almostheaven
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Make me azzhole.
-------------------- Char Fox
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Relayer
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Maybe the Romulans will...LOL
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almostheaven
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Reged: 07/13/04
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Hmmm, responding to oneself. Not a good sign.
-------------------- Char Fox
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cprater7
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i'm new and not sure where i should post this. I have separated from him and i have an assault charge against him and a 2 yr protective order with possesion of the kids. He served me with divorce papers first and wants custody. He has been verbaly,mentaly,physicaly abusive for 9 of the 16 yrs of marriage. He has my boys completely hating me, disrespecting me. A judge wouldn't give him primary residence would they? He does have the dirtiest lawyer in town? I have kept a log of abuse and the everyday things my children tell me because of him. I cont to tell my boys that i love them and i did this for them. They think i am keeping them from their dad, and all this is my fault but the judge ordered set visitation not me. The ex has told my boys just about everything about all of our adult issues and they don't need to know adult issues. I have never said one bad thing about him and i will continue not to say anything. I can barely talk to them because when they are not with him they spend the entire time at home on the phone with him. I fear they may let the oldest go with him he is almost 15 and here you can say at 12 who you want to live with. But the judge still will decide. Any advice or past experiences that could shed some light for me? I thought i was away from the abuse and control but he is still trying to control my household thru the kids.
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[quote]Hmmm, responding to oneself. Not a good sign. [/quote]
Seen you do it plent of times...dont you need to do an away mission or something?
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[quote]i'm new and not sure where i should post this. I have separated from him and i have an assault charge against him and a 2 yr protective order with possesion of the kids. He served me with divorce papers first and wants custody. He has been verbaly,mentaly,physicaly abusive for 9 of the 16 yrs of marriage. He has my boys completely hating me, disrespecting me. A judge wouldn't give him primary residence would they?
---> Possibly
He does have the dirtiest lawyer in town? I have kept a log of abuse
--->Do you have things like police reportss/arrest? If not, they are usless
and the everyday things my children tell me because of him.
--> Hearsay
I cont to tell my boys that i love them and i did this for them. They think i am keeping them from their dad, and all this is my fault but the judge ordered set visitation not me.
--->Thats because its not your job, its the judges
The ex has told my boys just about everything about all of our adult issues and they don't need to know adult issues. I have never said one bad thing about him and i will continue not to say anything. I can barely talk to them because when they are not with him they spend the entire time at home on the phone with him. I fear they may let the oldest go with him he is almost 15 and here you can say at 12 who you want to live with. But the judge still will decide. Any advice or past experiences that could shed some light for me? I thought i was away from the abuse and control but he is still trying to control my household thru the kids. [/quote]
---> What proof of the physical violence do you have?
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BeckaLeigh
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I wish you two would finish your love affair somewhere else, darn it. I am getting tired of hearing your foreplay, like shut yer cake hole. LOL
-------------------- I tried being normal once. Worst five minutes of my life.
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[quote]I wish you two would finish your love affair somewhere else, darn it. I am getting tired of hearing your foreplay, like shut yer cake hole. LOL [/quote]
I would say piehole but Char obviously needs to be on a diet..just looking out for her..
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BeckaLeigh
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Aw. How sweet and a$$y at the same time. I didnt realize Char had a problem with her weight. Shows how much I get on the other boards.
-------------------- I tried being normal once. Worst five minutes of my life.
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almostheaven
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Loc: West Virginia
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You've never see me responding to myself. Your imagination is very vivid though, I'll give you that.
-------------------- Char Fox
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