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Re: why would EX need... [Re: cpnebraska]
      #783648 - 04/22/12 11:28 PM

I have given him kids ss info multiple times. Also he lost birth cert during our marriage I ordered copies for my use after divorce for schools etc.

---> Then that is what I would tell him; and that he can request copies (and pay for them).

---> I gave the ex the originals of our children's BC and SS Cards when I gave him physical custody and made copies for myself. What I should have done was requested certified copies of the BCs and given those to him as he lost the original 'certificate' ones.

I doubt welfare but guess its possible.

---> True...if he were trying to claim the children.

He said (after having them on it tor 2 years) that his insurance is doubting that our kids are his. Why would they suddenly doubt it after covering them for two years? Seems fishy to me.

---> Could be because he been covering someone else's kids that he shouldn't have? If so, the insurance company would ask for proof of biology snd/or court order.

If you air your dirty linen in public, expect people to comment on the skid marks!

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Re: why would EX need... [Re: LexieBelle]
      #783655 - 04/23/12 08:14 AM

My employer did a fraud investigation as many employees were carrying kids on thier family health insurance plan that weren't thier's or elegible. All employee's had to submit s.s.#'s, copies of birth certificates, divorce papers (if applicable) and sign affidavits (sp?) that dependent children they were claiming were actually thier's.

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Re: why would EX need... [Re: akrkck]
      #783656 - 04/23/12 08:34 AM

I had to show all of that to re-add everyone when my company switched carriers. The first carrier didn't even blink when I added my SKs. But I distinctly remember the second required that either my spouse had primary custody OR my spouse was ordered to provide insurance or they wouldn't allow it. DH was ordered to cover them, but I had to provide BCs, cetified copy of the order, and our marriage license. It was a huge PITA.

Forgiveness is...letting go of the hope that the past can be changed.

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Re: why would EX need... [Re: Gecko]
      #783657 - 04/23/12 09:34 AM

Thanks everyone. I told him I would scan copies of the birth certs but the stamped copies weren't leaving my hands.
He should have divource papers and if not he can run down to the court house and pay to get copies. I've done it and it isn't hard.

I don't trust them and wanted to see if anyone knew of something that required this info to pull off. I don't want to go to court ($$) but am not worried if I do. I like to be prepared ahead of time.

I can handle anything that was brought up here.

Having one kid makes you a parent, two makes you a referee!

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Re: why would EX need... [Re: cpnebraska]
      #783661 - 04/23/12 10:38 AM

These are all items that the ex can inquire for themself.

All the ex has to do is fill out the paperwork, pay the appropiate fees and provide proof of who they are and bingo, next thing you know they have copies of any paperwork they need.

So simple an ex can do

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Re: why would EX need... [Re: cpnebraska]
      #783665 - 04/23/12 12:20 PM

Depends. I had to provide a BC and SS info for all of my kids for insurnace when I started my job. My x had to provide the same. Neither of us needed marriage and divorce papers because we were the primary carrier, not a spouse. My employer will only cover stepchildren if they live primarily with the employee. A CO saying the parent is ordered to cover doesn't cut it if the kids live with the other parent. The parent would have to find other means of insurance.

I understand him needing the divorce papers but not the marriage certificate. Obviously if you have a legal divorce you were legally married.

When we were together, you said you'd die for me. Now, I think it's time you kept your promise.

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