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ssmom79
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Ex has a new man...

#264674 - 07/20/07 03:51 PM

Exwife has new BF...been all of about 60 days since we found out about the divorce. S-Kids already met the guy. Now she is asking us for our input.

Our feelings are that it's too soon to be meeting men and introducing them to the kids. She moved on within a month of her divorce to DH, and confused kids. Now she is doing it again. We also feel like it's not our business. She is a grown woman and can figure out for herself is someone is worthy of meeting the kids.

What she is really looking for is us to say OK and move on. She even said she did backgrounds checks with employers and the armed forces. We can't tell her who to date, or who to involve the kids with. That's her personal life.

Although we don't agree with bringing a new man in so soon, she is going to do it anyway. I'm just wondering about our response...so here it is....

I appreciate you telling us about "X" coming into your life. We can't tell you what to do, but we ask that you be careful who you bring into the kid's lives. If you feel like this man is OK for the kids, then we trust your judgement. I appreciate you mentioning that you did background checks, but no background check will tell us how he relates to the kids. Only time will tell, and we will hope for the best.

Edited by ssmom79 (07/20/07 04:15 PM)

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