Gecko
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The ONLY thing that is "confusing" here is your post.
First you want Dad out of the child's life because having two "dads" would be confusing. Easily solution...don't get remarried and then she won't have two "dads".
Then you say that he's not a "great father" because he what...refuses to give up his Parenting Time, he won't let his 12-year old daughter run around and he keeps on her about her grades. Wow...you're right, he's just a BAD father and should have his parental rights terminated (that's sarcasm).
NOW you're thinking that may HE should have custody. Huh? Why on earth would you want to give custody to someone who you claiming in a lousy father and human being?
Actually...it's not all that confusing, we see this kind of shyt all the time here. Mom and Dad get divorced...one or both shack up with the first piece of ass that comes along and now the former spouse and/or child(ren) is an "inconvenience/embarrassment" to their NEW "happy little family" and needs to go. In your particular case, if you can't get rid of Dad so you can replace him with your new husband, just get rid of the child and then you and hew hubby can have a child and have your "happy little family".
So my "help"...give custody of the child to your ex, she'll be better off without a Mom like you.
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meandmygirl12
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I'm a wonferful mother and my child isn't an embarrassment. Would a bad mother offer her ex custody? Because that's what I did this afternoon. He said he would think on it for a week or 2 and get back with me. I will miss my daughter but this way she won't have to be around her new step dad. I will see my daughter AT LEAST every other weekend, so it's not like I won't have a relationship with her. I'll keep you posted.
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BlendedFamily
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Wow.. that's amazing. A BM offers custody of child to BF and the BF has to think about it!!!!!
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agui667
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Troll...This can't be for real, can it?
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BlendedFamily
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You would hope that this isn't for real! If it is, I really feel sorry for that lil girl or should I say tween!
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M5M5
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uh why would you not want her around a SF (when he becomes her SF)? That makes NO sense! And if you marry the guy and you get your daughter EOW...where is the SF gonna go while you have her? Or do you plan on spending your time with her in a hotel?
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Gecko
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Wow.. that's amazing. A BM offers custody of child to BF and the BF has to think about it!!!!!
---> Why? It's called...thinking about what is best for the child.
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Gecko
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Would a bad mother offer her ex custody?
---> Yes.
I will miss my daughter but this way she won't have to be around her new step dad.
---> Huh? So NOW you don't want child...who gets along with your fiance and who is good to her...be be around him?
---> Man...the shyt just keeps getting deeper and deeper!
---> Why don't you just admit that the child is cramping your style and be don't with it?!?
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BlendedFamily
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[quote]Wow.. that's amazing. A BM offers custody of child to BF and the BF has to think about it!!!!!
---> Why? It's called...thinking about what is best for the child. [/quote]
My logic would seem to think if the BF is an active participant in the D's life then he wouldn't even have to think about it.. he would automatically have said "Yes". KWIM?
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MominNY
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I don't understand why you think your 12-yr old would be confused? Seriously. I think she may be confused as to why she's being moved. Also, be prepared, once dad has custody, he has full rights to take you to court for child support.
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