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Re: Alimony after Divorce is Finalized? [Re: Susanf31]
      #205143 - 03/01/07 11:33 AM

So, you've had the kids 90/10 for 2 years and never went back to court to get your custody arrangment changed to reflect that? Big mistake on your part.

---> Why a "mistake"...for some people the kids are more important than court orders.

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Re: Alimony after Divorce is Finalized? [Re: RunningScared]
      #205148 - 03/01/07 11:43 AM

I am thinking about relocating out of state. I was curious on my chances.

---> Depends on what your state laws say in regards to it. I would consult with an attorney with specializes in Family Law (take your Decree with you) and find out where you stand. Be prepared to explain your reasons for the move, how the move is in the best interests of the child(ren)...especially since you are moving them from the other parent and have a proposed Parenting Plan.

---> Even though she may not be "involved" now...you need to be prepared that as soon as you inform her of the proposed move, that you're in for one hell of a fight because you're trying to take HER child(ren) away from her!

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Re: Alimony after Divorce is Finalized? [Re: Gecko]
      #205156 - 03/01/07 11:56 AM

---> Why a "mistake"...for some people the kids are more important than court orders
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Because I think it's important when parents have 50/50 "on paper" but no where near that in real life, that they get it's accurately reflected on legal documents. Otherwise, you run into problems that this guy is going to have.

You have an absentee mom in real life, but an involved, 50/50 mom legally.


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Re: Alimony after Divorce is Finalized? [Re: Susanf31]
      #205198 - 03/01/07 12:45 PM

Even if it were written as 90/10 I think she could still make it difficult for him to move away. The NCP should have a right to stop a move out of state (IMO) as long as they are an involved parent, even if it's not 50/50.

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Re: Alimony after Divorce is Finalized? [Re: Susanf31]
      #205214 - 03/01/07 01:16 PM

Because I think it's important when parents have 50/50 "on paper" but no where near that in real life, that they get it's accurately reflected on legal documents. Otherwise, you run into problems that this guy is going to have.

---> What is "on paper" has NO real effect on move-aways. You could have an NCP who "on paper" ONLY has 70/30 and yet is very involved with their child(ren) and thus effectively put a stop to relocating said child(ren).

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