staar
recently joined
Reged: 06/27/05
Posts: 2
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has anyone have any advice for me because i am so upset because i really think my hubby is gonna file for a divorce he hasnt exactly said that he wants one but hes said that he cant give me anymore chances but i am so in love with him we have 1 son who is 2 almost 3 and one on the way and I dont want my kids growing up in a divorced family i know he still loves me he keeps accusing me of cheating on him and all of this other dumb stuff hes denying that this baby that im having is his....hes also mad because i have this habit of making online friends but its my only source to people because we are about 7 hours away from our hometown and my only source of friends is to make online friends i mean i have a few frinds im friends with his friends wife and with one of his friends g/f's but that isnt enuff for me i need other firends to and its hard to make friends here......hopefully sumone has a lil advice for me please help me
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Akyavasha
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Reged: 06/17/05
Posts: 28
Loc: Iowa
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. The only advice I can give is to try to talk with him about what is going on. With no acusations or arguing. Possibly go to marriage counciling and maybe the two of you can work it out. Also, a paternity test to proove to him that he is the father of you unborn child may help too. It's also possible that the reason he's acusing you of infadelity is because he feels guilty...withmy husband it was always the first sign that he was messing around behind my back. I hope this helps.
I wish you luck sweetie.
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wendyuna
journeyman
Reged: 08/03/05
Posts: 74
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wow, we were in the same boat. i did everything i could to save my marriage but eventually i had to file for divorce. our baby is due in december. when the time came for him to do everything HE could do he decided it wasn't worth it (!?!!!?) and left. I hate my family being ripped in two but there is nothing i can do about it. i am scared for the future, but hopeful it will all be for the best someday. i hope things work out for you. my advice so far would be to see if he would be willing to talk to you about the things you talk about online. that might be a start. and what your first responder said about not arguing and accusing should help. basically just keep it simple and honest and geared towards coming together and then let the chips fall where they may. he will need to step in eventually and do the same, if he hasn't been already. good luck!
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royce
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Reged: 06/02/05
Posts: 155
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