
      #203664 - 02/24/07 10:12 PM

Hrmm - I'd stop doing all the stuff immediately. You've got plenty of time to save this thing especially if you two are still in the same roof - I don't care if she won't go to counseling right now or not. My wife wouldn't go either and I know plenty of people who were in this situation and eventually their spouse started going to counseling. It can definitely be done - it is hell, but you'll come out one heck of a better person if you really work at it and so will your marriage.

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Re: saving my marriage [Re: Debbie_L]
      #203996 - 02/26/07 08:47 AM

I know exactly what you are going through only my husband hasn't filed yet we are just discussing it. We are just too busy with the kids and don't take time for us. I think he is more guilty of it than me but he thinks differently. I want to go to counseling and he says it won't work anyway. I feel that once their mind is made up it is hard to change it. At least in my case anyways. It takes both of you to want to change things. I know the lawyers try to see if there is anything else that can be done before the divorce. At least the lawyer did that I went to see. I don't know about the judges. It probably depends on the laws in the state that you live in. Good luck.

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