Lucy44
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Loc: Rochester, MN
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Why did the IP's go away, and when are they coming back?
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Miranda
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Reged: 06/02/05
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Loc: North of Mexico
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[quote] Why did the IP's go away, and when are they coming back? [/quote]
I have no idea, but in the past they have done away with IP's and then brought them back a few months later. It seems to be a normal cycle of events here.
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Lucy44
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Loc: Rochester, MN
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That's funny...I hadn't noticed them missing until a couple of weeks ago. It's handy to have them when you smell a troll.
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Renee
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Loc: The Palmetto State
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Makes you wonder if this isn't another case of posting from the other side of the fence. Is this really the hubby in the pic? I mean, honestly, how narcissistic and shallow do you have to be to choose 'trophywife' as your handle? The poster interprets the situation like a pissed off guy would view it.....
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Spring
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The really scary thing is...there truly IS women out there like her. Sad...I agree with Lucy...they give us all a bad name.
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trophywife
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She has decided to wait out the 16 months, which are now 12.
In the meantime, she has seen a very good lawyer that specializes in matrimonial issues--I believe she only represents women. The lawyer sent her to an accountant/financial adviser and a psychiatrist.
The former told her what kind of records to look for and helped her track down assets and investments she had no knowledge about. Her husband has a successful business but also lots of property and private business investments spread around. She used the tax season to express more of an interest in financial matters and her husband accommodated her.
She is seeing the psychiatrist who is helping her with sense of isolation her husband has imposed by his distant and cool behavior--he is a cold fish.
Further at the advice of both the lawyer and accountant she is keeping a diary of her personal expenses, household expenses, etc. and is establishing a better pattern of support through what she spends.
I have put her in touch with a few divorced friends, though, she has not revealed her plans, and she is reinforcing her relationships with friends and family.
Now all she can do is wait things out.
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