Gecko
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One swift, meaningful slap...yes, I would do that. That is not a "spanking." My kids, at 15 and 12, are too old to spank.
---> Oh yeah, I can see how slapping your child in the face is SOOOOOOOOOOO much "better", than a quick pop on the butt. As for considering YOUR 12YO "too old"...that is YOUR parental choice.
Also, no man in my family would be doing genital examinations on my TEENAGE daughter's genitals before going to the Dr.
---> Man...talk about exaggeration. Get your facts straight...oh that's right...you can't...otherwise you couldn't slam him.
I dno't think Gr8dad sees his role in what is going on with his SD.
---> No...I think the problem is that YOU can't see. Ray's daughter is just that...HIS daughter and she will NEVER be more than that anymore than Ray will be nothing more than their mother's husband. In GDaddy's FAMILY...there is NO "yours" and "mine"...it's all "ours".
We've all seen his short fuse and penchant for anger.
---> Hell girl...you piss me off too, doesn't mean I'm beating on the hubby, kids and cat when I'm "offline"!
He seems only interested in protecting himself at this point.
---> First of all...he would be STUPID not to. Even if CPS determines "unfounded", it still doesn't change the fact that a family will go through hell in the meantimes!
---> Second...he could have just let her go live with her friend like she wanted and washed his hands of her...after all...she's not his REAL daughter, but instead he look for a solution that was HER best interests. As for the "show" before the siblings...ABSOLUTELY necessary. What daughter was doing was WRONG...remember, she has BLACKMAILED her parents...she's not a "hero", she's not a "victim"...she was being held accountable for her actions before her peers.
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nrvouswrk
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It is sad that everytime GR8Dad has an issue with his kids, someone brings up that bit about him examining his child.
Wasn't he a medic in the military for goodness sake? I had to help bathe my 11 year old son when he broke his arm.
Does that make me a pervert too?
Edited by nrvouswrk (05/04/07 05:37 PM)
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Gecko
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Thanks Rebecca...I couldn't remember her age, but I knew she was pretty young.
I remember how several woman b*tched that it was SOOOOOOO inappropriate for a FATHER to look at his daugther's privates...that it was actually BETTER if he had just grabbed some strange female off the streets to look. Pretty freaking sad.
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Gecko
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It is sad that everytime GR8Dad has an issue with his kids, someone brings up that bit about him examining his child.
---> Of course...can't be feeling sorry for him ya know.
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agui667
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I agree that a parent should never be black mailed by a child, ever! I just think that gr8dad may have bullied her one too many times...and this is just my opinion.
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M5M5
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Ok, I thought the daughter he did that to was his BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTER! Please show me a post stating otherwise. And if mom and biodad isn't around, I see nothing wrong with it so long as the daughter is comfy with it.
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agui667
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gr8dad examining his step daughter is sooooo wrong on so many different levels..Arrrg don't get me started!
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M5M5
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OMG...susan is making an issue over a 9 yr old girl...my God...
I also seem to recall that she (and others) always throw this up in gr8dad's face everytime they don't agree with him. Disgusting.
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M5M5
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Why is that so wrong???? She was 9 yrs old...HE is her father figure (the ONLY one in her life...hell she calls him dad), he LOOKED at it (was NOT an examination with stirrups). There is NOTHING wrong with that. Are you saying that if my SS had a major cut or something on his winky...and mom and dad were not around...I should not look at it to see if it warrants a trip to the ER or if he could take care of it at home with some ointment? Mind you this actually happened when my SS was 8 yrs old.
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agui667
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A stepdad looking at his young step daughters vagina creeps me out....And I doubt she was too comfortable with it at all...BTW, when did gr8dad come into these kids lives?
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