Relayer
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Reged: 03/13/07
Posts: 9506
Loc: Moorglade Mover
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no..he abandoned you not the kids...you dont live together..
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Relayer
Carpal \'Tunnel

Reged: 03/13/07
Posts: 9506
Loc: Moorglade Mover
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or
Habitual cruel and inhuman treatment
for locking you out of the house and changing the locks
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mandagayle
newbie
Reged: 07/31/07
Posts: 28
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ohhhh. good point. didn't think of that. can't figure out why my lawyer isn't concerned about me living with someone. i guess she thinks the taped confessions will be enough. i worry so much about this that i don't sleep well.
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BeckaLeigh
Carpal \'Tunnel

Reged: 06/08/05
Posts: 6875
Loc: Texas
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I thought the same thing when she posted about this on the SF board, I believe it was.
-------------------- I tried being normal once. Worst five minutes of my life.
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mommy2boys
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Reged: 06/01/05
Posts: 497
Loc: Louisiana
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Not necessarily. My attorney as well as my X's attorney told both of us that once the divorce is filed for you are free to live as though you are single, and the community is then severed, meaning that if you or you STBX rack up CC bills after the divorce is filed for only the person that made the purchases is responsible for paying for them.
Check your state statutes, to see what they say.
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focusedon2
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Reged: 12/10/05
Posts: 2136
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Quote:
or unless the parties cohabited after a knowledge by complainant of the adultery.
Doesn't that mean that the first grounds for adultery are valid?
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Lavanda
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Reged: 11/12/07
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In SC one of the fault based D is adultery. However, another spouse's marrital misconduct (e.g. your adultery) can be used by the other party as defence to D. So, you can try, but you ex can raise your adultery as defence.
-------------------- Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice
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icwal
enthusiast
Reged: 11/19/07
Posts: 334
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Maybe it does depend on the state but I have been told by my attorney to really really be careful about what I do and whom I go out with. I filed 2 years ago with a couple more years to go and I havent started dating anyone or looking to..would rather stick needle in my eyes but I do look forward to meeting a great guy someday..just not now. As far as the finacial thing that is also up for debate. If they are still married or seperated they can't be buying and paying for their significant others expenses and pissing money away to keep their spouse from getting that portion of it during settlement.
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