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mewanda
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What A Waste
      #782678 - 04/11/12 09:07 AM

Been lurking for quite a time now. You all really have issues. Take a look at yourselves and maybe you will see what you are all doing to one another. One minute person 1 is friends with person 2 then however person 3 let's it out that person 1 and 2 have been talking about one another now person 1 and person 2 are enemies. Lies, deceit and gossip are thrown all around as if you are in grade school still. From a lurkers perspective you are all nuts. You are all stabbing each other in the back and take turns with one another on who is going to be next in line. Friendship? You all do not know what friendship or loyalty or empathy is. You prove that each day you whine and gossip about someone new. Who will be thrown under the bus next? It is doubtful you are all innocent yourselves. You have trolls who hide behind their real names because they are cowards. Knowing this you respond to them anyway. You all eat up the drama and thrive because of it. Take a look at yourselves. It is disappointing in the least. Divorce source is a joke and so are all of you - playing games with each other and watching to see who will be chopped up and eaten next. Move on. Grow up. Play with your children. Take up a hobby. Do something productive. Stop spitting on one another day in and day out.

I do not think my message will be given much thought. Take care of yourselves.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: mewanda]
      #782683 - 04/11/12 09:51 AM

I agree this is a waste. This board has had a few issues over the years…but this takes the cake. All over everyone’s obsession with one person. I was hoping that the moderators would bump off all of the ones that are participating in this juvenile crap so it can go back to being a step family board. I don’t think that is going to happen.

Even ones that I would have never thought would participate in this mess, are actually thriving on all this drama. So strange.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: onerose]
      #782685 - 04/11/12 10:06 AM

No offense OneRose, but apparently? The one person? Is obsessed with HERSELF. Which is, in actuality? THE CORE PROBLEM here.

There are those of us who grasped that she was her own worst enemy, in theory. Hence why we tried to, by I guess any method, to get her to see what she was doing.

Turns out in actuality? She really IS her own worst enemy. The level of sickness that takes? Is pretty big, don't you think?

Anyway, I saw this thread posted.. and I wasn't going to respond. I was hoping everyone would ignore it, but since you responded as you did.. I felt compelled to respond.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: LexieBelle]
      #782687 - 04/11/12 10:49 AM

" . . .I felt compelled to respond."

As always.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: Maury]
      #782688 - 04/11/12 10:52 AM

And? What did YOU just do Maury????

It's so funny when you respond. You're doing EXACTLY the same thing, but somehow you're better for doing it.

Obekaybe...


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Re: What A Waste [Re: Maury]
      #782690 - 04/11/12 11:24 AM

You're not fooling ME, Mr. Lawyer. You come across as "friendly" but I have proof that you are one of the trolls (at least one). I've saved all your pm's! I also know who you tried to OUT, but I'm not going to give that information out to the board just yet. I'm waiting for the other person who knows what you know to come clean, publicly. I am not the kind of person who talks behind people's backs or OUTS anyone. But I've got YOU figured out. I will tell everyone in due time. I'll give this other person (she knows who she is) until midnight Friday to tell what she knows you know. THEN all will become CLEAR. Everything will work itself out, karma-like. It's too bad it has to be me who has this job of OUTING the villain, but it just my responsibility because it was handed to me and I figured it out. I have to do what's right for the board. THEN I will THROW YOU UNDER THE F**KIN' BUS!

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Re: What A Waste [Re: english7]
      #782692 - 04/11/12 11:26 AM

Shhhhhhhhh!

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Re: What A Waste [Re: english7]
      #782694 - 04/11/12 11:43 AM

LOL!

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Re: What A Waste [Re: SweetLight]
      #782696 - 04/11/12 11:56 AM

I suppose. . . if it is for . . . . "the good of the Board"

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Re: What A Waste [Re: english7]
      #782697 - 04/11/12 12:00 PM

LMAO!!!

