Maury
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I would imagine that, at a minimu, income may be imputed to her at a minum wage 40 hour per week job. Many states have a presumptive minimum to determine support.
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Relayer
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[quote]matthew it doesn't really matter what she says her expenses are. all the times my DH has been to court it didn't matter what the expenses were on either side...just the income.
and regardless of what she puts in her savings account that doesn't mean it stays there. maybe she thought she'd try to save $400 per month and she ends up using that every month to pay rent, etc.
and to everyone else....how do we know that he pushed her out? so many BMs try to do this to the dads - try to limit parenting time, are litigous, etc. etc. and i don't see nearly the bashing on that side of the fence. for some reason it seems to be acceptable for a mother to push out a father but not the other way around. even mention the fact the mother isn't around and he "drove her away" when a father isn't around he's a dead beat that has abandoned the family....the double standards are annoying. [/quote]
There is no double standard. I would be saying the same thing to a birth mother under these circumstances. Actually, he's probably getting a break (from me at least) because he is a man. Any CP who has pulled what he has (and the list is long) derserves what he is getting in terms of disgust from the board. I am an equal opportunity bullshit caller..Who says it is acceptable for a BM to push out a BF? Not me and not "most" on this board (though there are some that are doing the same thing mathew does and a certain group does in fact employ the double). But most folks here giving him a hard time would be doing the same thing if the roles were reversed. His actions are particularily egregious and harmful to the child.
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Cinder2
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[quote]her and our son are ordered to have con-joint counseling once a week [/quote]
I'm glad to see she is going to get to see her son once a week. Or are you going to come up with a reason why your son can't do this either?
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rocketgirl
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I'm pretty sure I remember him posting about his son "not wanting to go" and how could he get him out of it... maybe it wasn't him, but I'm pretty sure it was....
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Cinder2
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And he also had some reason about why the child couldn't go last time on any day that was possible for the mom.
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DeeCan
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I don't care who you are - Mom or Dad - if you are pushing the other parent out of that's child's life, I'll ream your a$$ over it. I am NOT gender biased when it comes to that issue.
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almostheaven
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And Matt continues to post the same things over and over. Only the dates change, but the names remain the same. And he goes about the same amount of time between each posting. And he doesn't respond back to all the garbage he creates. And he never takes any advice given to him.
Does that sound like someone with a problem looking for help, or someone out of school looking for fun?
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almostheaven
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About every 2 to 3 months, you will experience Matthew dejavu.
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Maury
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I am confused here. My understanding is that mom has been ansenmt from the children's lives for a period for her own reasons. The court apparently had concerns to restrict those visits. Why is everyone all over Matt for the result?
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Cinder2
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You'd have to read all of Matthew's stuff to understand.
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