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James428
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Help me to understand?
      #310693 - 10/25/07 01:32 PM

My wife and I have been seperated and going through the divorce process for some months now and she has continued to have a protection order against me and now all of a sudden out of the blue she text messages my phone yesterday saying that she didn't see me at work. This makes me feel good but not sure how to take that. We texted back and forth a little then I let her go. My ? is why would she do this? I am worried about becoming to excited that things could be finally going in the direction that I have wanted and then getting my feelings stomped on again. Maybe she is just trying to keep me on a string dont know. Not sure what to do about this any advice would be helpful.
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James


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Re: Help me to understand? [Re: James428]
      #310695 - 10/25/07 01:34 PM

If there is a protection order, should you be in any contact with her whatsoever? Maybe she's trying to bait you by contacting her and then turning you in. *not trying to be too negative*

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Re: Help me to understand? [Re: James428]
      #310767 - 10/25/07 03:21 PM

We texted back and forth a little then I let her go.

---> Let it go this time, but in the future, you don't want to do this because depending on how the RO is worded, this could be used as a "violation". On the other hand, HER contacting YOU would be grounds to have the order Quashed.

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Re: Help me to understand? [Re: James428]
      #311236 - 10/26/07 10:53 AM

I want to know how the protection order is helping her secure more of your money...
Kinda cool how that works, eh ?

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Re: Help me to understand? [Re: yregna]
      #312983 - 10/29/07 09:07 PM

heres one you can get in trouble for texting her understand that. Women get upset when you stop calling because they want you to be at thier beck and call. My advice to you is change your number. If she got a protective order agianst you why would you even talk to her?

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