Becky
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LMAO.
You could have just ended it, gal. Just left it alone at MTmom's comment. But, you have to make a dig and now you 'know' that he will come back and say something.
You were the one that started this bs with your 'didnt you say this and this to me tho' crap.
He asked for an opinion on his situation. There is no need to drag up your crap to add to this. If you dont agree with him, then dont agree. Dont start a pissing match.
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My choice is what I choose to do and if Im causing no harm it shouldnt bother you.
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1966Gal
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He asked for an opinion on his situation. There is no need to drag up your crap to add to this. If you dont agree with him, then dont agree. Dont start a pissing match.
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Why not? He does it to me ALL THE FREAKIN' TIME. It's time he got a little of what he loves to dish out!
Every single post I start, he has something ugly to say. Yet, you are don't say anything to him when he does it.
He belittles others and calls them names if they call their ex over matters he deems "unworthy." Yet, ALL of his "matters" are "worthy???"
I think the dichotomy needed to be pointed out as he so READILY does when he sees one.
In fact, Becky, he did it just last week when he accused me of driving my ex's new wife away. Where were last week when he was doing that??
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The Gov cannot give anything to anyone - that they have not first taken away from someone else.
Edited by 1966Gal (07/01/08 11:48 AM)
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MTmom
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JUST PUT HIM ON IGNORE.
You 2 obviously dislike each others opinions on everything. So "ignore".
This is just dumb.
2 wrongs don't make a right and you're being childish.
Let this stop here.
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Becky
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I dont see him justifying what he did.
I see that a lot in your posts, just looking for someone to back up what you say.
He asked for others opinions, and usually he takes what other people have to say and ACTUALLY uses it. He doesnt say...well this is how we do things here...blah blah blah.
And calling your ex to tell him what he can and cant do in his home, well that is a myob type of thing. I mean kids shouldnt have ANY say in who their parents are marrying.
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ssmom79
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Really Gr8dad...what CAN you do? You aren't her stepdad any longer, and I'm really concerned that you getting involved may do more harm than good with gr8ex on this one.
I would also be concerned. I would try to find out as much information as you can about this patch. Like what kind, what's the dosage, did she get her own medicine or is she taking someone else's, is this a prescription or an OTC patch?
Do you know she's using the patch for sure because you mentioned someone told you she was using it?
Do you think you could talk to your SD about it personally once you find out a little more on the patch? Or maybe a sister, aunt, grandma? I don't recommend the XMIL, but maybe you have someone who is close with the kids who might be able to talk to her?
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1966Gal
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And calling your ex to tell him what he can and cant do in his home, well that is a myob type of thing. I mean kids shouldnt have ANY say in who their parents are marrying.
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??? I didn't call him to tell him what he can and can't do in his home. I called him to tell him that he had really hurt his kid's feelings...something I know he would want to know.
Yes, kids SHOULD be informed if their parents is getting married and their parent is going to move someone into the kid's home. That's common courtesy, if nothing else.
If you were a child and your parent was moving someone into your home or your parent was going to marry someone, wouldn't you want to know before the fact? How a parent can make a huge life decision like that and not even bother to tell their kids beforehand is sad.
It really hurt my kids and caused them to look at their dad differently, since he usually showed them much more consideration than that.
I'm not saying he needed their permission, but to at least give them the dignity of a head's up would have at least showed them they matter.
By not saying ANYTHING to them was really saying, "I don't care what you think. You don't matter."
Edited by 1966Gal (07/01/08 12:01 PM)
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gr8Dad
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...with what you did.
"It really hurt my kids and caused them to look at their dad differently, since he usually showed them much more consideration than that."
Instead of saying to them, "I am SURE he didn't mean to hurt you, why not give him the benefit of the doubt..." You ENCOURAGED their anger.
But if it will SHUT you up, you are RIGHT, the situations are the same, I am a HYPOCRITE for even THINKING any different.
Now, can we END this?
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1966Gal
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No, we can't, because you are still lying and inserting your own version of the truth.
How do you know what I said to my kids? Of course I told them he didn't mean to hurt their feelings. I NEVER encouraged their anger.
They didn't even know I made the phone call!
Geezus, Gr8dad, you insert your own "facts" and then present them as the truth. It's ridiculous.
It's like me saying, "well, you told you SD she was fat, so she went to her mom and asked for the patch and now you are mad at her for giving her the patch, when you were the one who told her she was fat in the first place!"
Is there any OUNCE of truth in what I just said? No. And there's not an OUNCE of truth in what you just said either. So please STOP "creating" your own facts and then bashing me for them, when they aren't true in the first place!
YOu did it last week too, when you said I was responsible for my ex's wife leaving him!!! grrrr
I'm about as responsible for my ex's wife leaving him as your are for your ex giving your SD a patch!!!!
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Edited by 1966Gal (07/01/08 12:10 PM)
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gr8Dad
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...to criticize ANYONE for insert crap that isn't there, you do that DAILY.
I VAGUELY remember the thread. But I am SORRY if you were offended. I take back whatever I said, so can this end?
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Why give a "senior" discount, they have had plenty of time to raise the money...
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RJ1
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You called the counselor and the MIL but you didn't think to call the Mom? Weird. All you can do is tell her Mom what you think and leave it alone. They are not your children. Your posts are sounding quite melodramatic as well. I mean the girl could be bummed about summer school, or she could be ill from hormones...how do you know it's so "obvious" she's down from the patch? Too many assumptions and it's really not your business any way.
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