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Re: i feel ignored [Re: kate613]
      #204097 - 02/26/07 11:54 AM

I blew-up a picture of his ex, taped it to a dart board and keep it in the basement. Things get stressfull, I play darts. It is hard, but knowing you aren't like HER should be a load of relief. There is a site called 'dealing with the difficult ex'... didn't help me much, but it may help you.

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Re: i feel ignored [Re: kate613]
      #204164 - 02/26/07 02:52 PM

Kate,

I give you a lot of credit for not walking away. I was with my x SO for 3 years and he ended our relationship because the stress of my custody battle was too much for him. I can tell you that I wish he had talked to me about how he felt, so please do that instead of assuming that your SO has too much on his plate to listen to you.

I was fighting for full placement from 50/50 after my x was arressted for possession of child p0rn. I ended up losing 2 months after my x SO left. I don't think I had ever felt so alone in my life. I don't know the story with his X's bf, but there are many reasons for someone to be labeled as a sex offender and if the courts don't think he's a danger to those girls they won't do a damn thing.

Anyway my advice is talk to him no matter how stressed you may think he is because it's much better than you getting so stressed that you just say "I can't take it anymore!"

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Re: i feel ignored [Re: lifegoeson]
      #204217 - 02/26/07 04:19 PM

Ha!! I was going to market an item similar to that!! LOL!! That and some voodoo dolls!!

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Re: i feel ignored [Re: kate613]
      #204969 - 03/01/07 07:55 AM

I just wanted to share with you that I can relate to your situation somewhat...I am going through something similiar. The guy I am with is going through a custody battle with his X who is pretty crazy. There is quite a bit of drama. I totally understand where you are coming from...it is very hard! We actually have a very complicated story...that I will PM you that if what to hear it because I really don't want it out there for all to see! But just know that you can vent here...at least to me and I will understand...I have to vent a lot and no one really understands...I get a lot of the same responses you do!

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