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Re: What A Waste [Re: mewanda]
      #782729 - 04/11/12 04:22 PM

You make some valid points. However, I do not for one minute think you are a new poster that only lurks. Just can't see it, sorry.

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Re: What A Waste [Re: mewanda]
      #782737 - 04/11/12 05:02 PM

If anyone wants a window into seeing what would happen if a woman becomes president of this country, all they need to do is look at the JL Saga for insight into how the cabinet would run. This is why Canada booted Kim Campbell's ass off the PM job so quickly.

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Re: What A Waste [Re: mewanda]
      #782746 - 04/11/12 06:10 PM

I lurk here periodically and have posted only a few times, but I have to agree with this post. No, I don't know if "mewanda" is a "real" person or some one else by another name and I really don't give a rat's behind. As some one who only goes by the name listed and has no beef with anyone on here, and comes to "Stepfamily Issues" because she is a stepmother, what was said by "mewanda" is very true for me. I used to come her looking for some insight, perhaps even help. Now? I rarely come to this site. It seems to be only about back-biting, gossip, and attempting to prove who is the latest troll.

Enjoy all. Hope you have fun at your private bash.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: Step23Boys]
      #782755 - 04/11/12 07:32 PM

Really? We are supposed to believe these new people who have mostly previously lurked are now feeling the need to post? To give lectures on the behavior of the board?

uh uh..... and I am president of the United States.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: SRS]
      #782758 - 04/11/12 07:47 PM

Good evening Mr. President

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Re: What A Waste [Re: Maury]
      #782765 - 04/11/12 08:05 PM

hahahaha..... that actually was the first chuckle I've gotten from here in a long time.

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Re: What A Waste [Re: M5M5]
      #782825 - 04/12/12 08:56 AM

[quote]You make some valid points. However, I do not for one minute think you are a new poster that only lurks. Just can't see it, sorry. [/quote]

Exactly. A lurker would slink away completely disinterested in the drama.....

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Re: What A Waste [Re: Avaya]
      #782839 - 04/12/12 11:02 AM

When Mewanda, Step23boys and MinnesotaMom have dealt with the months long, sometimes years long, betrayal and stupidity that ONE, maybe two posters, have brought to this place, then I'll give a rats behind about their opinions.

Armchair quarterback all you want, from your lofty perch way on high, and tsk tsk over how petty and mean we all are, while you come in from the blue and drop insults.

This mess IS NOT pretty, and NO ONE is happy at how it turned out, but unfortunately excising the poison isn't pretty.

If you don't like it here? Take a walk. We have some decent people that want to get over this mess without snap judgements from strangers.

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Edited by javajunkiee (04/12/12 11:13 AM)


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Re: What A Waste [Re: javajunkiee]
      #782840 - 04/12/12 11:04 AM

Do I really need to cut and paste the temper tantrum I had last night?

If everyone simply STOPS talking about it and lets it all GO, it'll stop that much sooner.

Love you jj, truly I do -- but continuing to post to the idjits just keeps them around. And if they're all a figment of one person's imagination, she is still getting the attention she craves.

Don't feed into it, please.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: BeachBabeRN]
      #782844 - 04/12/12 11:10 AM

I love you too BB, but I didn't see your post last night, and you're not the only one who gets to have temper tantrums. I don't have them often, but when I have em, it's just like potato chips - you can't have just one.

Trust me though, I'm about over my limit with all of this, so you won't be hearing much more out of me.

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Re: What A Waste [Re: javajunkiee]
      #782846 - 04/12/12 11:18 AM

Well I'm glad I know you other places also then JJ --

I lose my temper so rarely that I use all the emotion up in one fell swoop. Then I'm done.

I've been watching, reading and not responding for months. If I can't say something nice, etc.....you know the deal.

Interestingly enough, there have been no postings from JL or any of her other egos. That's a good thing. Perhaps she has taken me at my word.

One can only hope.


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Re: What A Waste [Re: javajunkiee]
      #782871 - 04/12/12 02:48 PM

VERY well said, java!

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