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LadyBugRN
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Re: OK Missy

[Re: Debi]
#152723 - 10/02/06 03:12 PM

I know, it's another loss and those are so very hard. I understand. But, something made you "test" him in the first place. A gut feeling... Pay attention to those. If it's something he did or said, or didn't say, it set off a red flag for you. If it is totally you (and my guess it's not) then give yourself some time to heal, before dating anyone right now. Until you are healed, this will just be a repeating pattern with anyone/everyone.

There is a lot to be said for being totally healed before going into any relationship, even just casual dating. I know for me, I have gotten to a place that if it works, great! If not, I'll still be just fine. My life is full as it is. Sure, it would be a really nice addition to my life to have that someone special, but not a make it or break it kind of thing. I am happy with who I am and the way my life is right now. If something or someone should come along, I'd embrace it. If not, I'm still a whole person, 100% on my own and I'm going to be okay that way.

Hugs,
Lori

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"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about learning to dance in the rain."

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