lilgypsy
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I'm so sick of everything having to do with my 2nd ex. Tonight, I have been debating running long and far away from here...screw the court order allowing him access to his daughter. And how many times does a lunatic need to be arrested before anything is done???
Today, the whole scam with a supervisor---it was just that--a SCAM. I was smart enough to follow the advice I had gotten on the forum and I didn't buy into it. All day, I was on pins and needles scared that he would come to my home. Early this evening, I went to the grocery store thinking that he'd be out of town by then to make it back for his curfew--- we needed diapers, milk and coffee.
There I am in the baby isle with two kids in a cart and he comes walking around the corner. Very calmly, I said that he shouldn't be here, shouldn't be anywhere myself. My daughter had no idea what was going on and started to stand up in the cart, wanting to get out to see her Dad. He asked why I was doing this to him and he dropped to the ground and grabbed my legs throwing a tantrum and was trying to pull me down to the ground in the process. (This was one of his tactics, in the past...to grab onto my legs so that I couldn't leave...then if I did, he'd pull me down with him and keep me there until I said that I forgave him) I yelled at him to let go of me and when he reached up to try to pull me down, I started kicking.... thankfully there were people around quickly and the police were phoned. There was also a woman who scooped up the kids and took them until things were sorted through---I wish I knew who she was...
It's like I told the policeman. It's bad enough that he behaved the way that he did in the past, but now is just as bad.
My first ex is trying to completely alienate myself from the kids so I'm going to court to try to stop that from happening but this [censored] is ruining my chances of having my family. It's not my fault he's a psycho, but I am being punished for it. Honestly, if I were a Judge, I wouldn't award my two older children to come back with a lunatic stalking around. But instead of putting away the nutjob, my kids are probably going to end up staying with their dad... he, in turn, is going to alienate me from my children until I am just a childhood memory and nothing more.
I don't know what to do anymore.~~~Throwing my hands in the air~~~
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Relayer
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Cleanup in Aisle 4!
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GO CUBBIES!!!!
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Drew
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Yes you do know what to do gypsy.
You are doing it. It is taxing and wearisome.
I know that was indeed just a vent. After your day, your vent should have been an in home sitter for your babies and a valium with at least two glasses of wine for you!
Hang in there lady. You are eyehole deep right now but you will get through this. After it is all over, your looking glass will reveal a strong independant woman.
I hope you have a much better day today.
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"living, learning, from my creator. you gave me life now show me how to live" c. cornell
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lilgypsy
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Thanks guys! I feel better after some sleep. I try to look forward to the days when all I'll have to worry about is the typical things---my business, the bills, the kids. Right now, I'm wondering how much it would cost to 'rent a man' By the height and weight-- to stand at my door LOL... Well, I woke up this morning hoping I broke his nose. Off character for me, but I still hope so:)
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jss1
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WOW thats just not your average trip to the grocery store. Did his mom give in to his tantrums or what?
Keep your chin up gyps
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PrincessJ
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Holy cow!
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lilgypsy
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He's a nut--- this is after I left him a year and a half ago already! His trial Date has been pushed to Decmeber 2nd and he'll be facing SEVEN charges instead of just the original four.....
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lilgypsy
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... AND I didn't get the damn groceries!
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Drew
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"""... AND I didn't get the damn groceries!"""
ROFL!! sorry but that made me laugh. Inappropriate behavior I know but......ROFL!
I think after reading the broken nose bit this just set me off!
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"living, learning, from my creator. you gave me life now show me how to live" c. cornell
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lilgypsy
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You're doomed! Sometimes, when these things happen, I find it almost dreamlike that I left him in the summer of 2006.
He has done some crazy shyt in that time. (I can feel cocky tonight because he's still not released:) When I was staying at my family's when I first left, he stood out on the front lawn screaming his love for me in the middle of the day. We stood looking out the window and he had a rope tied around his neck. My father opens the front door and says, "Uh, dumbas s, you tied the rope wrong." Then he shut the door and ordered a pizza while my ex got mad and drove away. That was a classic ex moment--one of endless ones.
You know, after this long though, wouldn't you run out of ideas and get bored?? Move on to someone else who may not throw ya in jail?? I have never been able to wrap my head around that guy and I doubt I ever will... I'm hoping they AT LEAST put him in some kind of hospital or something. I kow why they don't though... he seems soooo sweet, like a lost little boy. I remember when I was sucker to that... even covered in bruises I pitied him for hurting me---that pooorrr boy. Now-a-days I am becoming pretty jaded and cold to not only him, but people around me too. I don't think much would shock me.
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